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FreeXone

27 / M / gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am impassioned, gentle, and optomistic.

My Self-Summary

I've been back in Seattle for about 2 years now (after a year and a half in "the most dangerous city in the US" aka St. Louis) and I'm really enjoying life. I love my job (social worker), have some great friends, live in a beautiful city, finally have my own place, and things are looking up. Now I'd just like to find a great guy to share it all with. So don't be shy...say hi.

What I’m doing with my life

Well, I finished grad school about 2 years ago (MSW) and am now in charge of a great LGBTQ youth HIV prevention program. I'm hella lucky to work where I do and have pretty awesome co-workers. I'm thinking of going back for a PhD in a few years, but I need a few more years away from the classroom first. Feel free to talk to me about anything social work/psch/public health related and I'll probably totally geek out on it.

I’m really good at

...my job, listening to people, procrastinating, kissing, cuddling, singing off tune, dancing [Janet Jackson] routines, laughing, napping, spinning(group cycle) at 5:30am, celebrating Christmas (its my birthday too!)

The first things people usually notice about me

Red hair and dimples :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Beloved, Middlesex, social work/psych books, anti-oppression stuff Movies: Beautiful Thing, Crash, White Christmas Music: Janet Jackson, Top 40, Hip Hop, R&B, Jazz, reconnected with 3EB Food: Mexican, Vietnamese, Thai, dark chocolate, Trophy Cupcakes

The six things I could never do without

Janet Jackson cds, dark [chocolate], books, exercise, hugs/cuddling, a feeling of purpose

I spend a lot of time thinking about

bills - student loans on a social worker's salary!, oppression and anti-oppression work, nutrition and exercise, gender and sexuality, cognitive behavioral therapy, my future, dancing, HIV prevention, funny things people say, how I can make people smile (i know, cheesy but its true)

On a typical Friday night I am

Is there a typical Friday? I could be helping youth at an event or doing outreach, having dinner with friends, going to the gym, chilling out at home, or maybe on a date if I'm lucky.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hmm..let's save this for later conversation...

You should message me if

You can follow the golden rule, are ok with me being a little shy at first. Don't worry, I open up pretty quickly.