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32 Seattle, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Working on two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We sometimes encounter people, even perfect strangers, who begin to interest us at first sight, somehow suddenly, all at once, before a word has been spoken. ~ Fyodor Dostoyevsky
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm pretty much willing to explore any avenue of thought or action that might redefine personal, professional, emotional, or psychological boundaries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing loud enough to induce the laughter of those around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The confused look on my face as I notice them noticing me. Followed by awkward giggles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Currently reading "The Importance of Living" by Lin Yutang, translated by John Day, (1937 edition).

Other favorites include Kerouc, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Miguel Ruiz, Steinbeck, Hemingway, Wilde, Dostoyevsky, Dante, Thoreau, London; and so much more.

I read a lot of non-fiction as well. Usually science based topics, but I also love issues that blend perspectives together; like mathematics in art, or Buddhism and psychology.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beautiful View
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Quantum entanglement.
Innovative thinking.
Artistic expression.
The human condition.
Who I am constantly becoming.


"Love is a temporary madness,
it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides.
And when it subsides you have to make a decision.
You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together
that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness,
it is not excitement,
it is not the promulgation of eternal passion.
That is just being "in love" which any fool can do.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away,
and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.
Those that truly love, have roots that grow towards each other underground,
and when all the pretty blossom have fallen from their branches,
they find that they are one tree and not two."
~St. Augustine

And this: teaser, Tom Waits reads Bukowski
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dates I'd like to go on: roller skating, bowling, batting cages, laser tag, mini golf, golf, northwest trek, food tours, anything touristy
(even though I'm not a tourist), the flight museum, the giant Ferris wheel, whale watching, hiking, science center, art museum, any museum, lectures on almost any subject, warm fresh pastries and good coffee, sporting events, roller derby bout, concerts, symphonies, street performers, comedy clubs, volunteering together (seriously)...

Maybe I should make a list of things I don't like.
You should message me if
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I just moved to West Seattle and would love to meet up with some locals and get to know the neighborhood. Hit me up if you live in the area!

On that note: If you are looking for someone to be the ginger to your whiskey....

You're about six years too late.

Don't get me wrong, I love to go out and explore the city, but I just don't drink much or often; while I still love a good beer, or whiskey, it'll be like one, maybe two... if I'm still standing and it's before midnight. So, if you're the type who likes to drink with dinner, then stay to close down the bar, please move along! : )



This section is reserved for mental notes, pet peeves, and minor confessions occurring as a direct result of online dating.

1) I don't know why, but I get some seriously weird messages sometimes. I am not your intergalactic star queen. Nor will I engage in a fantasy with you where we fall in love upon first email, and ride off into the sunset.

2) AND however flattering the offers have been, I do not want to be your cougar. I'm not even old enough to be classified as a cougar!? Am I?... Shit.

3) On a separate, but similar, note- I am realizing that I am personally TERRIBLE at flirting via email. In that self- deprecating, often misunderstood, over usage of emoticons, sort of way.

*winky face*

4) The Quickmatch LIKE button is not a bookmarks tab for later. Either act on it, or don't use it.

5) There is no better way to assess chemistry than by meeting in person. Being one with a fantastic imagination, I typically either glamorize or demonized potential mates in here- and realize upon meeting that I was entirely wrong. That said, we email, chat, talk on the phone, meet in person to see if there's anything there.

6a) I've also realized that the more time two people spend between the initial contact and arranging a date- the more likely momentum will wane and interest will be lost. Point being, be prepared to act within a week of initial contact.

6b) and don't let your imagination do too much of the preliminary work!