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37 Hamilton, MI Woman, Cis Woman, Androgynous, Gender Nonconforming, Other

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Last online
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Bisexual, Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual, Demisexual, Queer
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
…actually starts below…
______________ Hello and welcome !!! ____________
A profile of epic proportions begins after some DISCLAIMER messages… If you are reacting negatively to the fact that i have a disclaimer, please be aware that my intention is to provide you some insight into what i am 'looking for' and 'not looking for'

(Disclaimers are generally BOLD)
*^*^*^*^* UPDATES: *^*^*^*^*
*It's been over 2 months since I smoked a cigarette.
(last one was sometime after midnight on 11 September 2015,
between 12:34:56 AM & 1:23:45 AM.)

I do NOT see who 'LIKES' me on ok cupid !!
*^*^*^*^* Updates Over (: *^*^*^*^*
feel free to write to me...
(if you want a response, consider the disclaimer!)
When you write me, I look at your profile &
compare Q&A(especially explained questions),
before I decide on a response.
IF... your profile is blank,
&/or haven't answered any questions
...than PLEASE, at least make your MESSAGE interesting!...

I’m not into small talk,
nor a fan of ambiguous questions…

So I might not respond If all you say is 'how r u?'
If you ask me "what's up?" ,
I might just tell you by copy-pasting you
the definition of the word 'up'…. AND
...If you say"Hello" and nothing more,
I will probably send you this :
ALSO … If you call me: sweetie, baby, honey, darling, sexy, or the like, I'll call you out on not reading my profile…
I don't like 'pet names' !
I'm more likely to converse if you are capable of writing a coherent sentence… maybe even a few in a row (;
Why Language Matters:
To couples seeking a third party for strictly sexual adventures, & for those of you looking for 'no strings attached' or 'friends with benefits' i.e. no emotional attachment:
Thanks, but no thanks, I'm not what you're looking for. (:
I'm not completely ruling it out BUT at the moment I am NOT seeking out any new sexual/romantic/intimate partners…
My current partner(s) are people that I am attracted to physically, intellectually, and emotionally/psychologically.
... Antboy7 is one of those individuals (:


'Ethical non-monogamy' / 'relationship anarchy' / 'polyamory' : _______________ and ____________________ ____ and, here are my 'poly' test results on OKC:_____
If you are wondering about my reasons for being on a 'dating' website, here are three: Connection, Entertainment & Conversation.
I enjoy talking to & potentially meeting other curious open minded individuals who want to discuss ideas & explore strategies to work toward a peaceful world (:

Thanks for reading (the disclaimers)

==========MY SELF SUMMARY:==========
I am passionate and enthusiastic about the ideas I hold dear.

I am driven to participate in conversations that I find meaningful.

I get a lot of enjoyment when I examine, question, and explore commonly held and not so commonly held beliefs, ideas, cultural practices, philosophies, etc.…
...because of this,
I might challenge a thing or two
you hold as truth, i.e. major social institutions...
….both religious, and political

I strive to be fully self-connected so that I am able to connect with anyone else I may encounter.

Clear & compassionate communication is something I really value, combined with an understanding that voluntary and peaceful human action is preferable in any circumstance.

I am looking to connect with people who share my values…
who are able to simultaneously embody rationality & compassion.
( No, they're not dichotomous! )
Honesty, integrity, and independence are all key.
Oh labels!

I'm an artist, a philosopher, a poly-atheist, a freethinker/ humanist
an Ignostic … (yes, with an 'i'...not a typo),

…I am also a soft determinist / Compatibilist and a liberty minded individualist rather than a statist collectivist...

...a voluntaryist / anarchist...
I like honesty and I enjoy clear communication. I do not enjoy conversations where vague abstractions are used to avoid talking about what is real and true...

...I have an open mind,
but not so open that my brain will fall out!
...or that pseudo-science/religious dogma/statist propaganda falls in!

Remember those 'word associations' from school?'s one for ya:
voluntaryism (aka anarchy) is to Government
like Atheism is to Belief in god(s)

i took the 'red pill' of philosophy and 'dove down the rabbit hole' (:
... first with gods/religions and then some years later i finally applied that same level of study & skepticism to 'the state'...

ps: i do not hold any god-beliefs
& I put 'Other' for 'Religion'
because a lack of belief is not a religion!

'Atheism' is a religion,
in the same sense that
'bald' a hair color…
or like…. 'off' a tv channel...

& I put "laughing about it "…
because I think religious beliefs are laughable…

I am a tooth-fairy agnostic &
one of my hobbies is...
'not - collecting-stamps'
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
proselytizing for liberty n logic n reason,
both in real life & on the inter webs!!!

creating art…
some of my pieces are here:
these two pieces :
'The Tragedy Is The Meme Of Authority'
'Usa Paper Currency Law - 18usc Section333'
...should be appreciated by liberty lovers (:

I have a huge interest in philosophy and self knowledge...
I am constantly seeking to know/understand myself better and I enjoy learning new things. I try to reflect some of that in the artwork i create

i have a large tree tattoo on my back that is a work in progress, the upper branches are just lines so far...
(the roots of the tree are shaded/colored in (covering a smaller old tattoo on my upper right ass-cheek) The tree is going up my back, just right side of my spine…
--the grass around the roots appears as words in 4 shades of green:
-Know thyself,
-Logic & Reason,
-the Scientific Method and
-the Non Aggression Principle
*had an 'anarchy heart' added on17december2014 (:
*during porcupine feedom festival in june of 2013, i had something added to my tree:
(Ama-gi is a Sumerian word meaning, literally translated,
"return to the mother," and used to refer to
"The restoration of persons and property to their original status" including the remission of debts.
Many libertarian economists consider the symbol to be the first written expression of the concept of liberty.)
I am an artist... (bfa in illustration)
I have sold a couple of paintings...
I also model for artists/art students.

I am self taught in massage therapy.

I'm slightly intrigued by the 'free state project' and am considering a move to New Hampshire someday.
(and i do realize that 'free state' is a contradiction)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
some of the things on this list...
and merely 'acceptable' at others.

1) putting in searchable [ [ key words] ]

2) unconventional wisdom
( Brett Veinotte-The Catastrophe of Conventional Wisdom )

3) reasoning from first principles

4) empathy and understanding

5) Compassionate Communication

6) Understanding my self and my gender/sexuality…
I am 'B' in LGBT(Bisexual) & I support ALL people expressing who they are !! That goes for people that are LGBTQIA:Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning, Intersex, & Asexual & 'Cis-gendered' too… Again with the Labels...
… I do NOT consider myself to be 'misogynist' OR 'feminist'
& I am NOT a fan of the neo-feminist / 'femi-nazi's'…
… … … … I am a 'humanist' or 'equality'-ist … … … ...

7) 'Un-packing' the 'invisible backpack' of 'white privilege'
(…other types of 'privilege' as well : male, straight, cisgendered etc)
'Privilege' is a MYTH… "Privilege" is a word that automatically divides & classifies people as either 'privileged' or 'victim'. The idea of 'privilege' is based on gender, color of skin, sexuality etc. , …It does NOT take into account the individual's circumstances.
an article:
and a video: Karen Straughan - Feminism: Socialism in Panties

8) ethical non-monogamy a.k.a. 'relationship anarchy'

9) can you be 'good at' androgyny ?
…I am definitely a woman ...but a bit androgynous

10) austrian economics ...ok ...i'm not super proficient in economics but i do have a familiarity with the general idea (:

11) Driving…
& I really like driving a stick shift.
a k a manual transmission

12) and maybe…
expressing myself coherently through a "top 12" list??
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i dunno... that i look like my pictures?

my hair? …it is craaaaaaazy! (:
(my dreadlocks are almost 5 yrs old now)

my tattoos? (depending on how much skin i'm showing)
or piercings. My ear lobes are tapered to 6 gauge
(thick end of a chopstick)

my size? ...i'm kind of a 'broad' broad (;
not quite rubenesque
maybe… amazonian?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Marshall Rosenberg Non-Violent Communication
Part 1, 2 and 3 (total of 20 min)

if ya like what ya hear, check out the full seminar
(: ...really good stuff!

3hr NVC seminar:
(disclaimer: contains hand puppets & songs with a guitar !!!)
George Carlin, Tim Minchin, Richard Dawkins, Penn&Teller, James Randi, Henry Rollins, Daniel Dennett, Christopher Hitchens, Doug Stanhope, Julia Sweeny, Sam Harris, Demetri Martin, Michael Shermer, Wes Bertrand, Brett Veinotte, Stefan Molyneux, …

--Books/Authors/Videos and Online reading;
Alphie Kohn, Richard Dawkins, Dan Barker, Christopher Hitchens, Dan Dennet, Sam Harris, Stephen King, Murray Rothbard, Marshall Rosenberg, Butler Shaffer, Stephan Molyneux, Wes Bertrand, Stephanie Murphy (PORCtherapy), Marc Stevens, John Taylor Gatto, Carl Sagan, Brett Veinotte, Neil Degrasse Tyson... lots more (:

---podcasts: .... 'PeaceRevolution' ... 'Reasonable Doubts' ... 'Skeptics Guide to the Universe' ... 'NoStateProject' ... 'Schoolsuckspodcast' ... 'Complete Liberty' .... 'FreeDomainRadio' ...

-Music: the Beatles, Blues Traveler, Bob Marley, Cake, symphony of science, johnny cash, Stone Temple Pilots, Mumford & sons, Snoop Dogg, Jason Mraz, Black Eyed Peas, Sublime, Arrested Development, Tim Minchin, NIN, Tool, Afroman, G Love&Special Sauce, Outkast, Alice in Chains, (…my music collection spans 35 genres & over 500 different artists .... i'm not a huge country-pop fan or an opera fan, but can tolerate either in small doses)

- tv/film.... Six feet Under, Dexter, Weeds, Mythbusters, Penn & Tellers Bullsh*t, ... Big fan of documentaries too…
Iv'e been eating in a more 'paleolithic/paleo way & found it to be beneficial…I'm an insulin dependent diabetic & I try to stay away from a lot of carbohydrates.

I like 'taste adventures'
...i will try almost anything twice before deciding i do not like it…

other stuff :
cards against humanity scrabble road-trips
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my mind/consciousness,
('I' wouldn't be 'me' without it!)

curiosity and thirst for knowledge,

the ability to read, creativityartisticexpression

my ability to empathize with others as well as self-empathy

clear communication!
(avoiding vague abstractions & defining terms)

*ps... if you listed your imaginary friend... or your holy book...
then we prolly won't have a whole lot in common...

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to best meet my needs for autonomy.
. . . plus +
A need for connection with my fellow human beings
. . . plus +
A desire for a voluntary society, for complete liberty in my lifetime
. . . equals =
the reason why i choose to 'proselytize for liberty' on my profile...

i like sharing ideas and planting seeds of liberty in peoples brains…

not everybody can see through the 'matrix' (or wants to)
iv'e come to realize that even though it was/is an enjoyable trip for me, I cannot force the red pill down someone elses throat and/or push em down the rabbit hole…

__________other key words ______________
self defense, human rights, victimless crime spree, criminal, felon, felony,trial, court, judge,prosecutor, cops, police,police brutality, the milgram experiment,standford prison experiment, unschooling, unjobbing, education, activism
…. sexuality :
polyamory aka ethical non monogamy
aka relationship anarchy …which is more realistic, enjoyable & practical than monogamy… at least for me it is…
...and a few more clickables :
...pansexual, non monogamy, celibacy, self knowledge, science, logic, logical, skeptic/skepticism, sceptic, gender-queer, self ownership, strange,weird, different, unusual,feelings & needs,etc
Civil Disobedience
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... i really do not have a 'typical' any-night... my schedule varies, but in general, I tend to be a "night owl" rather than an 'early bird'
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a cyborg;
I have an insulin pump
i am an insulin dependent diabetic
(a.k.a. 'juvenile onset' or 'type 1 diabetes' )
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... " you can do so with the joy
of a small child feeding a hungry duck."*

*you know who I quoted there
--> you can handle honesty and intelligent conversation
-->You identify as voluntaryist/anarchist/libertarianand want to connect with other liberty minded folks.
-->you have a curiosity and thirst for knowledge that hasn't been completely sucked out of you by indoctrination into a religion and/or gubment school.
--> You have an interest incompassionate communication a k a non violent communication
(& PLEASE DO WRITE with feedback if you were inspired to watch that youtube link to the NVC seminar i posted above.)
--> you want to do a collaborative art project...
...or if you have a need for art (:
I've done portrait work, abstract stuff, realism, and work in varied medium: watercolor, acrylic paint, oil paint, both chalk pastelsand oil pastels, mixed media, collage
…doing work on murals, doing performance art and/or installation art is also something i'd be interested in (:
...and activist art …spreading ideas about peaceful parenting, liberty/freedom,self-ownership logic&reason, science, etc.

PLEASE, read my disclaimers before writing !
Efficiency is my intention! The disclaimers were put there to provide you(the reader), some insight into what i am 'looking for' and 'not looking for'.

Thanks for reading (: