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32 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 4:20pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love learning. I think about and show people how to break the internet for a living. I take photographs, cook and play a little blues guitar. I travel as much as possible. I think walking the streets teaches you more about a city than any guidebook ever could.

I want to meet new people and make new friends, not spend an endless time playing message tag.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I rock my job! What's my job? Corporate Hacker. That's right, I do what all those nerds in movies do, but I get paid for it.

I am always devouring media. Music, books, art and journalism are an almost obsession for me. I read, listen, watch and learn all the time.

Travel is a passion. I have been to more countries than states, and I want to see and eat everything the world has to offer. I am far happier in a hostel than a 5 star hotel, drinking with newly made friends at 2 in the morning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making you a meal you didn't think people make at home.

I used to be a chef and I believe in cooking from scratch. I may not harvest the wheat, but I definitely do grind the flour and I most assuredly bake the bread.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't give hugs I don't mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading: Longform Journalism, Non-Fiction, Science-Fiction

Watching: TED Talks, Serenity, Children of Men, The Fountain, Primer, Inception, The Maltese Falcon, The Prestige, We Live In Public, Helvetica, The King of Kong, No Reservations

Listening: Everything. Special mention for blues, bluegrass, post-rock, and whatever is on my Songza and Daytrotter

Eating: My ethos, try everything at least 3 times. I am in love with: Xiao Long Bao, Homemade Mac and Cheese Casserole, Pizza from Scratch, Ginger Scallion Noodles with Pork Belly, Beef Brisket Barbecue, Spicy Salmon Sushi Handrolls.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People smarter than I am, to push me to cook better, learn more, see everything, listen hard and groove well.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Battle Between Privacy and Security
Especially in light of recent government legislation (SOPA, PIPA, CISPA, PATRIOT Act Renewals), the battle between privacy and security seems to be one that privacy is losing, and how we stop the slide and educate people to effectively make the choices necessary to reassert privacy rights is of constant fascination to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...spending the weekend with my girlfriend. That's right, that "available" status up top means I'm available for 1-3 nights a week. Luckily my heart is big and I believe you can have love for more than one person at a time.

We are polyamorous and we both see other people as we wish (occasionally the same people but that type of chemistry is rare).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was 7 to 11 I desperately wanted a high top fade like Will Smith had in Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
All this being said, I'm always up for meeting new potential friends of any gender. Especially if you're willing to find interesting food in obscure places. My current obsession is street food.

- You think going to a market, choosing ingredients on the spot and then taking them home to make an amazing meal is time well spent.
- You can spend hours talking about something you love. Passion matters more than subject matters.
- You are intelligent, energetic, and mostly positive. We all have bad days but most of yours are good.
- You're confident and secure in your accomplishments, but humble about it.
- You're satisfied with your life enough to be happy overall but driven enough to continually improve