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I'm a homebody but do enjoy a bar or two on the weekends if i'm not having a backyard pachanga with my sis. I'm very random sometimes. If I'm driving about and see something that peeks my interest, not much is gonna stop me from investigating. I like coffee shops and book stores. They're great places to people watch and continue my psychology degree via life experience and personal studies of humans and their habits. I'm very much into people; I don't find people attractive until they open their mouth. I wanna know whats inside you head not under your clothes (that comes later... ). Love to debate. I'm a jack of all trades (master of none ) so I generally can come up with an argument for just about anything. I have a sense of humor that will interrupt any serious conversation without warning. It happens, what are you gonna do. Obviously I'm butch so feminists usually hate me. I'm too much like a guy( I know how to wear a tie ). If my presence is going to threaten your lesbian pride then don't bother. I pass, so when we go out, few people will notice us. I'm incognito. I like it that way. It doesn't bother me. It shouldn't bother you either. Oh,...and I'm not in a hurry, so if I'm interesting to you, please don't bring a u-haul and a baster to the first email. Conversation is usually a good starter. If I'm not your type no worries. Intelligent conversation is always entertaining.

Figuring out what comes next. I just earned the highest promotion I have been seeking in my job and starting to work out plans for transitioning back to a civilian life.

avoiding running. I keep in shape. I just have an over-developed sense of lack of passion for running.

i don't know... i usually catch people mid-stare then just stare back at them. words don't always flow during these moments. the few bold that ask questions and get to talking to me usually don't answer this question voluntarily. "What was the first thing you noticed about me?" really ins't my kind of "getting to know you" speak.

In generally, I think people are all making dollar bets with one another over whats in my pants.

a job... i get bored and start taking things apart with too much free time.
my sis... always a good source of honesty.
breathable air... at least it seems important
cigarettes... which sucks cause now I have to figure out how to quit.
a lighter... or some source of cigarette ignition. sticks/stones take way too long
lemon juice and hotsauce... because...yeah because

Six things I COULD do without....

OkCupid profiles that have no picture
OkCupid profiles that say absolutely nothing
OkCupid people that do drugs ...to include you "once in a while"-ers
OkCupid people that are looking for a casual sex partner
OkCupid married people that are looking for a casual sex partner
OkCupid bisexuals whose husbands/boyfriends are in Iraq and are looking for a "friend" in the meanwhile. You are a whore. Deal with it.

this question. I can never answer this question, ok. my mind is a thought-whore. the more the merrier (merry-er,...it just doesn't look right). what was the question? I'm hungry.

enjoying a jack and coke.

i told my sis i was going for seconds of a caserole-type food. really i was going to give back the peas i had separated from it. i hate peas.

you have a message for me.

NOTE: I have a very professional job that I am very protective of. You know, its pays the rent, feeds me, and all the other creature comforts that a paycheck offers. I also love and enjoy my job.

WHAT THAT MEANS FOR YOU: Any current drug use is a no-no. I've had my own experiences and grew up a long time ago. The past is the past. And no, its not something you can hide 'till I "really like you". When I find out, I will "really walk away from you" and then I will "really forget about you". That just the way I am.