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My details

Last online
Oct 4
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kids and might want more
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I would describe myself as an academic geeky man's man. This means I can talk at least somewhat fluently about medieval philosophy and Buddhist theology, tell you all about the best sci-fi around and fix a leaky faucet with power tools (not that I would need power tools for that, but I have some and like to use them). Basically, everything anyone could ever want in one person...well, all anyone could want if all they want is a philosophy spewing, sci-fi watching handyman.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work. Not a glamorous job or anything, but I really love my coworkers and also love the fact that I have a decent job in this economic climate. I do have a couple of side projects going on right now as well that will hopefully take off and make me a billionaire! Oh, and I write. I write a lot. Finished my first novel and am about through the first major edit. It will undoubtedly be bigger than Harry Potter. Undoubtedly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the humor in pretty much any situation. Of course, I keep the serious stuff serious, but I do enjoy joking around a whole lot. Most people are gracious enough to act as though they are having fun as well. No guarantees what they say out of earshot though.

I'm also probably the best dad imaginable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The fact that I'm almost always smiling, laughing or cracking a joke of some kind or another. It's a very rare thing to find me in anything but a great mood. The giant mechanized praying mantis I have follow me around comes in a close second though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books...I've been accused of being a hoarder of books though I keep trying to tell people you can only be a hoarder if you have more than one kind of thing. I'm a collector! I enjoy filling gaps in my knowledge that I think I really should know by buying a book or two about that topic.

I have books on nearly every religion you can think of and likely a few you didn't know existed. Philosophy and philosophy of religion texts are a favorite as well. Of course, I was an English major back in undergrad days (as well as philosophy and religious studies) so I have many of the classics as well. I can read to you in Middle English if you like...if sounding like a Viking impresses you.

As far as current fiction goes. I have been reading a ton of young adult fiction lately and I try to pass that off as research because I'm currently writing in that genre.

Movies-I can handle pretty much anything though I do have a soft spot in my heart reserved for sci-fi and period pieces.

TV-I don't watch all that much television. The shows I do actually watch are Walking Dead, Arrow, Dr. Who, Game of Thrones.

Food-I like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Coffee
2) Coffee Beans
3) Coffee Grinder...or already ground beans, I suppose.
4) Water for Coffee
5) Coffee Pot/Press
6) Coffee Cup

Guess I need a longer list. I didn't even get through what I need the first five minutes of my day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Due to philosophy and academic study of religion (academic, mind you, I'm not out to convert anyone I'm just interested in the faith practices of other people), I usually do my deep thinking along those lines. For not-so-deep thinking, I wonder why I don't get a theme song.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I'm really boring. I'm likely sitting at my computer with a glass of something red cursing myself because I have to correct yet another passive sentence in my book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live in Boulder and have never hiked a 14er. I also don't really like tofu or kale all that much. I'm fairly certain that is some kind of misdemeanor in this town.
You should message me if
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You have something more to offer than "hi" or "nice smile" in the message. It's rough to start a conversation based on that. Other than that, you should like kids, but, be aware, you won't be meeting mine for quite a while as she gets attached to people easily and the last thing I want is for that to happen with someone I don't think there is a future with.