I'm mostly interested in meeting new friends and maybe finding a friend with benefits (emphasis on the "friend" part). I'm in a committed, open relationship with a woman and we have an arrangement about relations with the same sex.
I like guys who aren't shallow, who I can do "guy" things with. Fellow gaymers are my ideal guy friends, but I can get along with pretty much anyone who shares my hobbies/interests.
A little about me:
I enjoy good conversation, no matter what the topic, whether it's something as serious as history, art, religion, or science, or something entirely goofy. I thrive on people who have interesting/creative ways of thinking. I can talk about anything with the right person, for hours on end.
I have a sarcastic sense of humor and although I am generally very patient, I strongly dislike contrived rules and herd mentality.
I also enjoy games of all kinds and varieties: sports, card games, board games, role-playing games, or computer/video games. It's been years since I touched the consoles, but I'm an avid PC gamer.
(And finally, I'm very uncomfortable talking about myself!)