For the most part I am a good guy with a good heart. I think I am a pretty good guy. After seven years of bachelor life, I'm testing the waters and hoping to meet a great guy. If not, maybe I will have had some good dates along the way. The qualities I look for: Honesty, integrity, grounded, stable, easy going (NO HOT HEADS OR SHORT TEMPERS), nice eyes, big smile and full of heart. Someone that makes me laugh, is close with his family, has his own social circle, is comfortable in his own skin and career driven. Someone that can teach me something about life, is interested in building a quality relationship, and who is equally comfortable at a formal event or eating a dinner in front of the TV. I want a friend, an equal, a communicator. Body and facial hair get you points, as do guys in suits with a slight edge - more on that later if you want to know. Things you should know about me--I am a career oriented guy that is close with my family. I enjoy reading, movies, the beach, day trips, traveling, trying new recipes from Food TV, game nights, going for a drink now and again, touching, being touched, the gym, dinner with friends, decorating the Christmas tree (trust me its an event), theater, warm summer nights, watching some sports, working in the yard or on the house, ice cream, groping like 16 a year old, a good joke, bawdy humor, laughter, not overly athletic, but willing to try. If body hair is an issue were probably not a match - but don't let it stand in the way of meeting a nice guy like me! I travel with work and am in the SoCal area often. I am not willing to let distance be a barrier to meeting a great guy. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF TOUCH - MASSAGE TRADE? :)

Fund raiser for a national medical society.
AKA - a professional panhandler

making time for myself.

notice about me? People notice me? Well, I sure wasn't paying attention.

Book - Pillars of the Earth
Movie - Chocolat, Silence of the Lambs
Shows - Anything on HGTV, FOOD network, bio, etc

1. Hanging with my nephews 2. Travel 3. Blue cheese 4. Chinese food 5. Good friends/family 6. My sanity

What I should be doing. What I should have done. What I should do next. Life.

Attending a Professional Men's Mixer (no that isn't a plug!). Sitting at home, watching some tv, making dinner, decompressing for the week.

Is this a trick or something? If it is private, I am not going to share it. Especially in a public forum. However, I will tell you that I am single, funny, stable, hairy, and well, just a damn good guy.