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29 M San Gabriel, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 13
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
My foundation is a love of knowledge, betterment, and understanding. From that springs a love of design, a love of understanding how designs play out, and a desire to design better things myself. I'm always looking to improve myself, including becoming a better potential husband, conversationalist, artist, cook, friend, host, philosopher, designer, ethicist, and more.

I'm one of the nice guys. If I detect that someone is quite unhappy, I try to make the person happy again. Candy, a hug, words, assistance; whatever I can offer. I also give food and money to homeless people. They say that nice guys finish last. This is true. Nice guys always finish last. Or second, actually.

I take criticism very well, because I want to get better. Growing as people and as a society is important to me. If you have some hangup about bettering yourself, then we'll probably never get close.

More succinctly...
I am a children's rights (and respectful interaction) promoter, GLBTQ ally, "anthro-improvementist" (a working title), walking suicide helpline, wannabe prepper, biocentrist, philosopher, intellectual, and a lot of other things.

I love walks, just about any activity at night especially when lots of stars are visible, thick fog, thunder and lightening, drinking and serving warm (nonalcoholic) apple cider on cold winter days and nights, swimming, teaching anything, designing, identifying and solving problems, biking instead of driving, Game Genie, ice cubes in the shape of fun things like robots, rectifying boring situations, being atypical, figuring out something new, making people laugh, doing something new, spicy food, decoding media like movies and music videos, and especially hearing people express their own ideas.
What I’m doing with my life
Figuring it out. I'm endeavoring to become a "design engineer", and inventor on the side. I might end up writing a book, too, but you probably know how that tends to work out. I'm not really upset about the education I've sought up to this point, and it'll all surely help me out intellectually and interpersonally, but what does one do with an Associates of Arts and an Associates of Humanities?

I'm also improving my brain all the time (this includes sitting and thinking for extended periods). This is very important to me.
I’m really good at
Intellectual stuff, being funny (hopefully), being a good mate in every way that I can be. "Intellectual stuff" is by far my most unusual trait. I excel at what a classmate coined as "philosophical logic", which is as apposed to mathematical logic, for instance. I've been answering questions like "What came first, the chicken or the egg?", "What is the meaning of life?", "What do women (or people) want?", and so on, for a long time. I'm good at understanding systems with complex interactions, and tracing events and behaviors back to their sources. I'm also just really good at understanding what something truly means, implies, and so on. Because I care.

Accents, singing in those accents, and making up amusing stories. As much as I do not want kids ever, I think that I would tell the best bedtime stories. But then kids become old and start wearing skimpy outfits, and no you can't wear that out of the house! Do you want the boys and men who talk to you to be interested in you, or interested in having sex with you?! Because believe me, you're not going to get both dressed like that! Look. Our culture is essentially created via commercials that want your money, and they don't care about....

Listening. Truly.

I have some odd talents. I can remember visual information from every movie that I've liked, or just seen. I have yet to find this useful outside of I can do the same thing with music. My mental library of movies includes actors' faces and voices, which can be used to find the other movies that actors have been in, that I didn't realize they were in until thinking about it. You know what else? I remember the porn I've seen. Internet porn. That's a lot of faces.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. I grow it out to donate to Locks Of Love which makes wigs for bald kids. I've done it twice so far. I also don't pay for hair cuts, so it's multi-functional. It's at what I call "stage 4 inconvenience": as it grows, its properties change, and it generally becomes more inconvenient. Now it can interfere with leaning against things because it's about at my hip. I haven't donated it yet because I'd like to sell it instead, but I can't decide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Science fiction, documentaries, non-docs with a message like Glory, Kinsey, Milk, Noise (2007), Temple Grandin, and Tucker And Dale vs Evil, and movies with underlying meaning like Pleasantville, and Black Swan, and any movie that explores an idea. With other people, I like watching laughable movies that inspire live viewer commentary. The perfect 80's movie is The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension. I recently saw The Road. I recommend it.

Shows most liked: Aeon Flux, The Amazing Screw-On Head, Archer, Astonishing X-Men, Beer And Board Games (BlameSociety), Bullshit!, Charlie Jade, Cosmos, This Could Be Big, Hyperdrive, Invader Zim, The Mighty Boosh, Penn's Sunday School (a podcast), Portlandia, Red Dwarf, The Tick (live-action), and seemingly anything with Nick Frost. I've seen every Star Trek episode and movie, but some of it was just bad, so I can't really list it. But I like talking about it, if it comes up.

Music (At least a few from each): Hans Zimmer, John Williams, Vangelis, Supreme Beings Of Leisure, Simon And Garfunkel, Alan Silvestri, Paul Robeson, Danny Elfman, Björk, Phantom Of The Opera, and German pop, so far. Also, the original and new versions of movie and video game soundtracks like 'Maklibek "The Dark World" Zelda Dubstep Remix', and songs that make me think, remember, appreciate, or that help me emotionally. ...I also have a soft spot for the music of The Three Amigos.

Food: I'm always up for eating new-to-me foods. Any "Asian" nationality except Japanese are frequent favorites, but that's hardly exotic. I like cooking for special people in my life, so before we see each other, tell me your favorite foods and I'll learn how to make them (Unless you hate free food). I never eat seafood (or anything else wild, unless I know it's easily sustainable), because that's simply taken from the wild and involves the horrors of bycatch while depleting the "resource", and certain farmed fish have actually been shown to be worse for the species than wild-caught. A lot of it also contains mercury, which I really want to stay out of my body.
The six things I could never do without
(1) Those whom I love as family, and my hope that I will mutually love someone as more for the right reasons, again, some day.
(2) Intellectual stimulation
(3) Personal improvement or /which can be accomplishment
(4) Science
(5) Electricity
(6) My voice. I sing frequently.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
General: Many ideas sit on a table, and I usually work with just one at a time, and sometimes I forget about some of them.

Recently: How people focus more than they should on what doesn't matter, and less than they should on what does matter. I am surely also guilty of this.

Really recently: Our societies do not need to be organized with such personal isolation in mind. This physical and social structure leads to increased poverty and waste, and makes homelessness much harder and more frequent. I shall think of how our societies can be better structured.
On a typical Friday night I am
Robbing banks with only my charm and swagger.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never got past the hoverboard level in Battletoads: Battle Maniacs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel like it. Messaging me doesn't mean that you're interested in me in any serious way, or even that you're open to a friendship. No obligation, double your money back if unsatisfied.

you consider yourself to be an intellectual.

you would like an adaptable, ethical, smart, fun friend or romantic partner.

when you talk about sports/fashion, it's to analyze its enthusiasts or criticize the diversion.

you have enjoyed flying a kite or you want a birthday cake with one candle for every year you've been alive. When I turn 50, things'll really start "heating up"! Hah! Meaning both the heat from the fire and the danger of having 50 flaming sticks in one place! Puns are worth their weight in gold.

this profile didn't get you to fall completely asleep. A nodding sleep is okay.