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37 M North Bergen, NJ

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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly other
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English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
NOTE: For all of you NYC girls who think Jersey is some strange planet light years away, I am ten minutes out of Manhattan, so the irony is if you live in Brooklyn, Queens, etc, I can get to midtown faster than you. I bring this up due to the oddly high number of New Yorkers who say things to me like: "How many hours drive here was it from Jersey?" or: "You mean Jersey has electricity AND indoor plumbing?!"

-So i love art and writing and film. So much so that I'm working towards making a living off it, specifically writing and film making. It's not the kind of dream that has a direct course, but most of the awesome stuff in life tends not to.

I tend to attract a certain type of girl due to my appearance, of course the irony is I tend to not be attracted to them.

I am pretty geeky, so you should be prepared for that.

I'm honest(very honest) but I promise that doesn't mean I need to be a raging prick about it. I think most of the time honesty and tact/diplomacy can coexist.

I'm big on integrity and think it's easy to have fun with fun people. I'm also not the type that's going to take longer to get ready to go out than you do.

I want to find a somewhat crazy woman who keeps enough of a sense of childlike wonder that she hasn't been jaded by life even if its thrown her for a loop at times. I want her to be brave enough to follow her passions and wise enough to be able to enjoy life along the way.

I promise not to commit any crimes on our date, and if I do, I promise you absolutely won't take the fall for them. -Unless you'd like to, which would really help me out.

-Seriously, where else can you get a guarantee like this?!

- I assure you that, though I don't have a lot of photos up, that is what I look like(actually I don't think I am too photogenic, go figure) so I promise not to show up on our date looking like an orangutan with a glandular problem.

If you want a guy who doesn't forget how great you are and how lucky he is to be with you even if we're in the middle of an argument, date me.

Good luck and if you read all this, thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
Working on seducing the masses with my celluloid fever dreams and practicing the tao of awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
"That guy's head is shaped like a giant egg". -"He could be hatching trouble." (Get it? Egg, hatching trouble?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Everything's my favorite. Except stuff I don't like. Movies are too many. Food, I'm pretty eclectic in that department. Love a great burger and root bear float, because apparently I am from the fifties.
The six things I could never do without
1. Lots of geek stuff we can discuss later.
2. Chip Shop. -That's this joint in Brooklyn where they fry everything. It should surprise no one if I eat myself to death there one day.
3. Anything pumpkin.
4. Living to my full potential.
5. Self respect.
6. A child like sense of joy and wonder.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If you don't use it do you actually lose it?
On a typical Friday night I am
There's an old black and white movie called Mighty Joe Young about a ten foot Gorilla on a stage who gets giant fake coins thrown at him by the audience until he flips out and tears the place apart. -Need I say more? -In fact, almost everything I know I learned from Giant Ape films, and also 24. -So if you want a surly but kind giant ape who fights terrorists, I am so your guy!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
-This is OKCupid's version of a Jedi mind trick...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're pretty sure you're the coolest chick who ever lived. -Or you just want to. -Which probably means you're pretty awesome. So it's win-win really.