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34 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd vote real over fake anything, anytime.

Real laughter, real tears, real boobs, real feelings and questions, real butter, real maple syrup, real life. I'm drawn to authentic people, I'm a great listener, and an energizing and ambitious idea creator. And, to be clear, not into boobs any more than the average straight woman... sorry.

So, this summer I spurred on a unicorn rainbow onesie flash mob dance at my friend's wedding. No, I'm not going to make you dance, but I'd hope you're up for grabbing life by the horns now and then! I'm willing to jump on board your epic ideas, too.

If you have no idea what a onesie is, it's not looking good. If you have no idea what a onesie is, and actually were dismayed when I said it's not looking good, you may just be more gullible than I am!

Work-wise I am an entrepreneur as well as a 9 to 5er - a social innovator and a business owner. I help others launch sustainability projects and I organize others to rescue food that would otherwise go to waste. I want to live in a world that makes more sense, living within the lines of natural systems and social responsibilities, and I want to help get us there.

What's important to me? A healthy planet - starting with myself, I enjoy an active lifestyle and eating well. For me eating well means thinking about where my food is coming from, where it's going, what it does in my body and growing and cooking as much of it as I can. I like watching all sorts of stuff grow. Sure, I grow veggies, fruit, and trees, but people are pretty neat to watch too!

My family and my goddaughter live a little ways away, but I make an effort to visit them regularly. I'm interested in kids; if they're out of the question for you, we can talk in 10 or 15 years.

I'm often one to bare my honest opinion, and I appreciate that in return. During tough times I like to talk it through. I also have a bit of a stubborn streak - it makes me determined to do my own taxes, even though it takes me a while.

Apparently I have a classic entrepreneur personality, although while bold on stage, I'm nervous before hand - I've learned enough about myself to know what I need to get there. ESTP-T

What about you?

You've likely heard your friends say that they can't believe that you're still single because you are such a great guy. Indeed, you are:

Comfortable in your in your own skin, you have your shit together. You know which direction you are headed. You boldly ask the important questions, you're engaging in conversation and enjoy discussing just about everything, your eyes and ears are open to the world around you. You like yourself.

You're on a quest to find someone to share the journey.

...And you've managed to read this far! Send me a message and let's see where this could go.

Note: I live in Ottawa, but travel often for work and have set this account up to adjust to where I am :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being curious. Finding joy and excitement in the most unlikely places.

Truth. Not everyone puts honesty above civility, but truth is so much more interesting than wool over our eyes.

Grabbing the mic when someone needs to. Literally.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is my enthusiasm. My mind is easily blown, I am fascinated by pattern, irony, how things work, the stories we tell ourselves. I'm going to do my best to hold on to this exuberance for the rest of my days.

Then, perhaps, the long hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh goodness... Wes Anderson anything. Sci Fi / end of the world movies. Hitchhiker's Guide. Strategy board games like Dominion.

Not so much TV, but... 30 Rock. Suits. Parks and Rec - I am way behind but loving it!

Real food, real local. I like being able to high-five the people responsible for my food supply. More veggies, less meat!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My backpack and snacks for the road.
Open communication
Connection to the natural world
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of our city, the nature in our city, and our darn human nature that keeps on screwing over the rest of nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
TED talks and wine
Romping around the city or woods with my dog
Cruising on my bike to a patio, beach, arboretum, pub, dance-off
Planting apple seeds
Looking for you

Ideally, every night is spent with great people, perhaps cooking food, telling stories or playing a board game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love exploring truth! We're fascinating people. I'll be as open a book as you'll be - ask a question and I'll delve into an answer, just be ready to go there with me.

And - one more thing: I have another profile on here. I don't want to weird you out, it's not my twin, it's just an older profile with a name I'm not a fan of. I'm not even sure I know the password anymore.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You cracked a smile while reading my profile... but then again, you're the kind of person that smiles a lot :)

You're willing to message me with something of substance that is not about sex, or my looks, or my sexual preferences. Sex is pretty great, but that's not what I'm here for.