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37 M Evanston, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), LISP (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an unabashed maker. I am always building way too many things. For every project I complete I have 10 more I want to start. Currently in-progress projects include a hexacopter, a propane powered espresso machine, an autonomous rover, propane flame effects, LED hula hoops, stirling engine, and a ton of other crap.

I basically just want to spend all day creating music and building things. Doing that with you would make it even more awesome. If not.. you'll likely end up annoyed that I would rather stay home and make stuff than go out and spend money at bars doing nothing of consequence. I enjoy that on occasion -- but, too often and I start fiending to get home and build stuff or write music.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am fortunate enough to have a good paying day job that I actually enjoy. I am the cofounder of a small, experimental web startup. I get to invent really cool new web technology.

For exercise I am taking aerial circus arts and gymnastics. I also enjoy rock climbing, though I don't get many chances to go.

I am working on transitioning into the next phase of my life where programming is my hobby and music is my primary source of income instead of the other way around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Sliding down railings.

I am also really good at computer programming.

I am trying to get really good at music composition, performance, photography, and life.

I used to be really good at violin. I just started playing again and I am loving it. It's sad how much I have forgotten, and amazing how much I remember. It seems to be coming back pretty fast though.

I want to learn to dance. I took ballet for a while a few years ago and it was fun. But then I moved and couldn't get to class anymore.

I am pretty ok at cooking and baking. I have a fondness for making breakfast food and desserts.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My raw animal magnetism. At least that's what I'd like to think..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

My favorite painter is William-Adolphe Bouguereau. I really love the emotion and sense of movement in his paintings. I want to try to capture that in my photos.


Belle and Sebastian, RJD2, DJ Shadow, Dr Dre, Skinny Puppy, :Wumpscut:, Primus, Yoko Kanno, William Shatner, Deltron 3030, Frank Zappa, Combichrist, Pixies, Cat Power, PJ Harvey, NIN, Ryuichi Sakamoto,Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, Erik Satie, Portishead, Marty McFly and the Starlighters, Jedi Mind Tricks, Nekrogoblikon, Austrian Death Machine, and much, much more.


The Spongebob Squarepants Movie, Amélie, Cold Comfort Farm, City of Lost Children, Brazil, The Adventures of Baron Munchausen, Full Metal Jacket, A Mighty Wind, Best in Show, Reservoir Dogs, Clerks


Red Dwarf, Absolutely Fabulous,Sifl & Olly

Food & Drink:
Sushi, Thai, Guinness, Gin and Tonic, Bearded Clam

Who is Fourier?
The Art of Dramatic Writing
The Silken Road
Fox in Socks
Roald Dahl
Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality

I am, unfortunately, a member of fiction readers anonymous. Once I start a book, I can't put it down until I am done, even if that means staying up all night. Even if it is really bad. I once read this horrible romance novel, The Beauty and the Beastly Rancher. It was so bad I threw it across the room half way through. And then I went over, picked it up, and finished reading it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. whispering eyes
2. sleep
3. imagination and creation
4. passion
5. sincerity and honesty
6. freedom to pursue happiness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music, algorithms, what I am doing with my life, and how I could be doing it better.

How useful it would be to know sign language so I could talk to my friends at loud bars... but that only works if they know sign language too :-/

Also, I once heard a rumor that there was a party at MIT where people had to file out a profile, and then they had to wear an electronic badge. If you got to close to someone that was a bad match it emitted a warning. OKC was started by people from MIT. So.. is that rumor true? Were the founders of OKC behind it ? Inquiring minds want to know!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Learning stuff. Making stuff. Writing music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been asked a number of times about the wide age range of acceptance on my profile... It's based on the fact that I apparently have no idea how old people really are. For example, I was once concern that at 38 year old women I was involved with was under age... I want to meet people that are going to be interesting for the rest of their lives. How much life they have left -- is not so important.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
There is no *if* about it! Though, deciding what to write can be a challenge. So I will suggested you send one of the following:

1. a description of a cool project you have worked on

2. a link to you playing a musical instrument

3. blurry photos of your cunt. I hear every girl on this site is inundated with unsolicited blurry cock photos (though, none from me). However I have never experienced the displeasure of receiving similar photos of female body parts. Where's the equality!?!?! (answer: society values female nudity and considers male nudity gross).