BUT you don't go to bars often and neither do I. So, here we are, in our virtual bar.
I haven't been willing to "settle" and I continue to seek the grounded, witty, athletic confident slender/athletic beauty who wants a terrific co-adventurer to live life happily ever after with.
I'm athletic and fit .. I regularly work out, improving my serve and slice, have swum from Alcatraz, finished 2 Triathlons, a Tough Mudder, and nimbly navigate the Whole Food/Trader Joe/Fairway aisles.
I'm fun and adventurous .. have kissed the Blarney Stone while cycling through Ireland, come face-to-face with poisonous lionfish while scuba-diving in the Red Sea, spent 5 months backpacking through SE Asia, have lived in SF, Seattle, Tokyo, Chicago, NYC and DC.
And, I'm truly grounded and positive, affectionate and doting, and have evolved into a man my dad & mom would be proud of. My bookshelf holds The Alchemist, Siddhartha, Four Agreements, Shel Silverstein's "The Missing Piece", Dr. Seuss' "Oh, The Places You'll Go", Joseph Campbell, Tolle's "Power of Now" and I will challenge and help you to be your best.
I look like my photos, some say better with great energy. And, though I have the requisite Gentlemanly qualities (honesty, integrity, reliability, chivalry), I possess a passionate mischievous edgier spirit too.
I love kids but am seeking a relationship that does not begin with kids, which is very hard to say as I'd be (will be) an amazing father and there are amazing gorgeous single moms who have flattered me with messages.