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Freirean

26 / F / gay / Single

Denver, Colorado

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am dedicated, intelligent, and funny.

My Self-Summary

I am a community organizer who is committed to working towards a more socially just community. I love having intellectually stimulating conversations with interesting people. I identify as a queer genderqueer feminist. I am originally from St. Louis and have lived in Denver for a few years. My undergrad degree is in English, and I have a major nerdy side. I have very clear values that are very important to me and dictate the paths I take in life. I am in a life-long process to address my own internalized oppression and dominance, as well as to transcend my mortal foibles to arrive at a greater awareness in life. I have a cat named Tennessee Williams who befits his namesake with his major mommy issues. I fit in the 2 and ENFP boxes for those so inclined.

What I’m doing with my life

I am doing exactly what I think I should be doing with my life right now. I'm really happy with where I am in life and the amazing people in my community. I'd like to meet and get to know more of these amazing people.

I’m really good at

Writing, making people feel loved and cared for, laughing, getting deeply involved in my own bizarre interests, analyzing, being simultaneously incredibly cynical about the system as it is and incredibly idealistic about the new world we are creating, recognizing subtexts, parallel parking, getting along with introverts, being intuitive, standardized tests, being awkward.

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically, people tell me my very blue eyes. Otherwise, my charm, intelligence, and passion.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

Music. Laughter. Love. Work. Actively trying to affect social change. My people.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How to build sustainable grassroots movements, building new paradigms, liberation, existential crises, the meanings of life and death, my decisions, being a white person and having white privilege, gender roles and socialization, food justice, fetishization of commodification and consumerism, exploitation, sex worker rights and organizing, our creation of monsters to avoid seeing the dark sides of ourselves and our communities.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I tend to be somewhat of a workaholic.

You should message me if

You are intelligent and kind, have a good sense of humor, and care about social justice issues. Being interested in or curious about non-monogamous relationships is a definite plus as well.