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44 Xcalak, Mexico Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 23
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Global nomad into personal transformation, what's happening, deepening intimacy and sharing access to transformation.
Here's the rundown/character assassination:

I'm an Aussie in my 7th year of living for extended periods in exotic, low cost countries - including a couple of years in the US - that have great food and more relaxed lifestyles.
Currently on the Caribbean coast of Mexico, and wherever you are in the world, if we spark, I'll do what it takes for us to be physically together.

Rental income from my apartment funds my lifestyle.
This frees me up to go play and work on passion projects, one of which now is finding an extraordinary pathmate.
I’m passionate about:
- Having each area of my life work.
- Increasing my power through personal growth seminars, critical thinking, making distinctions in language, reading and journalling.
- Co-creating intimate relationship that keeps getting better and better, hotter and hotter.
- Deliberately creating my life/accepting what's happening.

I'm masculine and grounded. You'll feel safe with me and enjoy relaxing into your feminine.
In the area of relationship, I'm trained in tantra, Orgasmic Meditation, and the teachings of David Deida, Dr John Gray and Dr Pat Allen.
I have the interest and time to create an extraordinary relationship.

My sense of humour...well...some might call it dry, deadpan and quirky.
I keep active walking around exploring places or cycling. I prefer to play sports than watch them, and participate in life than watch TV.

I see the world as a big amusement park.
I seek new and fun ways to experience life, and try on almost anything new to stretch me... from Burning Man to Landmark seminars, to exploring developing countries, to disappearing belief in a separate 'I' entity.

Magic and transformation show up for people around me - you'll enjoy this :)

Is this you?
- No desire for kids. I've had a vasectomy.
- Conscious. Enjoy personal growth and have done the work. E.g. completed childhood upsets.
- Location independent or could set up that lifestyle to travel internationally long-term.
- Feminine when you're around your man.
- Get pleasure from the simple things and have a real sense of fun.

The journey of personal empowerment, health and vitality are important to me, and I'd love my beloved to share that lifestyle.

Relatively baggage free, never married and no mini-me's... that I know of :)

For me integrity is the foundation of a life that works. And I'm very interested in having a life that works.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Travelling the world. Increasing workability and empowerment in my life. Ecstatic dance. Eating out. Biking along the beach. Farmers markets. Hiking. Typing.
Intimate relationship is important to me so I'm willing to move for love and settle in one place... for a time:)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Distinguishing story from what's so.
Taking you places you've never been before.
Deliberately creating my life, listening, research, deepening intimacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall. Present. Good energy.
For females, apparently I have a grounding effect on you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Way of The Superior Man, David Deida; The 4 Hour Work Week, Tim Ferriss; Mars & Venus on a Date, John Gray; Getting To I Do, Dr Pat Allan; Radical Honesty; Spiritual Enlightenment, The Damnedest Thing; Gateless Gatekeepers

Movies: Star Wars, Office Space, Secretary

Food: The more free ranged, local, seasonal or organic the better. And street food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
To play along with this strange question...
1. Mental and physical health
2. Freedom (physical, financial, time)
3. Other people
4. An inspiring future to live into
5. The interwebs
6. Potentially you
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live an authentically empowered life that rocks and share access to that kinda thing with everyone.
How to find a pathmate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Online or oot n aboot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have stamina.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have a pulse.
You don't want kids, enjoy personal growth, and are living a location independent lifestyle... or could set up that lifestyle.
Bonus if you've done Landmark training or anything that had you drop most of your baggage.