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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:56am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in San Francisco and had to escape the atrophy and the burners. Now, I'm here... in New York. Whew!

I've got great friends and a fantastic job.

I tell a great yarn.

I'm into books, bro-less bars, parks, not stopping in the middle of the sidewalk, flying to various places around Juneish, Werner Herzog, and... well...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Video game designer. Generally not that into talking about video games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sussing out email scams.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sound like Leonard Cohen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nabokov, Peep Show, Auster, Pilkington, Reed, Didion, the Simons, Coogan, CK, Herzog, Fowles, Franzen, Borges, Lurie, All Tomorrow's Parties, Atwood, Sedaris, Artichoke Dip, Lebowitz, Primavera Sound.

Who just rattles off last names?

I also think I've watched every documentary on netflix. Except those absolute crap discovery channel ones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can really just drop my laundry off somewhere and they'll wash it and pack it up for me in 8 hours?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why so many of my matches have pictures of themselves ziplining. it seems like 80% of them have ziplined somewhere in the world. I mean, it looks like fun, but what is up with all this ziplining. (Update: a lot less ziplining now)

subway etiquette. looks like I've made progress on the backpack front, but there has been a resurgence of pole leaners.

does that have cilantro in it?

is that person crazy? oh are they talking into an earbud? does that even work?

quantum entanglement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
considering whether I want to go out or stay in.

might go out...

might stay in.

who knows!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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OMG 4 real lol
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not a Randite. You don't have a 1910 barber shop mustache tattooed or drawn on the side of your index finger.

You don't use the term "sassy".

Funny please.