I've taken a more difficult road in life because I fully believe all the cliches about going after what you love no matter what.
I am honest. Everyone says that. They're lying. I am not. It doesn't mean I can't be kind or tactful. I am both, but still I've found that a common reaction from women I meet is "whoa, you really are honest".
I have no interest in the idea of casual when it comes to relationships. I've always been disturbed by how so many think so little of themselves and being with someone that this is the word that they use. Casual? As in everyday, unimportant, interchangeable? Yikes. Why is that desirable to you?
I'm not interchangeable. I wouldn't treat you or think of you that way either. Even if we met and we weren't right for each other, etc, chances are if I thought you were interesting enough to meet or at least talk to I'd come away with some sense of your specific coolness, your distinct sparkling humanity, despite whatever incompatibility, there might be.
(Of course we might also hate each other after five minutes, but let's be hopeful shall we!)
In the end the goal is that you trust me enough(eventually) to let me in on what moves you and stills you, makes you scream and silences you, elates and haunts you.
I'm sure I'll think of other stuff to write but for now I'll leave it here.
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