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33 F Fort Collins, CO

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I put bacon on my veggie burgers. I like to laugh.

I've been thinking about getting a smart phone. But who doesn't love the sweet style of a flip-phone?

I value sarcasm as well as empathy.

I am uncomfortable with so many "I" statements.

I'm pretty awkward.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have sold cheese for a living, worked on a farm in Jersey for about 15 years (on and off), was once "in publishing" (whatever that means), but I suppose if this was a resume, I'd be forced to admit I recently earned an MFA in poetry. I now work at CSU and it's pretty great. Some days I watch "Golden Girls" and/or "Roseanne" reruns at the gym.

This summer I've been trying to teach myself to code (via codeacademy)... and sometimes it sticks, sometimes not so much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
For whatever reason, this question makes me think more of what I'm not good at. Namely: cooking, organization, linear thought processes, fixing things.

That said, I'm pretty good at skiing (I grew up racing in upstate NY, so I can do ice), I have a love/hate relationship with running but I've become a decent recreational half-marathoner, and I can easily spend hours in a bookstore. I'm not sure if any of these qualify as skills. I'm ok with that. I'm also exceptionally skilled at choosing the longest checkout line at the supermarket. I've become much better recently at biking with a coffee mug in one hand with minimal spilling.

Oh! And puzzles! Like, good old-fashioned jigsaw puzzles.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. I'll have to ask. But that's a weird question to ask of my friends.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here's the thing - I love talking about things I love, but I honestly don't think it's all that important that those in my life love all the things I love. That would be boring, right? Anyway. The lists:

Books: The Dog Stars, The People of Paper, The Children's Hospital, Born to Run, City of Thieves, Kent Haruf fiction, some poetryish things like Bluets, That This, Hotel Lobby at the End of the World, Don't Let Me Be Lonely, Sir, Young Tambling

Music [caveat: this list is pretty old, probably dating back before my ipod broke about 3 years ago]: Andrew Bird, Magnetic Fields, Anne Murray (yes), Elvis Perkins & Deerland, Beirut, George Strait, Gillian Welch, Lykke Li, Lake Street Dive, Phosphorescent. I have an affinity for solid gold hits of the 70s. And I recently discovered an classic country station on the am dial (yes, if it's am radio, it's on the dial), and it's changed my life.

TV [I hope we're past the age of "I don't watch tv because I'm ideologically against it." There is some great stuff out there. And sometimes passive entertainment is necessary.]: New Girl, Community, Parks and Rec, Brooklyn 99, Bob's Burgers, South Park, Silicon Valley, Pete and Pete

Radio: Wait, Wait... Radiolab

Food: Yes. All kinds. Especially food I don't cook myself (which is to say cooking is not one of my special skills).

Movies: Next Stop Wonderland, The Station Agent, The Big Lebowski, O Brother Where Art Thou, The Future, Beasts of the Southern Wild
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee. wine. cheese. music. my running shoes. words.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had that song "I'm all about the bass..." in my head for three days straight. I heard it for the first time three days ago.

Sometimes I wish my cat was a dog.

Also, that I'm really digging my Kenny Rogers Pandora station.

Ok, I finally got a smartphone. And I've taken selfies with that smartphone.
You should message me if
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I'm not looking for a mirror image of myself. Teach me something. I like learning.

I won't look at your profile if you're young enough to have been one of my students.