If I send you a message it means three things:
I've read your whole profile.
I've read all the questions under "unacceptable answers".
I think its worth finding out if we will get along
I am a human and a person (there is a difference). As such, I try my best to either fix or embrace my flaws. I am eccentric and kind of strange sometimes, but I'm mostly harmless. It is very important for me to be myself, so I don't like filtering my words or changing how I behave. I will, but I need to be convinced it's for a good reason.
I am very honest and very frequently say what I'm thinking or feeling. This makes me seem abrasive if you aren't prepared for it. I am normally a warm and friendly person that wants to include everyone in everything. The only times I don't do it are when I feel I should make sure I don't alienate a person for some selfish reason.
I have a VERY thick skin. The majority of people don't even have the ability to offend me. The big ones all involve some type of overt discrimination, at which point I will be unable to hide my utter disdain for your very existence.
I want to find people that have personalities and goals that are compatible with mine.
If you no longer want to have contact with me all you need to do is say so. I will wish you a good life and never talk to you again. All I ask is that you do the same for me.
I've slowed down in the partying area. I still go out 3-4 nights a week, but the goal is activities and social interaction rather than substance intake and reckless behavior. I also only use an e-cig now.
I like hanging out, going to bars, playing games (especially pool and board games), talking and listening to music (i like them separate, but i like them more when done in conjunction), people watching, random conversations(with people i know or total strangers), silly mental exercises, and making things.
ENTP, Aquarius Aquarius Taurus, i don't care about these things as I do not think they are useful.