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Fraktastic

41 Seattle, WA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:28pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a goofy-yet-stylish nerd who makes games and art when not at my corporate rent-payin' job. Sex-positive, and socially progressive. I like coffee, sushi, cocktails, vintage clothes, burlesque, roller derby, Fluevogs, and Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab. Non-outdoorsy city boy. Disliker of football.

For anyone interested in more than friendship:

I'm a 2 on the Kinsey scale, and mostly interested in dating women, but I do like to be flirted with by cute people of any gender expression (singles or occasionally couples) who want to get into my pants, so game on. I'm also polyamorous, kinky, and a switch. TheLadyT is my fabulous anchor/primary partner and nex0s_6 is my lovely long-distance partner.

I'm amicably divorced and have one child. I'm not looking to have any more, but it's fine with me if you have offspring of your own. As a general rule, folks I'm dating are unlikely to meet my kid until I've dated them for a while—I will probably show you pictures of the cuteness though.

I prefer communication over drama and respect people who own their shit.

Smarts, compassion, and cultural literacy turn me on.

My dance card is pretty full at the moment and I have a full life. Email me if the cut of my jib strikes your fancy. It just might be a while before I can schedule a date. No, really, I am super-fucking-busy these days. I'm interested in meeting fun new people, but scheduling's tight, yo.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making games, raising a precocious kid, stuff, things…things n' stuff.

Moving back to the hill!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making stuff, losing track of time, impropriety.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Provided here with no context: I recently heard "He's hot, tell him to stop shaving his pubes."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
most anything by:
Neal Stephenson
Neil Gaiman
Alan Moore
Chuck Palahniuk
Terry Pratchett
Joseph Campbell
Warren Ellis
William S. Burroughs
Cory Doctorow

Recently enjoyed:
Ready Player One
The Girl With All the Gifts

You Will Die is fucking amazing stuff
http://feralhouse.com/you-will-die/

Movies:
Big Trouble in Little China
Buckaroo Banzai
Blade Runner (all the best scifi from the 80's started with "B" apparently)
A Nightmare Before Christmas
Bad Santa
Pulp Fiction
Harold and Maude
Hellraiser
Beetlejuice
Star Wars (original trilogy)
Tampopo
Streets of Fire
No Country for Old Men
There Will Be Blood
Children of Men
Wild at Heart
The Wrestler
The Blues Brothers
Gremlins
Donnie Darko (preferably the director's cut)
Escape From New York
SLC Punk
Clerks
Full Metal Jacket
A Clockwork Orange
Coffy
The Jerk
The Thing
The Day The Earth Stood Still (the original, if you mention the one with Keanu, I will go all Gort on your ass)
Wrath of Khan
Shaun of the Dead
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
Zoolander
The Big Lebowski
Cabaret
Fight Club
Star Trek
Tom Waits: Big Time
Monty Python's The Meaning of Life
Summer Wars
Most of the Marvel movies (except the Thor movies—they're only kinda OK)

Television:
Venture Bros.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
LOST
Battlestar Galactica
Metalocalypse
Superjail
Mad Men
Carnivale
Deadwood
The Daily Show
The Colbert Report
The IT Crowd
Dr. Who
Torchwood (not so much the 1st season, but 2nd season rocked)
Dexter
Six Feet Under
Wonderfalls
Penn & Teller's Bullshit
The Simpsons
Weeds
Firefly
Max Headroom
Invader Zim
Samurai Jack
Powerpuff Girls
South Park
Count Duckula
Dangermouse
The Young Ones
The A Team
Star Trek (TOS, TNG and DS9, but NOT Voyager or Enterprise)
Monty Python's Flying Circus
Aeon Flux (the cartoon, not the movie)
Beavis & Butthead
Mystery Science Theater 3000
Ren & Stimpy
Louie
The Wire
The Prisoner
Animaniacs
Freakazoid!
Futurama
Rome
Being Human
Dollhouse
Bored to Death
Sons of Anarchy
30 Rock
Flight of the Conchords
Boardwalk Empire
Community
Parks and Recreation
Game of Thrones
Derren Brown's series and specials
Alphas
The Killing
Adventure Time
Young Justice
Downton Abbey
Portlandia
Fringe
Orphan Black
Rick and Morty
True Detective
House of Cards
King of the Nerds
Cosmos
Black Jesus
American Horror Story
Sleepy Hollow
Broad City
Daredevil

Music:
I like a shit-ton of music from every genre and many eras.

But I am not, and never will be, a belieber.

Food:
sushi
dry rub barbeque
dim sum
bacon
steak
dark chocolate
beer
Islay Scotch
reposado
eel
salmon
a corned beef sandwich at Katz's Deli
bagels with lox & cream cheese
Mexcian food
real Mexican food
blueberries
cheese
ramen (not the cup-o-noodles stuff, the kind you get in a Japanese noodle shop, like in Tampopo)
dumplings
cheesecake
coffee (coffeecoffeecoffee—bouncebouncebounce!)
well-made cocktails
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughter
caffeine
creativity
good food
a comfy bed
people to share the last three items with (but stay clear of my caffeine or I will cut you)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Game mechanics, semiotics, aesthetics, technology, sex, and the occasional brilliant idea.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tinkering with a board game prototype or committing depraved acts. Sometimes both in one night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cried, just a little bit, at the last couple of Legend of Korra finales.

I have a folder on my drive with all of the Marvel films and TV shows—organized primarily by chronological order in the MCU, and secondarily by their release date. Including 13 placeholder folders for announced future projects.

Also, I'm kinda slutty, but responsibly so.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to go see a nerdcore show, a derby bout, check out a goth club, play a boardgame or rpg, or hang out and watch Venture Bros., or some strange piece of cinema. Bonuses for combining sushi and/or cocktails with any of these activities. Or, if you looked at my picture and thought "Yeah, I'd hit that." (especially if my Fetlife profile was where you saw it first.)

If you enjoy this as much as I do
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXZanbZ6PWs
OK, that was a trick, you can't possibly have enjoyed that as much as I do.

If you have a print of The Day the Clown Cried that you're willing to screen for me.

If you own a Buckaroo Banzai & the Hong Kong Cavaliers concert tour T-shirt. Seriously, get in touch.

If you like interrobangs and Oxford commas.

If you are Julie Andrews, circa 1964, Annie Lennox, circa 1983, or the reincarnation of Maila Nurmi.