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ForReal4u

56 / M / straight / Single

Charlotte, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
two-year college
Job
Transportation
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am interesting, easygoing, and caring.

My Self-Summary

Ok, here we go again! I am a confident, caring, very easy going and fun guy who knows who I am. I'm also a very passionate man! Looking to date a woman between 45 and 54 (willing to bend this rule) who is confident in who she is as a woman and person.If you can hold an intelligent conversation then that's a BIG plus to me, though we all have our silly and goofy times! Like singing karaoke! Used to be in a band, kind of miss it! Not Mr. Perfect and hope you're not looking for him. IF you're Miss Perfect then good for you, but seriously, who are you kidding? I've always learned from my mistakes, especially my romantic ones . Originaly from Chicago, of Italian ancestry. Been in Charlotte for the past 10 years. Love it down here! Do not, and will not, answer people without a photo posted!

What I’m doing with my life

Right now just paying the bills! Isn't everyone? Well, that's not all. I actually do quite a lot, kayaking, trips to wherever I feel like going, doing whatever I feel like doing at the time!
Will try things to see if I like them or not, then go from there.

I’m really good at

I try to be good at eveything, but if not, then I call a professional!

The first things people usually notice about me

Is that I'm friendly and fun loving! Like to talk about any and everything. Got to keep the mind sharp!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Read so many books and I've seen so many movies in my life that it's really hard to say just one! I like most foods and all kinds of music!

The six things I could never do without

A job,love,friends, passion in romance, a car, and who knows what else! I could write a whole paragraph on each of these subjects but then what would we have to talk about?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My minds always on the go about everything! Been told I think too much! If you stop thinking, aren't you dead?

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably relaxing after a long week at work.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

It wouldn't be private if I told, now would it?

You should message me if

You're looking for a man who knows who he is as a man and knows how to treat a woman! I know how to give you your space and how to communicate!