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For_The_Swarm

30 F Victoria, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 2
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a pretty chill, queer, poly, political, femme chick with a child. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but I'm not opposed to one either. I'm committed to non-monogamy. I'm kinda kinky, but not too extreme. I have a lot of awesome male friends, but sorry guys, I'm almost exclusively interested in dating women. I'm really into intelligent conversation and open-mindedness.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, parenting, and trying to have a social life.
I’m really good at
Cooking is about the only thing I'm really good at, unless you count cuddling. I'm an awesome cuddler. I'm pretty decent at a lot of things though.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my eyes. Or if it's at a bar/club/rave/festival, it would be my costume. I love playing dress up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too many books to name. Anne McCaffrey books and Star Trek probably top the list.

Movies: Anime, Star Trek (original and reboot), Scott Pilgrim, comic book/superhero, and good sci fi in general. Oh, and Dr Horrible's Sing Along Blog is one of the best things I've ever seen.

TV Shows: Star Trek (all), Sailor Moon, the newer Doctor Who's, all things Joss Whedon,Big Bang Theory, Friendship is Magic, Archer, Futurama etc

Music: Really varied. Nirvana, Pendulum, Ani Difranco, MSI, cheesy 80's stuff, to name a few

I like a variety of foods. Japanese, Italian, Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican... pretty much anything that has a decent Vegetarian option and goes well with hot sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Internet
Hot Sauce
Companionship
Coffee
Cuddles
Socialism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of the world, linear vs non-linear time, gender politics, what to make for dinner... I can be a bit random.
On a typical Friday night I am
Redditing or watching Netflix, possibly at the same time. Maybe having some drinks with friends, or at a local rock show. I usually stay in though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have difficulty in social situations with unfamiliar people, but I tend to power through like nothing is wrong. Alcohol helps immensely.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Some of the following apply to you:

Identify as female
Nerdy
Cuddle addict
Political
Open minded
Not allergic to cats or dogs
Aren't looking for me to join you and your boyfriend/husband/lover
Compassionate