READ ME FIRST! (7/27/2013) I am soon starting a new job in a metallurgy department for a major company, and I couldn't be happier about it. I am also, at the time of writing this, recovering from a fairly major surgery, which has forever changed my life (feel free to ask about it, I won't keep it a secret for curious parties).
What I'm honestly looking for are a couple new friends, since I left all of mine behind in California and New Mexico. I need a tea buddy and a knitting buddy.
I have fallen deeply in love with my soul mate, SirYumYum, and we are married, so I'm only looking for female partners now. Technically, Sir and I are monogamous, but I've been given the okay to see women. It's somewhat complicated, but since I've had a polyamorous past, I would like to find that special ladyfriend out there for me.
Every time I sit down to work on this profile, I always feel inadequate. I wonder if I should answer the questions as they are posed, or try to work in some silly, witty banter with a non-existent audience. I tend to write whatever spontaneously comes to mind and the mood is obviously reflected in the narrative.
I can be somewhat adventurous (I love spontaneous decisions when asked "What do you want to do?"), though I'm the kind that would prefer to curl up with a hot mug of tea or cocoa, a blanket and a good book or game.
Not to say I am a complete shut in. I do engage in recreation. My main focus right now is billiards, 8 and 9 ball. Lately, I've been picking up swing and blues dancing, but I'm pretty crap at it. Also, I would like to pick up hiking and other outdoorsy behaviors as soon as my health allows for it.
Please do feel free to ask about the number of other activities I enjoy, but rarely find time to do.
I am squishy, protean, and alive