If I send you a message it means three things:
I've read your whole profile.
I've read all the questions under "unacceptable answers".
I think its worth finding out if we will get along
I am a human and a person (there is a difference). As such, I try my best to either fix or embrace my flaws. I am eccentric and kind of strange sometimes, but I'm mostly harmless. It is very important for me to be myself, so I don't like filtering my words or changing how I behave. I will, but I need to be convinced it's for a good reason.
I am very honest and always say what I'm thinking or feeling. This makes me seem abrasive if you aren't prepared for it. I am normally a warm and friendly person that wants to include everyone in everything.
I have a VERY thick skin. The majority of people don't even have the ability to offend me. The big ones all involve some type of overt discrimination, at which point I will be unable to hide my utter disdain for your very existence.
I want to find people that have personalities and goals that are compatible with mine. I'm not opposed to a long-term relationship, but to be fair I don't really have time for one. I'm happy to find friends.
If you no longer want to have contact with me all you need to do is say so. I will wish you a good life and never talk to you again. All i ask is that you do the same for me.
I've slowed down in the partying area. I still go out 3-4 nights a week, but the goal is activities and social interaction rather than substance intake and reckless behavior. I also only use an e-cig now.
i like hanging out, going to bars, playing games (especially pool and board games), talking and listening to music (i like them separate, but i like them more when done in conjunction), people watching, random conversations(with people i know or total strangers), silly mental exercises, and making things.
ENTP, Aquarius Aquarius Taurus, i don't care about these things
If you'd like, you can message my friends, DJ_Spinster and jaynerussell. They will vouch for the fact that i'm not a serial killer and that i am made of awesome. (kind of like legos cast from a neutron star or a theremin made of of fancy cheeses)