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39 • Kingston, Ontario, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–44
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 5:43am
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Catholicism, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Science / Engineering
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Fluently)
FYI, to save everyone's time I usually treat OKC like tinder: I only contact you if we matched! But feel free to write; I will reply.
If you'd like to have a good time without drama or headaches, NSA or as friends (with or without benefits), I'm your man! Don't be shy, just drop me a line.
I'm a sophisticated (but not complicated) fun and relatively laid back person who can pretty much fit into any social situation. I like laughing (but who doesn't?) and sharing a good time with other people. I travel quite a bit and love meeting new people from around the world.
Open-minded, somewhat fashionable, I like the beautiful things in life. Art, women, some men (I'd do Johnny Depp anytime!), landscapes, cars and many more. I'm always up for trouble, love trying new things and am lucky enough to have a great job that fulfills my curiosity (you might as well have fun at work!).
I also have a shoe fetish. I just love nice shoes (and clothes). My girlfriends take me shoe shopping if they need advice... I'm pretty good at figuring out what would suit them!
I'm fairly kinky, totally into giving and receiving pleasure. Limits are there to be explored and pushed... Anything goes as long as everyone is having a good time!
Other than that, I can be quite sarcastic, daring and challenging. I never take things for a given and always question stuff. But I'm also happy to be questioned and having to work hard to get what I want...
What else? Well, I am who I am and I don't give a shit about what people think of me. I find that a very liberating attitude. I'm anti-conformist, free spirited and a bit of a rebel. I'm never afraid of doing what I want because someone might think badly of me or so.
Oh and I'm very happy. I believe that happiness is not something you find elsewhere but it comes from within you. No one but yourself can make you happy! I feel fortunate to live the life I have and I'm at peace with who I am.
But enough of that; I'll tell you more about me when we meet.
I'm also a good listener.
And apparently I give really good hugs! (so I've been told)
Usually my tattoos (when they're not covered up), my blue eyes, that I'm handsome and somewhat intimidating for many people, it seems (that's what I got told).
Also that I'm sharp and outgoing.
I like movies that are a bit alternative. Any Tim Burton or Quentin Tarantino movie for example.
Used to play theater and still love it.
Music style: anything that has real character, from heavy metal to hip hop, jazz and classical music.
I'm happy to have a great family. They're fun to hang out with, even if I don't get to see them very often.
Friends: they keep me grounded and happy and motivated. And they give me someone to be there for if they need me.
Challenges: they allow you to grow and thrive and live a fulfilled life!
Good sex, without which I can get pretty grumpy... ;-)
I also think a lot about my next tattoo. I have quite a few nice pieces right now and thinking about the next ones...
Sometimes also just like to get alone time, smoke up and paint... ;-)
The weeks I have my kids, it's our home made pizza and movie night! Soooo much fun!
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