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63 Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:40pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Has kids and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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I value intimacy and the naturalness of nearness. I believe in the "Click" that drives each other together the moment one meets. I believe in the glance that a moment will tell more about the devotion one is willing to give to a relationship than all the psycho therapy in the world. Our spiritual being knows when it is right...even before we do. I don't believe in the rationalization or compatibility of love but only in the determination not to fear it but to risk everything for it. For true love to exist a heavy price must be paid. Most are unwilling and too selfish so remain alone.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping others is the business I am in now.
I’m really good at
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Providing information to others to help them change for the better.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Outgoing and passionate about what I do and believe in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. Most recently Proof of Heaven. Movies: Changing Lanes and Cyrano de Bergerac. All in the Family. The Four Seasons singing: "Sherry Baby and Can't take my eyes off of you". Salmon with sautéed string beans and basil with that fabulous glass of wine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee. English muffin. A meaningful job. Daughter Brook and son Blake and a destiny worth living.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The afterlife. There is so much to be grateful for and so much to be thankful. But in the mist of it I also cannot avoid seeing the constant wars and horrible things humans do to one another. I want to be at a place where there is kindness and love and not hate and fear.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alone making dinner and choosing a movie from my vast collection. I live vicariously thru the trials and adventure of the movies I collect. I face time with my daughter and son who live with their wonderful mother in Chicago. Am the luckiest man in the world to have two unbelievable children who's attitude about the world are just and beautiful.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have gave up on others when I should have stayed in the fight. I ran away just like I did so often as a small boy growing up in New York City.
You should message me if
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You are older than 50 and looking for friendship that may or may not lead to love and devotion. If you are passionate and still have life inside of you to share with another the intimacy of a human being. If you can sit and listen to Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons singing "Can't take my eyes off of you". And feel it. Linda Ronstadt singing Ooh baby baby, hurts so bad and blue bayou.