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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:14am
5' 9" (1.76m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Irish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I enjoy exploring London and the great wide yonder. I have a sunny demeanour and a dark sense of humour. I'm allergic to musicals, Riverdance and Abba. I sometimes bang a drum. Mosquitoes think I'm tasty.

A random and incomplete list of music-makers who have contributed to the soundtrack of my life: Aphex Twin, Prince, PJ Harvey, Autechre, William Onyeabor, Fuck Buttons, Nils Frahm, Jon Hopkins, Miss Kittin and Bat for Lashes. I could go on, but I'll save you from an ever expanding and pulsating list.

To recharge I enjoy doing yoga and spinning around like a swirling dervish to Ravel's Bolero and techno. Although not at the same time. I might be missing out on something special. I'm sure this type of class already exists in the depths of Shoreditch and Nathan Barley is the yogi.

My bike takes me places. I'm a music festival fan. I aim to attend more in countries where you don't need wellies. Raving in wellies can be tough on the toes.

By day, I work on a national engagement project about connections between our food and drink, our health and our environment. I spent the early part of my career setting bubbles on fire and zapping random objects with a Tesla coil. I miss the flames and lightning.
What I’m doing with my life
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Hunting for new sights, sounds and haunts (as in hangouts, I'm pale but not a ghost)
Galavanting thoughtfully around museums and galleries
Clambering up hills and mountains
Gleefully jumping through waves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going off on a tangent and enjoying the journey
Connecting with people and places
Dancing for extended periods of time
Air drumming.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My red hair: it's quite bright, but not blinding. Apparently my eyes are eye-catching.
If I've been on an adventure - insect bites and a deep tan (feeble joke!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some films I've watched more than once: Stand by Me, La Grande Bellezza, La Jaula de Oro, Short Cuts, All about my Mother, Sightseers, In the Loop, Moon and The Guard. I really want to see High Rise.

I could be described as a bit of a book worm, or squirrel. Some of the wordsmiths who live on my shelves and digital devices: Margaret Atwood, Kurt Vonnegut, Paul Auster, Julian Barnes, Sarah Hall, JG Ballard, Kafka, Michael Faber, Jeanette Winterson, Kate Tempest and Tim Winton.

I tend to sprinkle food with chilli and dress it with lime. I love Vietnamese, Thai and Indian cuisine. I've got Guinness flowing through my veins. It's a genetic condition.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've bent the rules slightly and have greedily gone for more things than I'm allowed:
The puffins that raised me (sadly now at risk of extinction)
My friends
A hot water bottle in winter (preferably in human form)
The great outdoors
Potato-based products.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All those wonderful places I've yet to visit.
I should probably learn to drive soon but being able to fly like a bird would be so much better.
The bicycle is a wonderful invention.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about - you may find me at a gig, in a cinema or raving in a divey club.
But I also need to spend time prowling around the countryside and coastline. I've recently been up in the Lake District doing some fell running and learning how to navigate the old skool and sensible way using a map and compass. I did some Hallowe'en surfing (well splashing about enthusiastically) in sunny Cornwall. I've just been exploring beautiful Sri Lanka for a couple of weeks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had childhood crushes on MacGyver, David Attenborough and Wonder Woman. Feel free to psychoanalyse this confession.
You should message me if
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I float your virtual boat enough for it to bob along the electromagnetic waves.
You enjoy encounters of the real kind.