To couples seeking a third party for strictly sexual adventures, & for those of you looking for 'no strings attached' or 'friends with benefits' i.e. no emotional attachment:
Thanks, but no thanks, I'm not what you're looking for. (:
when someone writes to me,
i often compare our OK cupid Q & A
(especially the ones with explanations)
I'm MORE likely to respond if you are capable of writing a coherent sentence… maybe even a few in a row…
and if your first message does not involve a pet name!
I'm LESS likely to respond to messages like:
'Hi how r u.' or 'What up sexy?' or 'Gee, u r interesting' , etc
I try to respond to my email within a few days, but if i don't, feel free to send another… i might have missed it!
… when I do respond, It is definitely genuine (:
MY SELF SUMMARY:
I am passionate and enthusiastic about the ideas I hold dear.
I am driven to participate in conversations that I find meaningful. I get a lot of enjoyment when I examine, question, and explore commonly held and not so commonly held beliefs, ideas, cultural practices, philosophies, etc.
…because of this I am bound to respectfully challenge a thing or two you hold as truth. This will include major social institutions such as education, religion, and government. I strive to be fully self-connected so that I am able to connect with anyone else I may encounter.
Clear and compassionate communication is something I really value, combined with an understanding that voluntary and peaceful human action is preferable in any circumstance.
I am looking to connect with people who shares my values… People who are able to simultaneously embody rationality and compassion. (No, they're not dichotomous!) Honesty, integrity, and independence are all key.
I am not currently seeking out any new sexual/romantic/intimate partners… my current partners are people that I am attracted to physically, intellectually, and emotionally/psychologically.
credit to my friend 'oochygoo' for parts of the text above (:
A beautiful combination of well thought out words, ty oochy!! (:
...so-- " Then why are you on a dating website ?!? " --you ask...
1) Connection 2) Entertainment & 3) Conversation…
I enjoy meeting other curious open minded individuals who want to discuss ideas & explore strategies to work toward a peaceful world (:
I'm an artist, a philosopher, a poly-atheist, a freethinker/ humanist
an Ignostic … (yes, with an 'i'...not a typo),
…I am also a soft determinist / Compatibilist and a liberty minded individualist rather than a statist collectivist...
...a voluntaryist / anarchist...
I like honesty and I enjoy clear communication. I do not enjoy conversations where vague abstractions are used to avoid talking about what is real and true...
...I have an open mind,
but not so open that my brain will fall out!
...or that pseudo-science/religious dogma/statist propaganda falls in!
STRIKING THE ROOT :
Remember those 'word associations' from school?
.......here's one for ya:
voluntaryism (aka anarchy) is to Government
like Atheism is to Belief in god(s)
i took the red pill of philosophy and dove down into the rabbit hole (:
... first with gods/religions and then some years later i finally applied that same level of study & skepticism to 'the state'...
ps: i do not hold any god-beliefs…
& I put 'Other' for 'Religion'
because a lack of belief is not a religion!
'Atheism' is a religion, in the same sense that 'bald' is a hair color…
or like…. 'off' is a tv channel...
& I put "laughing about it "…
because I think religious beliefs are laughable…
...i am a non-stamp-collector
as well as a tooth-fairy agnostic... (;