Foreverbonsai
49 Portland, OR
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My self-summary
Sculptor, chainsaw carver, wire and leather worker. Father of a teenaged boy.
I'm quiet and reserved yet open and honest. Been working on my interpersonal skills for a long time and it seems to be paying off.
I'm a founding member of an art collective in inner Southeast Portland. My living situation is somewhat unusual. Work space and residence combined. I like to use power tools at odd hours.
I'm calm, collected and open minded. My hearing's a little iffy (too many power tools at odd hours) but I'm a good listener.
I'm also gainfully employed. Been at the same job for 26 years.
I gave up drinking alcohol for good almost a year ago. No great trial and I won't be going back. I won't, however, be a jerk about it to anyone else. My sobriety is my business.
On a related note, my habits and behavior are becoming far less erratic. I'm proud of myself.
Update November 2015: Sober more than two years now. Healthy, strong and wide awake. Best thing I ever did for myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. Well.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at a thousand things. Some things I'm really, really good at. I have strong,dexterous hands and I'm very touchy-feely.
The first things people usually notice about me
My mannish good looks, I guess. Followed by my understated charm. Followed by my considerable intelligence and intuition. Then my artistic ability, which is fairly vast. And then my mannish good looks again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
I love Tolkien first. Neal Stephenson. Tom Robbins. William Gibson. Clive Barker. Christopher Moore. Neil Gaiman. Even George R. R. Martin.
I like books about art. Books about philosophy and science. Books about medicine and healing. Books.
Movies:
I have too many favorite movies to list.
Shows:
I don't watch much t.v. but I liked 'Archer' and 'Battlestar Galactica' and 'Firefly'... Star Trek in most of it's incarnations. The X files. Scrubs. Twin peaks.
More lately, I've been enjoying 'Sherlock', 'Dr. Who' and 'Fringe' on the old computer, rapidly replacing the big tv I'd sworn off of. I dig public television programs and British Comedy.

Okay. Radiohead. Pink Floyd. The Beatles. Black Sabbath. White Stripes. ELO. ELP. Camper Van Beethoven. The actual Beethoven. Tribe Called Quest. Kate Bush. The Monkees. Elvis Costello. Elvis Presley. Motörhead. Peter Gabriel. Raconteurs. Rod Stewart. America. Butthole Surfers. Gary Newman. Bauhaus. Elton John. Florence and the Machine. Mott the Hoople. John Lennon. KMFDM. Paul Simon. AWOLNation. Johnny Cash. Harry Nilsson. The Clash. Bill Withers. Portishead. Garbage. Genesis. 38 Special. John Denver. Dead Kennedys. Nine Inch Nails. Depeche Mode. Temper Trap. The Cars. Motley Crüe. Willie Nelson. Beck. Berlin. Beastie Boys. Led Zeppelin. De La Soul. Rammstein. Metric. Moby. Morphine. Mozart. Three Dog Night. Crosby, Stills and Nash. Earth, Wind and Fire. Donovan. The Jackson Five. The BeeGees.
And Many, Many More.
I love music.
The six things I could never do without
Air. Water. Food. Clothing. Shelter. Love.
No, wait...
Sex. Drugs. Rock and roll. Hedonism. Villainy. Vice.
Wait...
Sunshine. Cool friends. The respect of my peers. The ability to provide for my son. Tons of tools. Space to work.
...
Imagination. Focus. Equality. Strength. Justice. Compassion.

John Lennon told me all I really need is Love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How cool it would be to have a girlfriend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. But I can take the night off should I have good reason..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's been a long time since I was part of the dating scene. I'm really out of practice. But I'm sure I'll remember.
You should message me if
You'd like to spend time with stable yet quirky highly imaginative low drama fiercely loyal fairly funny kind of guy.
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