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31 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hey you! Thanks for stopping by! I like martial arts, reading about historical events, people or just plain hanging out with good company. To me, it doesn't really matter what's going on so long the company is right! I really love exploring new places and trying new things.

Really looking forward to meet people who are passionate about an activity, have strong values and enjoy traveling.

I am passionate, righteous (haha), and loyal! Also quite nerdy and open-minded.
What I’m doing with my life
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*latest - just started to learn a new martial arts system; Baguazhang! So exciting!

Trying to get into a position where I can travel more often, I love seeing new places and being mobile even if it's just for the sake of work.

I do Wing Chun during my free time, training in Oakland 3-4 times a week. My goal is to be able to teach it full time.

Trying to eat better and work out more as well. Also making more time to be outside doing stuff on the weekends. Trying to not take the beautiful and accessible bay area for granted.

During baseball season, I try to go to games when I have the time. Definitely looking forward to do the same when football, hockey and basketball comes along. Live games are the best!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling alone. Ask me about it.

Mostly what I decide to pick up. I love drawing and designing and was told I am proficient in it. I am also kind of a 'binder' as told by my friends. I like to bring people together and have a good time.

using my hands and a martial arts kind of way :P

I also really like building computers! Though that trend has somewhat died. Oh well, at least I lived through the glory days.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't ask what people usually notice about me but some people say I'm very easy-going and generous, would do anything for my friends and people I care for. Dark eyes, dark hair, typical Asian features :). Some people mentioned I should smile more as it is rather pleasant. I'm hoping to get more 'smiley' pictures up!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I'm a big fan of good history (especially with a lot of conflict) and also anything with some fighting in it. I love reading about heroes and noble deeds, always think about how awesome it would be to live in an age where people actually regarded honor, loyalty, righteousness, brotherhood and chivalry as virtues and favorite book of all time is Romance of the Three Kingdoms.
Romance of the Three Kingdoms, The Water Margin, The Investiture of the Gods, Legend (most of David Gemmell books), Lord Of The Rings, A Song of Ice and Fire series, Macbeth, Gates of Fire, Jin Yong and Gu Long wuxia series.

Movies - kind of the same as the books I read. I like movies with strong friendship themes and good action (lots of fighting!). I like comedies that have genuine ideas, I'm a little tired of the crude, overly excessive gross and dirty language they have these days, I guess things can't be funny anymore without dropping the F-bombs or being excessively gross ... Blues Brothers, The Big Lebowski, Ghostbusters, Planes, Trains and Automobiles, 40 Year Old Virgin, Old School, Unforgiven, A Better Tomorrow, The Killer, The Godfather, Heat, Road to Perdition, Predator, Aliens, Terminator 2, Braveheart, The Lord of the Rings film trilogy.

I used to watch a lot of Hong Kong 'Wuxia' TV series, a.k.a fantasy sword fighting kung fu shows when I was younger. My most treasured shows are the Romance of the Three Kingdoms DVD box set, Band of Brothers, The Pacific. I am currently following The Walking Dead, Archer, Louie and occasionally Game of Thrones. Breaking Bad was one of the best TV I've seen. Some classic animes like Berserk, Yu Yu Hakusho, Moribito: Guardian of the Spirit, etc.

Beyond is my favorite band of all time! I'm a rock fan in general, I have 3 classic rock stations, one jazz and 2 generic pop/rock on my car radio.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Passport for traveling
2) Good company
3) Wing Chun
4) Classic Rock
5) Principles
6) San Francisco 49ers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm always spacing out trying to understand and picture the applications I learn in class and apply the concepts, principles in life.

Traveling, career, friends and family around the world and random things like the strange dream the night before, what really cool stories/books I've read they should make into movies, how did people live back then without bath tissue, how do people make time for the ridiculous number of TV shows and sports channels we have...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home watching movies, reading, video games and every once in a while Karaoke night!

OR out on my trusty s̶t̶e̶e̶d̶ car hunting down the most bad ass restaurants and food places.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I always make my volume even numbers; TV, radio, computer speakers, washer and dryer alert...ok you can't do that but whatever, strange freakin' obsession.

When I'm the mood for a particular song, I play it on repeat until I get really, really sick of it.

I have spilled drinks on my office desk MULTIPLE times. Just ten minutes ago before I typed this I spilled a full cup of delicious Hong Kong milk tea.

Oh, if you're interested in Myers-Briggs, mine is STFU
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What? You're still not convinced after reading all that? It took a lot of effort!

Oh please send me a message if you are interested! I am not an upgraded member so I can't really see who 'liked' me! :D