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28 Ridgewood, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I live in Queens, and I'm originally from Rhode Island.

I moved to New York for grad school and have no intention on leaving.

I like to cook, draw, and exercise, and my friend got me hooked on yoga recently.
What I’m doing with my life
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No idea. I suspect it'll be the sort of thing that the pattern is more apparent in retrospect.

I work a stable/dull 9-5 and have health benefits though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Balancing a book while holding the top subway pole while carrying two bags of junk.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My large eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Midnight's Children, the Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie. The Savage Detectives by Roberto Bolano. The Quiet American by Graham Greene. American Gods by Neil Gaiman, 10:04 by Ben Lerner. Samuel Johnson is Indignant by Lydia Davis. Amy Hempel short stories. Post War by Tony Judt. Currently reading: The Power Broker by Robert Caro, and it might be the best thing I've read yet.

Movies: The Blues Brothers.

Shows: Seinfeld, Arrested Development, The Sopranos.

Music: My roommate turned me onto Grass Widow which I've been listening to a lot at work. Steely Dan. Laurie Anderson. At work sometimes I like to put on Q2 so when I'm scrolling through a Word Doc it sounds like someone is chasing me down a wide, desolate street with a knife in an oppressive foreign city.

Food: This is terrible and should be a deal breaker for all decent people, but my doctor legit told me that gluten is killing my thyroid and to cut it out. On the plus side, if you like Lydia Davis short stories (see above), you could partake in a real life "Thyroid Diary" with me. Otherwise I will eat pretty much anything and have been compared to a garbage can by many people.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time to decompress; food; the smell of the rain on concrete on a hot summer day; places to walk to/around; books; listening material (music and wnyc).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ways to distract myself at work and things I read somewhere.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting drinks and maybe dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I read my Susan Miller horoscope regularly. When things line up I feel it is pre-ordained proof that the universe has order, and when (more typically) they do not I know it is proof that life is abject chaos.
You should message me if
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You want to meet.