______________ Hello and welcome !!! ____________
A profile of epic proportions begins after some DISCLAIMER messages… If you are reacting negatively to the fact that i have a disclaimer, please be aware that my intention is to provide you some insight into what i am 'looking for' and 'not looking for'
(Disclaimers are generally BOLD)
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*It's been over 2 months since I smoked a cigarette.
(last one was sometime after midnight on 11 September 2015,
between 12:34:56 AM & 1:23:45 AM.)
I do NOT see who 'LIKES' me on ok cupid !!
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feel free to write to me...
(if you want a response, consider the disclaimer!)
When you write me, I look at your profile &
compare Q&A(especially explained questions),
before I decide on a response.
IF... your profile is blank,
&/or ...you haven't answered any questions
...than PLEASE, at least make your MESSAGE interesting!...
I’m not into small talk,
nor a fan of ambiguous questions…
So I might not respond If all you say is 'how r u?'
If you ask me "what's up?" ,
I might just tell you by copy-pasting you
the definition of the word 'up'…. AND
...If you say"Hello" and nothing more,
I will probably send you this :
ALSO … If you call me: sweetie, baby, honey, darling, sexy, or the like, I'll call you out on not reading my profile…
I don't like 'pet names' !
I'm more likely to converse if you are capable of writing a coherent sentence… maybe even a few in a row (;
Why Language Matters:
To couples seeking a third party for strictly sexual adventures, & for those of you looking for 'no strings attached' or 'friends with benefits' i.e. no emotional attachment:
Thanks, but no thanks, I'm not what you're looking for. (: _________________________________
I'm not completely ruling it out BUT at the moment I am NOT seeking out any new sexual/romantic/intimate partners…
My current partner(s) are people that I am attracted to physically, intellectually, and emotionally/psychologically.
... Antboy7 is one of those individuals (:
'Ethical non-monogamy' / 'relationship anarchy' / 'polyamory' :
https://thethinkingasexual.wordpress.com/2013/05/07/relationship-anarchy-basics/ _______________ and ____________________ http://www.alternet.org/story/11808/polyamory%3A_ethical_non-monogamy ____ and, here are my 'poly' test results on OKC:_____ http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/results?quizzyid=3137663208338007251&userid=14734838840687545343
If you are wondering about my reasons for being on a 'dating' website, here are three: Connection, Entertainment & Conversation.
I enjoy talking to & potentially meeting other curious open minded individuals who want to discuss ideas & explore strategies to work toward a peaceful world (:
Thanks for reading (the disclaimers)
==========MY SELF SUMMARY:==========
I am passionate and enthusiastic about the ideas I hold dear.
I am driven to participate in conversations that I find meaningful.
I get a lot of enjoyment when I examine, question, and explore commonly held and not so commonly held beliefs, ideas, cultural practices, philosophies, etc.…
...because of this,
I might challenge a thing or two
you hold as truth, i.e. major social institutions...
….both religious, and political
I strive to be fully self-connected so that I am able to connect with anyone else I may encounter.
Clear & compassionate communication is something I really value, combined with an understanding that voluntary and peaceful human action is preferable in any circumstance.
I am looking to connect with people who share my values…
who are able to simultaneously embody rationality & compassion.
( No, they're not dichotomous! )
Honesty, integrity, and independence are all key.
I'm an artist, a philosopher, a poly-atheist, a freethinker/ humanist
an Ignostic … (yes, with an 'i'...not a typo),
…I am also a soft determinist / Compatibilist and a liberty minded individualist rather than a statist collectivist...
...a voluntaryist / anarchist...
I like honesty and I enjoy clear communication. I do not enjoy conversations where vague abstractions are used to avoid talking about what is real and true...
...I have an open mind,
but not so open that my brain will fall out!
...or that pseudo-science/religious dogma/statist propaganda falls in!
STRIKING THE ROOT :
Remember those 'word associations' from school?
.......here's one for ya:
voluntaryism (aka anarchy) is to Government
like Atheism is to Belief in god(s)
i took the 'red pill' of philosophy and 'dove down the rabbit hole' (:
... first with gods/religions and then some years later i finally applied that same level of study & skepticism to 'the state'...
ps: i do not hold any god-beliefs…
& I put 'Other' for 'Religion'
because a lack of belief is not a religion!
'Atheism' is a religion,
in the same sense that
'bald' ...is a hair color…
or like…. 'off' ...is a tv channel...
& I put "laughing about it "…
because I think religious beliefs are laughable…
I am a tooth-fairy agnostic &
one of my hobbies is...
'not - collecting-stamps'