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FreshStartn13

44 / F / Straight / Single

Mountlake Terrace, Washington

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:09am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Let's see..
First off, let me say that writing a bio is like writing your own obituary, except you at least have the option to leave out all of the cliches like "I love to laugh". No kidding, who doesn't like to laugh? Or "I love hiking, yoga, and long walks on the beach". I promise if someone puts that in my obit I will come back to haunt them.
Anyway, let's get real. You see my profile pic, if you like it you'll click in my "ad". Then you'll skim over the main parts, and if you like what you see and barely read then you'll send me a quick hello. If I'm interested in return, I'll answer you back. Now here's the kicker, I really don't want a pen pal. I want to meet in person, see if we connect, see if we find each other interesting, have some chemistry, and if so, great. I've actually made some really great friends on here as well, and always open to having new ones in my life.
You can ask me anything you want to know about me, like a normal courting/getting to know one another process. Sound good? ;)
I feel the need to disclose, after quite a few messages, that if you have not grown children then please pass me by. At a point in my life (kids grown and flown the coop) that I'd prefer someone who has the same, grown children or none at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Starting from scratch.
Reconnecting with family and friends
Trying to disconnect from my past
I’m really good at
Being an awesome girlfriend, cooking, organizing, having patience, being empathetic, being a traveling companion, dog whispering(ok, I made that one up), drawing, being resilient
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't usually have the patience for books but I read one recently by David Sedaris that was pretty funny. I get caught up on tv series that I can stream from Netflix or HBOgo. Some of my favorites are Dexter, Weeds(although it lost my interest after a while), The Walking Dead, Mad Men, Coupling, The IT Crowd, Luther, Game of Thowns, Boardwalk Empire, and My Boys.
My musical taste is very expansive. I like everything from The Brian Jonestown Massacre to Maclemore. I have a lot of local musician friends and try to support them as much as possible. Music definitely moves my soul, so if you can play me a song, huge bonus.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Good home cooking
My fuzzy blanket
Music
My morning cup o joe (lucky you if your name is Joe)
*hoping to meet someone to put at the top of the list
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why do people say "life's too short", when it's the longest thing we do, and why is phonetic not spelled phonetically?
Who will be my next great love?
On a typical Friday night I am
On a date or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to play drums in a couple of PNW bands.(I'm not as vanilla as I look)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You feel like it.