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42 • M • Chicago, IL
- Last Online
- Today – 1:17am
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English, Spanish
Books: Books on spiritual development, leadership, art, science, philosophy, the occult, bodywork, and Mad magazine. When I was younger I liked Kerouac, Burroughs, Miller, Kesey, Roth, Heller, Philip K. Dick. I like John Michael Greer, James Howard Kunstler, Dmitri Orlov, Ivan Illich, Carolyn Baker, Barbara Ehrenreich. The last 2 books I finished Cosmic Trigger II by Robert Anton Wilson and Center of the Cyclone by John C. Lily. Spengler's Decline of the West. Charles Eisenstein.
Shows: No TV signal in my house but sometimes I get DVD's, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Portlandia, Curb your Enthusiasm, Family Guy, if it's TV it's got to be lowbrow and crude. Anything evocative of the atmosphere and feeling of the Twilight Zone or Twin Peaks.
Music: Mostly podcasts, WTF, C-realm, Gnostic Media, Kunstlercast. I like Joe Frank, I tried Nightvale but couldn't get into it. Also jazz and blues of the 1920's. Some of the music of my youth includes: Dead Kennedys, My Life with the Thrill Kill Kult, Fear, Ministry, Mudhoney, Butthole Surfers, The Cramps, PWEI, Killdozer, Dandy Warhols, Fu Manchu, Bad Brains, Black Flag, Nebula, Motorhed, the Orb, Brian Eno, Talking Heads, Lords of Acid, Electric Wizard.
Food: Ok, I haven't said a lot about this topic and that is an oversight because this is important. I make most of my own food. Some things I like to make are Cuban style roasted pork (just like Paseo in Seattle if you know that), Chinese style beef noodle soup (not pho it has more chilies but pho is good too), Mexican style meatballs in tomatillos sauce, roasted beets and sweet potatos with balsamic glaze, Thai-type peanut sauce, all types of pickled peppers and vegetables, and many, many other things. Food is one of the most important parts of life and if you are afraid to try such "exotic" foods as sushi then let me say this is one very large set of experiences we are not going to be able to share. I'm having a hard time finding someone who is willing to try different places and things which makes me wonder how all these restaurants in Chicago stay in business! I'm going to try Longman and Eagle tomorrow, maybe I'll update this from time to time.
6) I brush my teeth, multiple times per day, and I also use floss.
5) I won't borrow your car and disappear for days at a time. As a bonus, I won't borrow money from you and spend it on meth, because...
4) I don't have a drug habit. Or a gambling habit, porn habit, or any other degenerate habits.
3) I have been employed and not living with my parents since I graduated high school.
2) I won't embarrass you in front of your friends and family, which means they will never ask you "Ugh, what do you see in that guy?" and...
1) You will never have to say, "Sigh. You just don't know him like I do."
I know, I may as well join the monastery right now.
Ok, I put that in for all of you who say you love sarcasm, you know who you are :)
Actually, I spend a lot of time thinking about the More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know is Possible.
The real thing I'm most willing to admit is I really like people and I really love women. I wish we didn't have to go through these ridiculous ordeals to get to know each other.
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 30–55
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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