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28 M San Gabriel, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
This sort of represents me. I'm not sure how to make it better. Maybe an introduction. Hi. My name is FoundInThought. Ugh that's terrible.

I think that my most complete and accurate summary is thus. Fundamentally, I'm honest and loving, and I love to think. The rest of me seems changeable in limited ways. I change to become closer to what I believe I should be. I take criticism very well, because I really do want to get better: feelings don't enter the equation. An unpleasant truth is far better than a pleasing falsehood.

In my Personality Section, you'll find "More Dominant". I imagine that this description will go away if I answer more questions, like "More Extroverted" did, but I do have some leadership qualities. For instance, sometimes I start conversations with or compliment strangers. I try to be strong when I need to be, speak up when I should, and I've gotten really good at not getting pushed around by salespeople. These are attributes I'd like to see in others. In relationships, I want nothing but equality. I'm giving, gentle, loving, and respectful.

I'm learning about mechanical and electrical stuff, and more about Solidworks. I think that I should state for the record that I have two associate degrees, as I have yet to exit school and would like to give a modest impression of responsibility and determination. I'm going through a CAD certification program. Hopefully this will make me happy.

To me, this is poetry:
"Freedom is the freedom to say
Two plus two equals four
If that is granted, all else follows"

Because to me, truth is beautiful. This relates to many things about me, like my love of honesty, communication, and understanding. All things that fall under my definition of "intimacy", and all things that I seek in a relationship.

I am a children's rights (and respectful interaction) promoter, GLBT ally (I deny the meaningful existence of gender), "racial-sexual-equalist" (a working title), walking suicide helpline, biocentrist, hug-enthusiast, and a lot of things. But would you read a profile consisting solely of 70 bullet points? I try to be a philanthropist with what little I have, which isn't necessarily money. Sometimes I regret not helping people when I could have. It sort of haunts me. I hope to grow to the point where I will decide, regardless of peer pressure, conventions, fear, or anything else, to help whenever I believe I should. It's really hard sometimes.

I like walks, just about any activity at night especially when lots of stars are visible, fog, thunder and lightening, drinking and serving warm (nonalcoholic) apple cider on cold winter days, swimming, biking instead of driving, squirrels, raccoons, crows, Game Genie, ice cubes in the shape of fun things like robots, doggy dreams, teaching, doing something I've never done before, cheering people up, helping, spicy food, decoding media like movies and music videos, hearing people express their own ideas,

'Not sure what else to say. My Ethics Style is strong. I only have monogamous relationships, including when they're non-romantic. I'm not very good at getting other people to be ethical, but I'm ethical as far as I know, according to various ethical theories, even when it doesn't really serve me. Ethics is very important to me. I'm programmable. My hair would be yours to arrange, but I'll cut it eventually. And I invented the "team nap", which is the best way to take a nap. Although I suppose that some extraordinary circumstances could create a better nap, like sleeping in a large pile of talking Gummy Bears. Actually that sounds terrifying. Team nap's the best. Definitely. Why did they have to be talking? God damn. What if one got in your ear? Ugh.
What I’m doing with my life
Becoming a CAD technician via a certificate program, which will be a stable high-payingish job that can help me bring my own ideas into reality. I've always thought about function, so hopefully I can parley that into a career. I think I've finally found something that I can see myself doing until I die of old age, bitter and cantankerous, shaking my cane at children to get off my lawn, and when that fails, turning on the sprinklers. Actually I think that turning my lawn into a tiny public park would be really cool, though probably legally difficult. Maybe I'll just put a sign that says "Sign the waver and enjoy this micropark". It should have a bench, a shady tree, and a jungle gym.

Oh and of course I'm improving my brain all the time :) This is very important to me.
I’m really good at
What a classmate coined as "philosophical logic" as apposed to mathematical logic, for instance.

Fun facts. Insert quarter to receive facts.

Accents, and making up amusing stories.

Being nicer to mentally different people than the muggles are. Though those muggles tend to be quite off themselves. Everyone's off somehow. Temple Grandin had me nearly in tears the whole time. The movie, not the woman. She's probably very nice.


Remembering visual information from every movie that I've liked, or just seen. I have yet to find this ability useful outside of, though. I can do the same thing with music. My mental library of movies includes actors' faces and voices, which can be used to find the other movies that actors have been in. But I take a while to remember normal things, like names, dates, or women's hair colors.

Being the best boyfriend in the whole world. Fact.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. I grow it out to donate to Locks Of Love which makes wigs for bald kids. I've done it twice so far. I also don't pay for hair cuts, so it's multi-functional. But honestly, as it gets longer, it gets more annoying. It gets caught in certain elements of certain chairs. I've also got it caught in my car window. I'll leave it at that. It's a pain.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Science fiction, documentaries, non-docs with a message, like Glory, Kinsey, Noise (2007), Milk, and Tucker And Dale vs Evil, and movies with underlying meaning like Pleasantville, and Black Swan, and any movie that explores an idea. I used to be more into post-apocalyptic scenarios which probably pleased me by involving sociology and practical ingenuity. I currently like science fiction lots, especially when space-related. With other people, I like watching laughable movies that inspire live viewer commentary. The perfect 80's movie is The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension. It's not supposed to be as funny as it is :)

Shows: Aeon Flux, The Amazing Screw-On Head, Archer, Astonishing X-Men, Beer And Board Games (BlameSociety), Bullshit!, Charlie Jade, Cosmos, This Could Be Big, Hyperdrive, Invader Zim, The Mighty Boosh, Penn's Sunday School, Portlandia, Red Dwarf, The Tick (live-action), and seemingly anything with Nick Frost. I've seen every Star Trek episode and movie, but some of it was just bad, so I can't really list it. But I like talking about it, if it comes up.

Music: Hans Zimmer (The non-lyrical score of The Lion King), John Williams, Vangelis, Supreme Beings Of Leisure, Simon And Garfunkel, Alan Silvestri, Paul Robeson, Danny Elfman, Björk, Phantom Of The Opera, and German pop, so far. Also, the original and new versions of movie and video game soundtracks like Maklibek "The Dark World" Zelda Dubstep Remix, and songs that make me think, remember, appreciate, or that help me emotionally. ...I also have a soft spot for the music of The Three Amigos.

Food: Every nationality that I've tried, but especially "Chinese" (the Western variations), and I'm always up for eating food unlike anything I've had before (but not gagh). I never eat seafood (or anything else wild), because that's simply taken from the wild and involves the horrors of bycatch while depleting the "resource", and certain farmed fish have actually been shown to be worse for the species than wild-caught. A lot of it also contains mercury, which really doesn't add to the flavor. I shouldn't leave out the many kinds of cereals that have been fortified with sugar and beautiful, beautiful food coloring, such as the great and powerful Captain Crunch. People take cereal for granted. It's great. Plus I've heard that it wiped out several nutrition-related diseases (not diabetes).
The six things I could never do without
(1) Those whom I love as family, and my hope that I will mutually love someone as more for the right reasons, some day.
(2) Intellectual stimulation
(3) Personal improvement or /which can be accomplishment
(4) Science
(5) Electricity
(6) 8+ hours of sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
General: Many ideas sit on a table, and I usually work with just one at a time, and sometimes I forget about some of them.

Just now: It's only a matter of time before we see non-syncing songs played simultaneously in a movie, as it's a bit disconcerting because each song "puts you in a different place", and it's an easy method of juxtaposing feelings, ideas, and themes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well last Friday night, I was at school getting ready to present my puzzle box assignment. I hope it's as cool as I hope it is :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am pretty bad at parking my car.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like smart, cool people. I'm totally cool, daddy-o. Believe it.

you need someone to watch monster movies with.

when you talk about sports/fashion, it's to analyze its enthusiasts or criticize the diversion.

you have enjoyed flying a kite or you want a birthday cake with one candle for every year you've been alive.

you wonder about things more seriously than other people do.

you considered messaging me but have not. Initiators are each worth 7-8 extra buckets of special.