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38 M North Bergen, NJ

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Yesterday – 6:47pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly other
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English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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NOTE: For all of you NYC girls who think Jersey is some strange planet light years away, I am ten minutes out of Manhattan, so the irony is if you live in Brooklyn, Queens, etc, I can get to midtown faster than you. I bring this up due to the oddly high number of New Yorkers who say things to me like: "How many hours drive here was it from Jersey?" or: "You mean Jersey has electricity AND indoor plumbing?!"Hi. If you're here then I suppose it's time I try to describe who I am to you.

I've taken a more difficult road in life because I fully believe all the cliches about going after what you love no matter what.

I am honest. Everyone says that. They're lying. I am not. It doesn't mean I can't be kind or tactful. I am both, but still I've found that a common reaction from women I meet is "whoa, you really are honest".

I have no interest in the idea of casual when it comes to relationships. I've always been disturbed by how so many think so little of themselves and being with someone that this is the word that they use. Casual? As in everyday, unimportant, interchangeable? Yikes. Why is that desirable to you?

I'm not interchangeable. I wouldn't treat you or think of you that way either. Even if we met and we weren't right for each other, etc, chances are if I thought you were interesting enough to meet or at least talk to I'd come away with some sense of your specific coolness, your distinct sparkling humanity, despite whatever incompatibility, there might be.

(Of course we might also hate each other after five minutes, but let's be hopeful shall we!)

In the end the goal is that you trust me enough(eventually) to let me in on what moves you and stills you, makes you scream and silences you, elates and haunts you.

I'm sure I'll think of other stuff to write but for now I'll leave it here.

Thanks for stopping by!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on seducing the masses with my celluloid fever dreams and practicing the tao of awesome.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"That guy's head is shaped like a giant egg". -"He could be hatching trouble." (Get it? Egg, hatching trouble?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Everything's my favorite. Except stuff I don't like. Movies are too many. Food, I'm pretty eclectic in that department. Love a great burger and root bear float, because apparently I am from the fifties.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Lots of geek stuff we can discuss later.
2. Chip Shop. -That's this joint in Brooklyn where they fry everything. It should surprise no one if I eat myself to death there one day.
3. Anything pumpkin.
4. Living to my full potential.
5. Self respect.
6. A child like sense of joy and wonder.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If you don't use it do you actually lose it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's an old black and white movie called Mighty Joe Young about a ten foot Gorilla on a stage who gets giant fake coins thrown at him by the audience until he flips out and tears the place apart. -Need I say more? -In fact, almost everything I know I learned from Giant Ape films, and also 24. -So if you want a surly but kind giant ape who fights terrorists, I am so your guy!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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-This is OKCupid's version of a Jedi mind trick...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–41
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're pretty sure you're the coolest chick who ever lived. -Or you just want to. -Which probably means you're pretty awesome. So it's win-win really.