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36 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 3:02pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
After a couple of years of grad school in Ann Arbor, I moved to the bay a little already two year ago to start a new adventure. Looking to share tapas at the new hip place around the corner, find the perfect pho in the tendernob or perhaps form a neo-alternative-progressive-folk band? Do holler.
Also, making out the best of a dating situation. (If I haven't said it yet, please excuse the bad puns.)
Movies: Modern classics and cult films like Good Will Hunting, Alien, As Good As It Gets, Man On The Moon, America History X, Leaving Las Vegas, Ten Things I Hate About You, The Princess Bride, Back To The Future, This Is Spinal Tap and Kill Bill. Utterly silly, root-of-all-evil rom-coms like Sleepless In Seattle, You've Got Mail, Kissing Jessica Stein and (500) Days Of Summer. Assorted major foreign films such as La vita è bella, El secreto de sus ojos and the Three Colors trilogy. I am also an avid fan of student and indie films.
Books: I barely read fiction these days, although I grew up reading Orwell, Golding, Chekhov, Kerouac and the like. Nowadays I skip between books on marketing, economy, data science, psychology, spirituality, etc. I adore poetry by such poets as Frank O'Hara, Emily Dickinson, Rilke, Plath, Bukowski and Sharon Olds.
Timeless four-chord songs (and the musical instrument to create them or play them).
Wicked conversations over beer or whiskey.
Also: I read profiles, I reply to messages, and I don't use Tinder.
You are a member of NOFA (No Flakes Association) in the bay area. That means you remember how you were taught in kindergarten to be kind to others, even if they're supposedly just tiny virtual boxes in your world. Some people here seem to forget that.
You are a rad poet or an artist of any sort, a social or political scientist versed in faux pas, or just someone who has nothing in particular to say but knows twenty different ways of saying it.
But seriously, you should just offer to hang out in real life (just say that you think I am cool and offer to buy me a drink - I will totally fall for it) because that is the kind of sincerity and down-to-earthness that I appreciate.
***Love is not who you were expecting. This is why.
****Falling (or not falling) in love is a matter of choice. This is why.
*****You should trust your selfies. This is why.
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