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41 M West Hatfield, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:38pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, C++, French (Poorly), LISP, Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am multi-faceted. I've been a musician for most of my life. I learned to play the record player and sing in the early years. At thirteen years of age guitar and other instruments began to make an uncanny intuitive sense. After a long journey through thinking I should endeavor to be a professional scientist or engineer, harp has taken hold as my primary instrument.

Around the same age as I learned the record player I became enamored with Spider-man. I do not remember whether this came before or after a fascination with spiders. (I am particularly fond of jumping spiders, they're cute and lively. One day I was playing guitar and noticed one on my knee, "dancing" as it watched my fingers. I say "dancing" because the reductionist in me thinks that the behavior I observed was an effect of the spider's prey-targeting circuitry, though the mystic in me wonders if it were e.g. a sign that music is the primary path for me.) Anyway this fascination with spiders branched into a fascination with insects and other creatures and the workings of life in general. All that plus a latent fascination with video games is how I came to earn a degree in cognitive science focusing on artificial life.
What I’m doing with my life
Improving myself, seeking deeper self-understanding, seeking the intersection of sources of income and things I enjoy, creating and playing with sounds and music, e.g.
I’m really good at
Um, too many things. I hope that reincarnation is a thing, maybe I can be a myrmecologist or a blacksmith or an astrologer in another lifetime.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My musical taste ranges far and wide. Some of my all-time favorite songs/tunes are Tomorrow Never Knows, Octopus's Garden, and some others by the Beatles; Sunday Bloody Sunday by U2; Bedlam 13:13 and Black Steel in the Hour of Chaos by Public Enemy; Orion, The Four Horsemen, and some other Metallica; Irish tunes such as O'Keefe's slide, Cooley's reel, Morrison's jig, The Strayaway Child, ...;
I could go on like this for a while...
At the top of the list right now are Wardruna and Gjallarhorn

raw milk from a cow that's been eating wild strawberries

Lately Vikings, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead. In years past Doctor Who, Monty Python, Star Trek, etc.

I read a fair bit, my current favorite sentence is "Those who think a fascination with salt is a bizarre obsession have simply never owned a rock like this." - Mark Kurlansky
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are making the world a better place by doing what you love, or that is one of your goals, and/or want to know more about me, or make music, or play in the woods, etc.