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43 • Naperville, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–55
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Oct 4
- 5' 11" (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Other but it’s not important
- Post grad
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English, Spanish
Movies I've seen lately: Inherent Vice, Uptight, Nashville, The Long Goodbye, Medium Cool, The Friends of Eddie Coyle, La Vie de Boheme, Kurisowa's Proletariat Trilogy, 2 lane blacktop, Killing of a Chinese bookie. I like movies usually in inverse proportion to the amount of computer graphics, fast food tie-ins, and action figures they contain. I like black and white, cinema verite, noir, femmes fatale, and screwball comedy. Anti-heroes not super heroes.
I listen to a lot of podcasts, mostly the C-realm, Buddhist geeks, extraenvironmentalist, strong towns, etc. I used to like WTF but got a little tired of it. I listen to Joe Frank on Sunday night.
TV: FUCK that's Delicious, Hamiltons Pharmacopeia
Art isn't a category here (which is telling) but it's vitally important. I like so many artists, but some favorites are Bosch, Breughel, R Crumb, HR Giger, Syd Mead, Alex Grey, Jr Slattum, and so many more.
I make most of my own food from scratch, I used to be a chef. I like going to farmer's markets and getting the goods and handling it myself.
Here's a question for you: if our personal tastes in music, literature, food and entertainment match, does that make us more our less of a match for each other? To the extent that our media choices shape our interior dialogue, does finding someone with similar influences mean you have a greater likelihood of getting your relationship needs met with that person? Maybe a better or more interesting, or more authentic approach is to ask what stories, or music, or shows, or food YOU have created, what dreams do you have?
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