Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I very recently transplanted to Southern California. I am creating
a brand new life for myself and am starting anew.
I have spent all of my adult life being proper and responsible. I
worked hard, built a business, raised my daughter, supported my
family, and was active in my community. I did what everyone around
me told me I was "supposed to be doing". And yet, it was somewhat
empty and I lacked passion for a lot of it.
That is why last year, I moved here to pursue my passions. Years
ago, I had given up on my dream to be an actor. Now, I am back on
stage and am here to be the artist that I know I am. I feel alive
for the first time in decades. I worked hard being an adult all
those years and saved a few pennies. Now I know what all that
effort was for.
I have a long track record of sucess in the things I set out to do.
I am now set on building a life of passion, fun, and challenge. I
am loving what I have created so far. I can't wait to see what is
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am just getting warmed up. Inventing myself newly has been a huge
undertaking and I am still learning what I want and who I am. Here
is what I know so far...
For the first time in my life, I have happiness in my career.
Acting fulfills me like nothing else has before. My two previous
careers were Financial Advisor and Computer Network Engineer. Over
two decades of business and tech were more than enough for me.
Finally, I am doing something for myself. And I am loving every
minute of it.
I am undertaking my health and well being like never before. I
actually discovered that I like Brussel Sprouts and Kale. Yes, I
cook and I am pretty good at it too. And I've been riding my bike
on the beach at least 3 times a week. It has already made a
difference and I am still improving my body daily.
I am passionate, powerful, and I like to have fun. I have all new
friends and they have so many different interests. I have been
trying new foods, new activities, and new experiences.
I already knew that I liked a good challenge. Well, this adventure
has all been an amazing challenge for me. I have been learning a
new career, finding new, positive people to be in my life, and
learning to live alone for my first time ever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making a difference for people in the world. I am an amazing
listener and I can really get what is important to people.
And having fun. I am committed to living a passionate, playful
life. I want to enjoy it all and I want people around me to enjoy
it too. Besides, isn't fun the best thing to have?
And I am going to declare it here. I am really good at ACTING. I
love saying that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My shiny shaved bald head. It is a great shape for shaving and I
love the look and feel of it. And yes, if you rub it it, will bring
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
WARNING! This is a dangerous section to write and read. It is very
easy to look here and find things that you don't like, find
"reasons" to not make a connection. While I hope we share some
common interests, I know that opposites attract too. Remember that
as you read on...
Food: I am eating healthier than I ever have before. But the new
foods I am discovering are amazing. I love most Asian foods, but I
like plenty of other cuisines as well. I am always up for throwing
a steak on the BBQ Grill. I just stay away from heavy duty spices.
I prefer to taste my food, not fight it.
Movies: Ocean's Eleven, Bird Cage, 5th Element, The Sting, Thomas
Crown Affair, The Matrix, Rounders, Inception, Godfather 1&2,
and Casablanca. Comedy, Sci Fi, Action, and adventure are my
favorites. But I am open to other genres.
Television: My career pursuit is to be a regular on a sucessful
Sitcom. So, I watch a lot of Sitcoms. I try each one when it
premieres, and study them to see what works and what doesn't. Oh,
part of the studying includes laughing and enjoying it. And I do
have a few dramas in the mix too. I still enjoy watching reruns of
Star Trek (any version) and Battestar Galactica too.
Theatre and Live Shows: Comedy clubs are a big part of my life. I
enjoy improv the most, but I also love good standup and sketch. I
like live theatre and musicals. I can see Phantom of the Opera or A
Chorus Line any time. I like unique stuff too, like Blue Man Group
and Cirque Du Soil.
Music: Classic Rock, Jazz, Smooth Jazz, RnB, Some Classical,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being passionate and playful.
My commitment to making a difference for people.
My health and fitness.
My friends and family.
Comedy and laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living my dreams and passions. I am committed to a life of passion
and play. Everything I do lives inside of that commitment.
And I think a lot about who I really am. It is a new inquiry and I
have having fun discovering myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, I just finished a two month run acting in a play on Friday
nights. So I don't have a typical routine any more. I am open to
whatever sounds fun.
I do enjoy going to see live comedy. Improv, sketch, and standup
are usually a welcome activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a pretty open book. I love to share myself with people. If you
want to know something about me, just ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if...
...you want to have fun.
...you like to laugh and play.
...you see things in my profile that you like.
...you see things in my profile that you may not like, but you get
that opposites attract.
And finally, if you are a woman who knows the words to the female
part of Paradise by the Dashboard Light. I have always wanted to
try Karaoke with that song.
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