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FrenchGirl1970
38 / f / straight / Single
Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
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Ethnicity White
Height 5' 5" (1.65m).
Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes No
Drinks Sometimes
Drugs Never
Religion Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign Leo and it's fun to think about
Education Graduated from masters program
Job Computer / Hardware / Software
Income $60,000-$70,000
Kids Has 1 child
Pets Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
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I have a career but it does not rule my life, home comes before work in my book. I like to take days off work and take my son to the Denver Aquarium or something cultural. I am a National Park junkie! I blame my parents, they dragged me to every Children's Science Museum there was in the 70s. I'm trying to save up money for my son's dream of taking a trip on the Queen Mary 2.
I'm getting a little irritated that most of my matches that are above 80% are around 27 (sometimes younger)and live in Boulder! Now I don't personally have an issue with guys of that age, but most do not want to be with a 38 yr old woman, lol. I wish I could move to Boulder. Despite my pictures (I hate pictures of myself), people always think I am way younger than I am.
I almost forgot to say what I do for a living - I do Computer Network Security and I used to do software/hardware sys-ad work. I build my own boxes and tinker with my computers sometimes. I only have 3, lol. Turning my attention to genealogy research and working on my photography.
What I'm doing with my life
I spend way too much time mowing my lawn and doing domestic things when I would rather go out to a movie. I am handy around the house and can re-wire outlets and upgrade computers.
I love cars, used to sell them at one point. I have a Mercedes and a Saab. I love Audis and Beemers, but as long as a guy is happy with his ride, I will be too. Exception: No Datsuns. I saw a guy last month with a new E55 AMG. That is one fine car. I think I've found another goal.
I'm really good at
I am very good at photography and spelling; I don't require that from the man in my life, but it would be welcome to not have to be a human spell-check for them. I almost forgot to say that I like road-biking. My grad work cramped my style for the last 2 years, but next Spring, its on!
While I don't consider myself ambitious, I find that I am drawn to that in men. Tired of being the adult in a relationship, trying to push my man to succeed - I would rather not do that again.
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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Food - Bacon!!! Bread with real butter (Pappadeaux has the best bread), steak, pastries, pie, caramel, pizza. I enjoy Mexican, Italian, Indian, Turkish (yum), PF Changs version of Chinese (lol), White Castle's. I cannot do hot or spicy food - Taco Bell mild sauce is too hot for me. I suffer for my love of Green Chili - have to go to Pueblo for that whenever I can.
I do not like chocolate, beer, seafood, or coffee. Weird, huh? OK, I will eat chocolate as long as there is some caramel involved.
Movies - The Wedding Planner, Blues Brothers, Caddyshack, Better Off Dead, Fools Rush In, Diehard (love #1 & 3), Ben Stiller comedies, Down Periscope, Star Trek stuff, anything by Mel Brooks.
I tend to favor romantic comedies over more dramatic fare. I absolutely cannot stand Scarface, The Usual Suspects, or Goodfellas, yuck! I do not enjoy gratuitous violence or gore. Yet strangely I liked Frailty.
Not a big fan of the Dumb and Dumber stuff, but if I'm drinking who knows. I haven't seen or read The Notebook and do not ever want to see that horrid Traveling Pants thingee - unless I've been drinking, maybe.
Authors - Patricia Cornwell, Peter Robinson, Peter Straub, John Sandford. Harry Potter is OK. Sci-Fi, fantasy, mystery, romance novels on occasion. I love the "Incarnations of Immortality" series. Secretly, I read People magazine.
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Update: Some success in getting better friends, of course they are all in their 20s. So they are iffy about being reliable.
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