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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
update: I'm not looking for a superficial one night stand! There has to be a connection, real chemistry and I want to get to know you! The better the connection, the more fun...!

FYI, to save everyone's time I usually treat OKC like tinder: I only contact you if we matched! But feel free to write; I will reply.

If you'd like to have a good time without drama or headaches, NSA or as friends (with or without benefits), I'm your man! Don't be shy, just drop me a line.

I'm a sophisticated (but not complicated) fun and relatively laid back person who can pretty much fit into any social situation. I like laughing (but who doesn't?) and sharing a good time with other people. I travel quite a bit and love meeting new people from around the world.

Open-minded, somewhat fashionable, I like the beautiful things in life. Art, women, some men (I'd do Johnny Depp anytime!), landscapes, cars and many more. I'm always up for trouble, love trying new things and am lucky enough to have a great job that fulfills my curiosity (you might as well have fun at work!).

I also have a shoe fetish. I just love nice shoes (and clothes). My girlfriends take me shoe shopping if they need advice... I'm pretty good at figuring out what would suit them!

I'm fairly kinky, totally into giving and receiving pleasure. Limits are there to be explored and pushed... Anything goes as long as everyone is having a good time!

Other than that, I can be quite sarcastic, daring and challenging. I never take things for a given and always question stuff. But I'm also happy to be questioned and having to work hard to get what I want...

What else? Well, I am who I am and I don't give a shit about what people think of me. I find that a very liberating attitude. I'm anti-conformist, free spirited and a bit of a rebel. I'm never afraid of doing what I want because someone might think badly of me or so.

Oh and I'm very happy. I believe that happiness is not something you find elsewhere but it comes from within you. No one but yourself can make you happy! I feel fortunate to live the life I have and I'm at peace with who I am.

But enough of that; I'll tell you more about me when we meet.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in higher education during the day and love my job! But equally excitingly, I paint, cook, make my own beer, bake bread (nothing like the smell of freshly baked bread in the house...), travel lots, have parties, love the outdoors and I'm an adrenaline junkie. Generally I just like to have fun, whatever that is. I'm up for pretty much anything! I live by the motto: work hard, play harder!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything manual (or physical...). I'm generally quite ambitious and therefore usually good at what I do. If I decide to do something, I do it 120%!
I'm also a good listener.

And apparently I give really good hugs! (so I've been told)
The first things people usually notice about me
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That depends how they get to know me...
Usually my tattoos (when they're not covered up), my blue eyes, that I'm handsome and somewhat intimidating for many people, it seems (that's what I got told).
Also that I'm sharp and outgoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a total foodie! No restrictions! Some people even call ma a food snob... I can't deny that. Haa haa. My attitude towards that: I am what I eat and I'm worth it! ;-) lol
I like movies that are a bit alternative. Any Tim Burton or Quentin Tarantino movie for example.
Used to play theater and still love it.
Music style: anything that has real character, from heavy metal to hip hop, jazz and classical music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ok, obviously my kids, but that's trivial. Other than that, I cherish my health and being healthy. I think it's really important for a fun and fulfilled life. I absolutely love my freedom and would not give it up for anything!!! Which of course does not mean that you cannot be free in a relationship...
I'm happy to have a great family. They're fun to hang out with, even if I don't get to see them very often.
Friends: they keep me grounded and happy and motivated. And they give me someone to be there for if they need me.
Challenges: they allow you to grow and thrive and live a fulfilled life!
Good sex, without which I can get pretty grumpy... ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My research, DIY projects, travel plans, my paintings, beer recipes for my home brews, what to cook, new things to try, bucket lists and how to get it done! And all kind of random things, like how to build a keezer ;-) That one is just completed!
I also think a lot about my next tattoo. I have quite a few nice pieces right now and thinking about the next ones...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out drinking with friends, cooking up a nice meal for them and/or throwing a party at my place!
Sometimes also just like to get alone time, smoke up and paint... ;-)
The weeks I have my kids, it's our home made pizza and movie night! Soooo much fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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anything! Just ask!
You should message me if
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you think we'd have fun togeher