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44 Santa Monica, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 20
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Travel, transformation and deepening intimacy.
Here's the rundown/character assassination:

In my 7th year of living for extended periods in exotic, low cost countries - including a couple of years in US - that have great food and more relaxed lifestyles.
Have visited 33 countries - arriving Santa Monica May 21 to see if you're in the US. If we spark, I'll do what it takes for us to be physically together.

Rental income from my apartment funds my lifestyle.
This frees me up to go play and work on passion projects, one of which now is finding an extraordinary pathmate.
I’m passionate about:
- Becoming the best me I can be in each area of my life e.g. through personal growth seminars, reading and journalling.
- Co-creating intimate relationship that keeps getting better and better.
- Deliberately creating my life/surrendering to the flow.

I'm masculine and grounded. You'll feel safe with me and enjoy relaxing into your feminine.
In the area of relationship, I'm trained in tantra, Deida, OneTaste and I practice the work of John Gray and Pat Allen.
I have the interest and time to create an extraordinary relationship.

My sense of humour...well...some might call it dry.
I see the world as an amusement park, albeit an illusionary one:)
I keep active walking around exploring places or cycling. I prefer to play sports than watch them, and participate in life than watch TV.

I seek new and fun ways to experience life, and try on almost anything new to stretch me... from Burning Man to Landmark seminars, to exploring developing countries, to disappearing the idea of self.

Magic and transformation show up for people around me - you'll enjoy this :)

You're a feminine woman when you're around your man who enjoys personal growth and matches or exceeds me in your personal evolution, and has or can create the time to travel longer term.

I'm looking for a partner who like me can get pleasure from the simple things and has a real sense of fun.

The journey of personal empowerment, health and vitality are important to me, and I'd love my beloved to share that lifestyle.

Relatively baggage free, also never married and no mini-me's... that I know of :)

For me integrity is the foundation of a life that works. And I'm very interested in having a life that works.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Travelling the world. Exploring my inner world. Living optimally.
Intimate relationship is important to me so I'm willing to move for love and settle in one place... for a time:)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking you places you've never been before.
Deliberately creating my life, listening, research, deepening intimacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The general theme is I have my stuff together.
For females, apparently I have a grounding effect on you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of The Superior Man, David Deida; The 4 Hour Work Week, Tim Ferriss; Mars & Venus on a Date, John Gray; Getting To I Do, Dr Pat Allan; Radical Honesty; Spiritual Enlightenment, The Damnedest Thing

Movies: Star Wars, Office Space, Secretary

Food: The more free ranged, local, seasonal or organic the better. And street food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
To play along with this strange question...
1. Mental and physical health
2. Freedom (physical, financial, time)
3. Family and friends
4. Pocket notebook
5. Interwebs
6. Potentially you!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to deprogram myself.
Where to travel next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Online or oot n aboot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have stamina.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a pulse.
- Have chosen a child-free lifestyle - I've had a vasectomy.
- Enjoy personal growth and have cleared most childhood upsets. Bonus points if you've done Landmark training.
- Enjoy travel.