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FoundInThought

27 / M / Straight / Single

San Gabriel, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:34am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm beardless now. You're welcome.

Very brief summary: Smart, sensual, caring, logical, fun.

My labels include biocentrist, feminist, children's rights promoter, GLBT ally, and lots more. I have manifold views on things, and I always back up my views with logic and evidence, except when I'm completely wrong, obviously. By the way- showing me I'm wrong about something is very sexy. I will melt in your logic.

I like solving problems, figuring things out, helping other people, designing things, and learning fun, censored, hard-to-find, or "whoa-dense" / "importance-dense" facts. I love conversations about things like social issues, how behavior changes with the environment, the future of x, the causes and dynamics and cycles of lots of social phenomena like female-male disparity, and lots else. But who cares? What are you interested in?

I've long been trying to achieve that improbable goal of mental perfection, such as by eliminating my taboos, learning important things, and finding the most reasonable positions to have on issues, if an issue has one, based on ethics and logic. My views change on a dime, and it's anyone's dime.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment, I'm getting onto a newly corrected track to a career in mechanical drafting, so that I can learn what I need to bring my own ideas into reality. My Associate degrees will help in this change.
I’m really good at
I think that everyone's good at what they love to do. I love collecting fun (especially censored) knowledge, and don't panic, but I also love logic. Also, shifting between acting like a little kid and talking about the ridiculousness of the "many worlds" interpretation. Which I also would have done as a little kid, actually. Teaching people stuff if I actually know what I'm talking about (this is a good test), listening, and remembering main characters' faces and voices from pretty much every movie that I've ever liked and accessing those like a library database (but the computer is slow). I also seem able to assess people well enough to make accurate predictions about their lives, personality, intelligence, how they'll respond to given stimuli such as a request, and what they know. Among strangers, if I want to know something, I just assess everyone and go ask the person who knows what I want to know :) It feels like a superpower! But I feel like I need more evidence that it works. I have an idea. Let's meet, and don't tell me a thing about yourself, and I'll try to guess things about you, and you can tell me how laughably wrong I am :)
The first things people usually notice about me
That I have ridiculous, girly hair. But that's their culture talking. I grow it out to donate to Locks Of Love which makes wigs for cancer kids (I think I heard that's their preferred term). I've done it twice so far.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Information: School, Internet articles and videos like TED.com, and the occasional Science News magazine. By the way, have you ever tried to read "Science" magazine? It might be encrypted.

Movies: documentaries, less scholarly movies that matter like Glory, Kinsey, Noise (2007), Milk, and even Tucker And Dale vs Evil (which deals with "hillbilly" prejudice and hating evil to the point that one becomes evil), movies with underlying meaning like Pleasantville, and Black Swan, and way less scholarly movies, such as post-apocalyptic scenarios (which make my design lobe happy).

Shows: Aeon Flux, The Amazing Screw-On Head, Archer, Astonishing X-Men, Bullshit!, This Could Be Big, Hyperdrive, Invader Zim, Red Dwarf, The Tick (live-action), and seemingly anything with Nick Frost in it.

Music: John Williams, Danny Elfman, Alan Silvestri, Simon And Garfunkel, Supreme Beings Of Leisure, Phantom Of The Opera, German pop, and in the future, genres I'm currently unaware of. Also, movie soundtracks, classical, and songs that make me think, remember, appreciate, or that help me emotionally. ...I also have a soft spot for The Three Amigos.

Comedians: Eddie Izzard, Gilbert Gottfried, Louis CK, and Ricky Gervais.

Food: Every nationality that I've tried, but especially "Chinese" (the Western variations). I never eat seafood (or anything else wild), because that's simply taken from the wild and involves the horrors of bycatch, and certain farmed fish have actually been shown to be worse for the species than wild-caught. A lot of it also contains mercury, which really doesn't add to the flavor. I also enjoy many kinds of cereals that have been fortified with sugar and beautiful, beautiful food coloring.
The six things I could never do without
(1) Intellectual stimulation
(2) Personal improvement or(/which can be) accomplishment
(3) Friends and others who care about me
(4) "Civilization"
(5) Science
(6) Electricity
(Bonus) Sleep
(Obvious) Existing, and doing so relatively comfortably
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think that writing what I don't think about would be easier. Rap, how I could become a rapper, my astrological sign, whether any god or magic is real, sports, and of course fashion. Can't forget fashion.

I also think about how strange existing feels, and my place in the order of events in the universe: free will is a joke, and no matter how many times you observe a situation in exactly the same circumstances, a die will always roll the same number. So circumstances seem to dictate all occurrences and actions, and that means that everything in the universe has a sort of destiny, assuming no one gets a preview, of course. Eh. *shrugs*
On a typical Friday night I am
Stressing about school. Yay. Actually, I could also be coming up with what seems like a new and neat idea. I do my best work while procrastinating. Once, I wrote a short story while procrastinating. And at some point I wrote a satirical Klondike Bar commercial jingle. I was pretty happy about that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like the person I am, but I'm quite unhappy with my scholastic and career achievement so far. I graduated with an Associates Of Arts and an Associates Of Humanities, and I don't regret spending that time how I did, but have a ways to go before I'm able to design. My ADD and a number of other things hold me back a great deal scholastically, so school takes a depressingly long time, and I would love to just start my career right now.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You've read my profile to this point and want to message me but haven't decided for some reason. I'm the friendliest creature in the forest, so they say. I welcome you to my inbox. No need to take your shoes off.

If you have enjoyed flying a kite or you want a birthday cake with one candle for every year you've been alive.

I'm looking for penpals, friends (in-person or phone contacts), and either a monogamous relationship of emotional support, going out to eat, watching movies, and so on but without love or thoughts of marriage or cohabitation, or a monogamous romance (of epic proportions). Also, I rarely meet people face-to-face whom I don't know well already.

I'm also looking for someone to help me perfect my breakfast-making skills. I think it's the most fun meal of the day. If you know of a fun breakfast, please either tell or show me! :)