Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
4 Second Version: Adventurous, fit, smart, romantic and edgy
seeks the same!
Once upon a time, a gentleman with edges, integrity and honest
intentions paused in the midst of a satisfying life to reflect upon
his experience and hopes for entering into a partnership with a
kindred spirit. 🙇
He'd lived far and wide (Tokyo, San Francisco, Seattle, Chicago, DC
and Manhattan) and had earned degrees in law and business. He'd
swum from Alcatraz, did two tri's, cycled through Ireland, come
face-to-face with poisonous lion fish while scuba diving in the Red
Sea and nimbly navigated Trader Joe/Wholefood's aisles. He'd read
Tolle, Campbell, Hesse and Seuss, meditated, Ohm'ed and asana’ed,
while also exploring liaisons that sparked his more prurient
interests. No materialistic jet setter, he was grounded, faithful
and passionate with a thirst for new experiences and companionship.
Still, he thought there must be something more -- and that there
might be a likeminded liberated bewitching woman with wanderlust,
edge, wit and spirit craving more too. 👩
So, are you also ready to meet your best friend/lover/co-adventurer
to create something fun and amazing?! ☀️🌙⭐️
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for a boutique tech-media firm wearing many hats; Writing
when I can; Seeking to get my sports-app start up launched.👔💼
Professionally and emotionally stable, seeking to live life
passionately, compassionately, and purposefully.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being interesting and interested, sharing things I know and making
you laugh; I have strong hands (give great massage); being an
exceptionally authentic, affectionate, romantic, fun and playful
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've a dimple, a nice smile, and sincere positive energy. ⚡️
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Avocados, sushi, smoked salmon, dark chocolate, cold brew coffee,
tapas/sangria, whiskey & blues, speakeasies, autumn leaves
& apple cider, margaritas on a sandy beach, greenery after a
hard rain; aged rum; a starry sky, vineyard tours, brunch, poker
with the men, watching my dog Asher play. 🐶
Daily Show, Colbert Report, Bill Maher, Groundhog Day (anything
with Bill Murray), NPR (Fresh Air, Diane Rehm, Wait Wait), Charlie
Rose, Marc Maron's WTF.
Alchemist; Places You’ll Go; Power of Now/New Earth; Power of Myth;
Siddhartha; Four Agreements. 🌎
Healthy food/fitness/nutrition. Rarely eat processed foods, grains
and sugars but not militant about it (darn sweet tooth!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cliche I know, but hopefully you. 💘
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
For strictly search purposes (so you could actually see this
profile and make up your mind), I put 44 in Manhattan but I’m 49 in
Stamford. I recently took a job at a cool media-tech firm in the
area where I’m renting after living 7 years in West Village/UWS,.
My friends/social life is in Manhattan so I’m there several
evenings, every weekend and could easily move back if things work
out. Please imagine I'm next door, cause I could be. 🌹
I'm silly enough to dance with my dog alone in my apartment (well,
i dance and he watches with concern).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're non-pretentious and non-judgmental, actively into
fitness/health and athletic. Ideally, you’re also whipsmart,
passionate and match my mischievous spirit along with your own
charm, commitment to growth and capacity to love. Maybe you rock
lulu lemons, little black dresses and have dazzled on occasion.
Would you dress up for Halloween, cook and throw some dinner
parties, escape to tropical beaches, bike through wine country,
hike nature trails, take dance classes, pick apples in an orchard,
meander through museums or old cities, stroll the zoo/botanical
gardens/Met or Natural History, indulge in impromptu improv
conversation anywhere/anytime, roll dice in Vegas, undertake a cat
burgling jewel heist caper on French Riviera, consider a Disney
half-marathon through the theme park, play tennis and/or scuba dive
with me? Or maybe just stay home, order in and netfilx it. I may be
one of the most truly romantic affectionate men you might meet.
Edgier experiences have included ... well, If we'll be sharing a
life and a bed for the next 30 years shouldn't we make it fun. 🔥
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