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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 19
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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MB Type: INTJ; reason, science, art; atheist; poet; philosopher; 3 citizenships; love to learn and learn to love; 4 wives; 2 children; many lives, many deaths, many lives. I enjoy thinking and discussing ideas. It is important to make and maintain enduring friendships with intelligent, emotionally mature persons of all ages, male or female. I like being useful to others by which I mean providing sensitive support for the individual's unique growth. I am responsible for my freedom which is total.

Epicurus puts it well in four lines:
Nothing to fear in Gods.
Nothing to feel in Death.
The Good can be achieved.
Evil can be endured.

I write, teach, love, care and otherwise cultivate and deliver my experiences and understandings of the "Human Condition" which I hope furthers freedom as both means and end for at least a few individuals. I value consistently applied reason, acknowledged feelings, earned respect, self-and-other responsibility, moral integrity, passion, courage, commitment, competency, beauty, wisdom, serenity, elegance, autonomy, truthfulness, science, technology, Western and Eastern classics in all areas of human endeavor, the complementarity of sexual and other opposites and Aristotelian logic, making mistakes and meaning, atheism, the free market, trustworthiness and love.

Physically: 5' 9'/175cm, 155lbs/70 kgs, a mostly healthy body (sagging--will tone for you!) and youthful face a decade younger than my age through regular exercise and keen genes.

Emotionally: Above average EQ. As Mark says in the novel A Many-Splendoured Thing by Han Suyin: "The only tragedy in the world is never having loved." I agree; I am no longer tragic. I have learned to value and be responsible for intimate relationships.

Intellectually: Above average IQ. Skeptic, atheist, humanist, libertarian (as Hans Selyes coined: egotistic altruist), rational thinker, valuer of objective truth via the scientific method. I am avowedly against postmodern sophism, left wing collectivism, and misanthropic Greenies & Goreies, so rampant in Western academia/media where too often learned ignorance leads to earned helplessness.

Lifestyle: I have been constantly reading in ideas and writing prose and poetry since my early 20s for my own self-motivated ends and practice at the art of learning and loving. I value the creation of responsible character oriented beyond convention to beauty, elegance, and passion without stuffy formalities, conspicuous consumer-driven show of wealth/status, or infantile bohemianism.

Oh, and least I forget, I can, with Steve Martin's help, be a wild and crazy guy with a can of opened tuna fish behind each ear, and able to get down on all fours and play with the kids.


Ok Cupid, now that I have got you to read this far, I must ask you to forgive my (white?) lie about my age. I put 60 because I know if I would put my actual age of 71 you would not have read to this point.

Just look at my photo: it is taken a few days ago, November 2015, by my iMac in my apartment in Santiago . You decide. I certainly have more energy than most of my colleagues, clients, and students even to age 3! (I recently taught 3 to 5YO's and research methods of educating the very young including the Montessori approach.)

So overcome your understandable reluctance to get to know a man of 71...I am a very unique individual and have never entertained the thought of retirement...when I die I retire, until then my work is play and my play work. I plan on another active 20 to 30 years. Join me for a few of them?

I live a passionate, rational, romantic life and am seeking that person who is my equal to adventure with.

(P.S. My Penis still works very nicely thank you, AND my age allows me to laugh at and with it!)

CHeers from CHarming CHile in SAssy SAntiago :)
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“Someone must respond. Someone has to care. What we have to give to each other is at one and the same time the simplest yet most sublime gift—ourselves.” James J. Lynch, The Broken Heart: The Medical Consequences of Loneliness

"The Greeks believed that the greatest work of art they had to create was a Man. We become educated, cultured, by continuous searching. The personal culture thus attained is a man's Paideia, the thing for which he is born, the sum of intellectual, moral, and aesthetic qualities that make him a complete man." E.B. Castle, Ancient Education and Today

"For men and women who are not afraid to love, who are not obsessed with fear of rejection, one of the great pleasures of being in love is the pleasure of making the partner feel more visible to him- or herself, more self-aware and more self-appreciative. Such an attitude originates in the fact of being truly fascinated with the partner, of wanting to see and understand this other human being, and of realising that this is a process without end."
The Psychology of Romantic Love, Nathaniel Brandon
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Eric Hoffer, R.J. Rummel, Murray Rothbard...any and all "Free Friends"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Liberty, Love, Liberty, Love, Liberty, Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the Love of Liberty Leads to the Liberty of Love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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One Whole Seeks Another

If two halves make a whole, what do two wholes make?

If you consider yourself a “Whole” rather than a “Half” seeking your “Other Half” AKA “Soulmate”, then perhaps you will dare to compare and share, then maybe care and pair, your Whole with mine to discover what we can mutually create together to answer this question.

Qualifying Conditions
I would like you to be a female as I am exclusively heterosexual, although it’s possible you could be a male and sex would not be involved.

You will need to be a practicing or potential anarcho-libertarian who accepts the foundational moral principle of the absolute prohibition of initiating physical force, which means you believe in total Responsible Freedom. If these ideas are foreign to you, I’m willing to discuss them with you to clarify matters so you can decide if your values align with mine.

You will need to be able to live and support yourself financially most anywhere in the world including China where I currently live (Beijing).

You will need to be adventurous with a five year old’s curiosity and a mature mind’s competency to deal whatever Reality presents while remaining Responsibly Free. Retirement will be an unknown word to you and work is play and living is an art you have learned to do with some grace, wit and elegance.

You will need to be relatively free of bad habits such as over-drinking-drugging-sexing, etc. You will have learned you can’t control another person and have no desire to do so.

You will need to have faced the three primal Fears of Death, Abandonment and Engulfment and realize there are no “Saviors, Gurus, Methods” and that your only final authority is Reason and Science and your own mind that you own. You will operate on the knowledge that because Death is necessary, Life is sufficient.

You will need to be able to laugh at yourself and acknowledge with Shakespeare that a wise man knows he is fool while a fool thinks he is a wise man.


Beautiful in and out with above average IQ and EQ, you’ve cared for your physical appearance and are self-confident about who you are. Slim (or not fat), youthful good looks, emanating a fresh, serene, love of life attitude with unpretentious elegance and class. Hopefully comfortable with Yin-Yang differences and understand and agree with a libertarian lifestyle (meaning you value individual freedom over collective coercion). Love discussing ideas, are adventurous and willing to go anywhere to find the one who proves himself your equal.
Agree with Ayn Rand: "Love is a response to values. It is with a person's sense of life that you fall in love--the embodiment of the values that formed that person's character.” IMPORTANT! Your English must be fairly good. I know only a few words of any language other than English so this is what we must use to get to know each other.
Finally, I would be interested in meeting a woman who is: Sophisticated but innocent; complexly simple and simply complex; independently dependent or interdependent. Good manners but able to thumb your nose at the haughty. Beautiful but you still worry about it. Lovely legs that match the curve of your mind when the new moon laughs upon its back. Able to earn your way without raising alot of Cain. Love poetry, science, history and whatever hurts yet brings pleasure. Lost. Found. Still afraid therefore always in need of courage. Kind and understand the need to care and be cared for. Commitment, Passion, Intimacy. Can paint watercolors and write poetry and like a kid love to share your play with me. You will always say to me: I am never bored with your mind and find your body penetrating too.