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37 London, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 9:51am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Irish (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy exploring London and the great wide yonder. I get a kick out of trying new things - most recently surfing in Portugal. I also have a drum that I sometimes bang.

A random and incomplete list of music-makers I like: Nick Cave, Aphex Twin, PJ Harvey, Jarvis Cocker (Pulp), Massive Attack, Portishead, Patti Smith, Daniel Avery, Fuck Buttons, Modeselektor, Jon Hopkins, Miss Kittin, Bat for Lashes, Little Dragon, Prince and Goat.
I strongly dislike Riverdance, Abba and musicals (apart from the Book of Mormon which was okay). Some people have misinterpreted this sentence as a love of musicals and have messaged me about this. I'm not sure why. I'll reiterate that I detest musicals. Hopefully this will eliminate musicals from my inbox for good.

I haven't hung up my clubbing gear yet, but I'm not out pounding the dance-floors every single weekend as I've got a mild case of raver's knee. Yoga helps to keep me zen. I enjoy going to music festivals. I aim to attend more in countries where you don't need wellies. Dancing in wellies can be tough on the toes.

I'm a science communicator by day and sometimes night, busy swiping the wasps off the apple of truth. A line pilfered shamelessly from Chris Morris. I spent the early part of my career setting bubbles on fire and zapping random objects with a Tesla coil. Now I daydream of those halcyon days as I attempt to manage a national project and think strategically.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hunting for new sights, sounds and haunts (as in hangouts, I'm pale but not a ghost).
Galavanting thoughtfully around museums and galleries.
Doing slightly ridiculous outdoor challenges.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Air drumming.
Touching my toes.
Keeping a conversation going.
Walking quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My red hair: it's quite bright, but not blinding. Apparently my eyes are eye-catching.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I would live in a cinema if I could. I suppose I could if I tried a bit harder. Some of my favourite films: La Grande Belezza, Short Cuts, Sightseers, Little Miss Sunshine, In the Loop, Moon, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Guard and Mud. I'd like to see a mash-up of the two: Mud-Guard.

I could be described as a bit of a book worm, or squirrel. Some of the authors whose books live on my shelves and digital devices: Margaret Atwood, Kurt Vonnegut, Ian McEwan, Sarah Hall, JG Ballard, Charles Bukowski, Dave Eggers, Michael Faber, Jeanette Winterson and David Eagleman.

I tend to sprinkle things with chilli and dress them with lime. I love Vietnamese, Thai and Indian food. Rum mixed with ginger ale and lime is my favourite alcoholic beverage. I have Guinness flowing through my veins. It's a genetic condition.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've bent the rules slightly and have greedily gone for more things than I'm allowed:
My friends;
The puffins that raised me;
Potato-based products and chillis;
A hot water bottle in winter (preferably in human form);
Armadilloes (I'd like to live near a family of them);
Outdoor and indoor adventures.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next adventure.
Sunshine and where I can find some as my freckles are fading.
The mind-boggling connectome inside our skulls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about and sometimes in - I might be spotted at a gig, in a pub, cooking for friends, camping in a field or surfing (most likely not very gracefully) on the crest of a wave.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had childhood crushes on Magnum PI, MacGyver and Wonder Woman. Feel free to psychoanalyse this confession.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think (or have a hunch) that I'm your cup of tea or other favourite tipple.
I float your boat enough for it to remain buoyant.
You're taller than me - a few centimetres more will do. You don't have to be a pro-basketball player. I'm a Prince fan so Cuban heels are acceptable.