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Fluvial

48 M Boston, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:47am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It is an arresting moment to sit down with the intention of writing a "self-summary" and draw a complete blank -- this shouldn't be so hard. I could be jokey and amusingly sarcastic (as I am prone to be), or attempt deep and thoughtful (which is where it looks like this is headed), or just go for bland and generic (which may be unavoidable). Probably I'm giving this too much thought, but that may be my signal characteristic - I'm extremely and incurably curious, about almost everything. I can find almost anything interesting, and I love to learn new things and share them with other incurably curious people. On the downside, the sheer volume of my interests probably makes me a dilettante, but on the upside I can at least carry a conversation on almost any subject (ok, except sports teams - I can't actually name a single Red Sock, which I presume is the singular of Red Sox, and if it isn't it should be).
I ended up as a corporate lawyer after planning to be a violinist, studying at Juilliard and all, then a brief foray into medical school. I'm still a musician at heart, and fortunately my job still allows me to have enough of a life that work is not all-consuming. I love to play piano and guitar, go to hear concerts of almost any kind, and just drive around listening to good music. I love movies, and reading, and I'm a major foodie and can't turn down a new restaurant or exotic dish. I can happily wander around a museum or gallery for hours, or play pool at a dive bar, or go ziplining in Costa Rica, which is to say I try to be open to as many new experiences as I can be.
Having reread what I just wrote, it sounds pretty pretentious. I would rather just say I'm a laid-back, fun person, I try to be kind and I have more empathy than is probably good for me, and I'm a huge romantic (as cliched as that sounds). If any of this piques your interest, I'd love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to avoid musing on existential questions before lunch, so I'll just say I'm trying to enjoy life and have no regrets for the parts I don't.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, playing piano and guitar, being easy to be around. Conversely, I'm not a master at "business gathering-style" small talk, and I'm impressed by those who are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea and I'd prefer not to guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Russell Hoban, Samuel Beckett, Neruda, Joyce Cary, James Joyce, Derek Walcott, Bach, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, the Books, Radiohead, Stravinsky, Sun Kil Moon, Bjork, Jeff Buckley, Chopin, Robyn, Nikka Costa, Sigur Ros, Martin Sexton, John Coltrane, Balkan Beat Box, TV on the Radio, Under Byen (I listen to a lot of indie and esoteric music), Giacometti, Rembrandt, Giotto, Kandinsky, Klee, Klimt, Kokoschka, Odd Nerdrum.
As for favorite foods, I'm omnivorous. (I almost wrote oviparous, but I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket.)
Movies -- I love all sorts of movies, and favorites makes a better dinner conversation than a blurb here, I think.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my close friends, the idea of my next travel destination, music, NPR, and my irrepressible hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to think next. Planning my escape. What WAS Willis talkin' about? What Scooby snacks were made of, and why you can't find them in stores anywhere. How the hell did I GET here? Hummina-hummina. Trying to remember the name of the girl in 3rd grade I was SURE I'd be married to by now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd prefer not to have a typical Friday night, which is one of the reasons I'm giving this a shot in the first place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I had made more effort to maintain friendships when I was younger, because it turns out to be a lot harder to make new friends later.
You should message me if
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You have the rare gift of seeing past an admittedly vapid profile and want to get a sense of the person underneath.