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My self-summary
You should check out my old profile for tests and those things. tanukitwc.

Currently pregnant. So, bear that in mind if you message me.

I have fallen deeply in love with my soul mate, SirYumYum, and we are married, so I'm only looking for female partners now. I date RenetaScian and Keshena and am super in love with them both. Sir and I are also looking for a ladyfriend to share.

I consider myself selectively polyamorous. I am generally forbidden from seeing male suitors (with few exceptions). So, girlfriends are where it is at for me right now.

Every time I sit down to work on this profile, I always feel inadequate. I wonder if I should answer the questions as they are posed, or try to work in some silly, witty banter with a non-existent audience. I tend to write whatever spontaneously comes to mind and the mood is obviously reflected in the narrative.

I can be somewhat adventurous (I love spontaneous decisions when asked "What do you want to do?"), though I'm the kind that would prefer to curl up with a hot mug of tea or cocoa, a blanket and a good book or game.

Not to say I am a complete shut in. I do engage in recreation. My main focus right now is billiards, 8 and 9 ball. Lately, I've been picking up swing and blues dancing, but I'm pretty crap at it. Kung fu has been a thing recently as well. Suh do kwan, though it used to be called peaceful mind way. I am testing soon for brown belt, which would make me over half way to black. I would like to pick up hiking and other outdoorsy behaviors as soon as my health allows for it.

I also recently picked up the cello. I'm taking lessons in Boulder every week. I still squawk a lot, but I'm getting better.

Please do feel free to ask about the number of other activities I enjoy, but rarely find time to do.

I am squishy, protean, and alive
What I’m doing with my life
I studied materials engineering in school.

I used to want to be a filmmaker. Or rather, I should say, I used to think I could be a filmmaker. I still want to be.

I know a little, (the range being from trivial information to a somewhat in depth working knowledge), about a lot of things. My plan is to be one of those interesting people who know a lot about a few things.
I’m really good at
I am good at listening. I always have been. I was the one people went to for advice. It can be frustrating if I want someone to listen to me.

I am good with my hands. I knit, I play video games, I solder, I cook. I play billiards, though it's questionable how good I am at that.

I am good at Kung fu. I pick it up very quickly. My instructors like to throw a lot of information at me to see what sticks.

I'm good at critical thinking. I guess I'd better be since I am an engineer.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I am (choose your favorite): husky, chubby, fat,
curvy, heavy, BBW, plump, Rubenesque, full-figured, plus-sized,
voluptuous, buxom, or my personal favorite, zaftig. Though I am less so now. I've lost 90 lbs in the last year. I'm still a big girl though.

I really do not know how much the above affects other's opinions of
me. I like to think that there is more to me than just my body. I
am working on accepting who I am and how I look.

Perhaps another feature that stands out is my laughter. Or my large
eyes. I can only hazard guesses, but these are probably fairly
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I wholeheartedly do not like making lists like this, but I feel that this section needs a few key names:

Pratchett, Gaiman, Sedaris, Lovecraft
Kubrick, Coens, Gilliam, Kurosawa, Nolan
Belle & Sebastian, The Shins, Modest Mouse, The Rolling Stones, David Bowie, Oingo Boingo, Imogen Heap, Talking Heads

Again, this is just a sampling. I am obviously a complex person and I find it hard to express all my tastes here.
The six things I could never do without
The broad list:
1) Music, in all manner of the word
2) Contact with other people, friends or complete strangers
3) Comfort, in any form
4) Learning
5) Love
6) Playing, games or otherwise

The daily routine:
1) Tea
2) Stuffed animals, cthulhu and an octopus named Mephisto from squishable
3) Medicine, headaches are a constant problem
4) Lolcats, what can I say, I am addicted
5) Final Fantasy, I was raised on good video games
6) Cuddles, I love to be hugged or touched. Again, addicted.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I am a worrier, so too much would be the answer to this one.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how it's not me that is unreliable, it's my chronic pain disorders. So, bear that in mind if you want to meet me. I don't like to cancel plans, but sometimes taking a shower wipes me out for the day. Not every day is bad, though, luckily. =) If you want to know what I suffer from, see below...
On a typical Friday night I am
Knitting. Knitting, knitting knitting, holy crap knitting, I have too many active projects. If not knitting, then hanging out with the Husband or trying to get out with my new set of Colorado friends. =)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As much as I love outer space and astronomy, I have a pretty severe phobia of the planet Jupiter.

I really want to learn to play the accordion.

I suffer from crippling endometriosis, ankylosing spondylitis, and fibromyalgia. I also have adult ADHD, general anxiety disorder, and bipolar. These latter three are well managed with medication. The pain disorders are mostly managed. Please don't let these be a barrier in getting to know me though. I'm more than a stereotype. 💜

Also, I'm sorry if I appear in your visitors list a lot. It either means I like you, or I have really shitty memory, and can't recall if I've seen your profile or not. Part and parcel of being a spoonie.
You should message me if
I'm looking for a lover, a dear woman close to my heart, a best friend, a confidante. Are you her? 💜💜💜

You are in or around The Greater Denver metro area and you wanna get a cup of coffee, go fishing, play D&D, something to that effect!

If you are a bisexual or lesbian lady and you would be interested in a date.

If you are interested in dating me and the husband.

If you would like to join my husband and myself for some board/card games (Dominion, Catan, Agricola, Arkham Horror, Cards Against Humanity, etc)