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21 M Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 30
6′ 3″ (1.90m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Okay), Arabic (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Frikster: Level 4 Computer Science Student.
Exp 994567/1000000
Introspective: +15 to wisdom checks
Adaptive: +15 to escape awkward situation attempts
Quirky: Frikster™ is immune to the "Care-what-others-think-about-you" spell

Absent-minded: -60 to all awareness checks.
Hypercritical: -15 to charm attempts
Indecisive: Whenever Frikster™ comes across "a choice" roll a D6. On any roll but a 6, Frikster™ skips his turn

Special Ability:
Stubborn as hell: Whenever Frikster™ successfully makes "a choice" (See page 94 of the Rulebook) he gains +30 to vitality whenever pursuing said choice and -30 to awareness of all other choices.

- I can be a pretentious snob who keeps using the same set of phrases to sound intelligent.
- I have a severe god-complex which manifests itself in my constant drive towards anything grandiose.
- Although I don't show it regularly I can be relentlessly ambitious, and probably wont have any qualms subverting certain values if it means I can use you to further my own ends.
- My goals are often drenched in unrealistic ideals that don’t make sense and hence I may constantly be "planning" for something... Which is at times unsettling.
- That those ideals are often deeply inflamed with lust can be even more unsettling (well, for some people at least)
- I value competence above almost anything else, often even above social status, empathy or love
- As much as I loathe laziness, throwing sleep and work to the side for an all-nighter spent binging on a computer game, a TV series/anime, or a book/web comic is something I do frequently and I always feel miserable afterwards for doing it.
- Then I do it again.
- I really like when someone goes against what I tell them to do, for me.
- I have multiple personalities I put on from time to time and few things satisfy me as much as being able to shock a friend, who has known me for years as one type of person, by showing him/her that I am indeed also a completely different kind of person.
- I constantly desire to give and receive affection from those I value like a stupid puppy. This happens when I try to get to know someone and want to become friends with said person. Then, after I feel comfortable in the friendship, I back off and no longer have the urge. It seems most people become friends and then want physical intimacy to follow. I want physical intimacy and then friendship to follow.
- And for those who know me, if you think I am being overly critical of myself, just wait till you give me consent to criticize you.

A video should say a lot about me:
Violent poems FTW

I confess that Okcupid' "The Backrubber" in their dating profile quiz sums me up pretty well, especially the last sentence in the desription. My ideal match is also someone who enjoys creating chaos as I enjoy creating order.

I also agree with most of the traits Okcupid labels me as on the personality tab. Though I really don't believe I'm *that* kinky
(゜_゜>). I also don't get why there isn't a section saying I'm more "romance-driven" than the average. A night under a starry sky with soft-spoken words of affection, a private gift of unspeakable meaning and value received at the foot of a waterfall just when the moonlight hits the reflecting pool, making out in the rain ferociously to cheer each other up after missing the damn bus home. If anything makes for a good story, I want it in my life, and what is romance if not a good story shared between lovers?
What I’m doing with my life
My dream is to enter the field of computational neuroscience. To this end I'm currently working in an incredibly prestigious lab that uses two-photon microscopy to study real-time dendritogenesis in tadpoles. As cool as that sounds, tadpoles require frogs, and so naturally my job is to clean the frog shit. Over the past year I've learnt that male frogs are horny bastards.

As an animal lover I want to study animal brains (at the molecular level). Discovering how another sentient being sees our world offers quite a bit of perspective and never ceases to fill me with awe.

Other than that I've recently been introduced to Effective Altruism and have started getting to know Vancouver's EA community. Although I'm new, I guarantee that the word "Effective Altruist" will be an important part of my identity in the years to come.
I’m really good at
Dealing with awkward situations, debating controversial topics. I'm quite good at making people feel they are being heard, understood, appreciated and empathized with, especially when many folks are all talking about deeply emotional topics (Think of the twisted tangles in the sex lives of university students... and good God how they lead to late night emotion spilling).
The first things people usually notice about me
- "How's the weather up there?" (I'm tall)
- "Are you British?" (I have a South African accent)
- "Err..." (I'm terrible at first impressions)
- "Wow, those are huge..." (I carry around my SteelSeries Siberia headsets wherever I go)
- "No, seriously, you aren't British?" (I always carry tea with me for impromptu tea parties)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Explore my psychosis here:

Explore my worldviews here:

Explore my obsessions here:

Anything that mixes in modern and classical elements. e.g. violins and epic choral with heavy metal, post rock, harsh EBM, industrial. Basically, any music that makes you feel like a god.

Anything fantasy, science fiction, horror, alternative history, historical non-fiction, supernatural, conspiracy theory, anything with dark disturbing and thought provoking humour, anything post-apocalyptic, dystopian, grand. I have a soft spot for anime and webcomics.

Computer games:
Anything unique, anything with a story, anything with strategy, anything that gets my heart rate pumping, anything that lets me satisfy my god complex and gives me complete control over developing something like a character's story, (or something else) so that I compulsively spend hours upon hours perfecting it.
The six things I could never do without
1) The feeling of of being a morally good person
2) The feeling that I am an authentic whimsical character
3) Intimacy
4) The colour dark green
5) Boobies (They're so cute when they dance with their blue feet)
6) Accentuated verbose words. Derp.

7) (bonus: I can do without this one, but I really really don't want to) Middle cuddles.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
cute girls, transhumanism, relationship dynamics, supernatural, How to best get idiots to worshsip me, quantum physics, gothic art, cosplay, trailer music, theoretical neuroscience, gore, sex, What would happen if my fist came out of your monitor and smashed your face in right now?, artificial intelligence, cute guys
On a typical Friday night I am
Studying or out frolicking with friends (clubbing, large restaurant outings, tea-parties, mosh pits, underground raves) or playing board games/ computer games/reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love movies that make me cry. I have a list of each movie that has ever made me shed tears.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You think you can make my life more complicated. I love complications.
- The acronym TSFH means something to you.
- The words Gothic, Steampunk and Cosplay all resonate with you
- If you like herp derping, conversation that keeps going till sunrise or youtube/gaming/TV series/reading/webcomic marathons.
- You like hiking/camping/bungee jumping/paragliding/rock climbing/scuba diving/open water swimming/travelling
- You have a good dark sadistic joke
- You're a sci-fi, fantasy or mystery writer
- You need someone to hold through the long march of the dark night
- You understand that "ethical non-monogamy" is not an oxymoron:
- You spend way too much of your time on tumblr or reddit or deviantart or youtube and you're looking to have someone you can call a boyfriend who has both a calm collective and a wild party animal side