I am a study in contradictions. I am both incredibly shy but also an extrovert who is, so I am told, fairly decent at holding conversations. I can be morbid and cynical one moment and psychotically cheerful and optimistic the next. I can be silly or serious depending on when you catch me and how much sleep I have had. Modest and chivalrous but also perverted with a love for innuendo and the ability to wistand mental assault that would make lesser men’s minds wither.
I am a proud Nerd who loves Dungeons and Dragons, Role-playing games and board games. I casually play the Legend of the Five Rings card game (Go Crane Clan!) I love video games with RPG’s and strategy games being my favorite and I absolutely adore good writing and story in the games I play. My music taste are all over the place though I must admit I am not a huge fan of attending concerts unless it’s one of my favorite bands. Large crowds of strangers and very loud noise are not a thing I enjoy so I tend to avoid them where possible. Sadly this means most concerts tend to be more stressful then pleasurable for me.
I love stories and myths, pure and simple, which is why I love Neil Gaiman's writing. I enjoy most reading in general though (Hence the Librarian thing). I love watching movies of all sorts though I must confess to being a bit of a sci-fi/action junkie. I am fairly political and tend to swing to the left on most issues so be warned on that aspect. I have little tolerance for Randian Objectivist lack of compassion in romantic partners so if that is you, then while we might be friends, I doubt any sort of long term romantic thing can develop. Because work, writing and my weekly tabletop games (That keep me sane and social) take up a lot of my time I am not really the sort who goes out much. I promise comfort, calm and a certain level of dependability so if you are looking for a Manic Pixie Dream Boy to whisk you off on an adventure, then this old Taurus might not be for you.
I have a pretty awesome group of friends and while I never mind adding to that collection I have joined this dating site primarily for aforementioned dating and possibly casual encounters (Though I am far less trustful of those) . So if we are talking there is a pretty good chance that the thought of dating has at the very least crossed my mind. I tend to be very straightforward and logical when it comes to relationship type stuff (Sometimes to my detriment) so if you see us getting no further then friends please just out and say it. When one person thinks they are chatting and the other is enduring what they believe is an elaborate courtship ritual nobody ends up winning in the end. Except maybe terrorist. Yeah they are probably pretty ok with that.
((Other note: Yeah the picture is old as hell. I don’t photograph well or often though I am looking to replace it. Roughly still what I look like though.)