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FrogStatue

41 M West Hatfield, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:31pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, C++, French (Poorly), Norwegian (Poorly), Swedish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am multi-faceted. I've been a musician for most of my life. I learned to play the record player and sing in the early years. At thirteen years of age guitar and other instruments began to make an uncanny intuitive sense. After a long journey through thinking I should endeavor to be a professional scientist or engineer, harp has taken hold as my primary instrument.

Around the same age as I learned the record player I became enamored with Spider-man. I do not remember whether this came before or after a fascination with spiders. (I am particularly fond of jumping spiders, they're cute and lively. One day I was playing guitar and noticed one on my knee, "dancing" as it watched my fingers. I say "dancing" because the reductionist in me thinks that the behavior I observed was an effect of the spider's prey-targeting circuitry, though the mystic in me wonders if it were e.g. a sign that music is the primary path for me.) Anyway this fascination with spiders branched into a fascination with insects and other creatures and the workings of life in general. All that plus a latent fascination with video games is how I came to earn a degree in cognitive science focusing on artificial life.

And yet:
"I have always felt dislocated within civilization. Whether the suburbs, the cities, or small towns, I have always felt suffocated, empty, and lost. Traveling from one location to the next, always over-idealizing the succeeding context. The grass always seemed greener. In this postmodern reality, dislocation is not the exception but the norm, and even the sought-after condition. We can never be whole as long as we live outside and above our surroundings, or for that matter, even view them as surroundings, and not as part of us."
http://unsettlingamerica.wordpress.com/2011/05/26/we-were-all-indigenous-and-can-again-become/

Why did they get rid of "available" as a relationship status? That would be the most apt in my case. Of the current choices "single" seems closest to where I'm at.

By the match %ages here, women near my age who I have any more than a smattering of common ground with are rare. I find this both annoying and curious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Improving myself, seeking deeper self-understanding, seeking the intersection of sources of income and things I enjoy, creating and playing with sounds and music, e.g.
https://soundcloud.com/thewanderingharper/brian-borus
https://soundcloud.com/thewanderingharper/bluegreenalgae2
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Um, too many things. I hope that reincarnation is a thing, maybe I can be a myrmecologist or a blacksmith or an astrologer in another lifetime.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My musical taste ranges far and wide. Some of my all-time favorite songs/tunes are Tomorrow Never Knows, Octopus's Garden, and some others by the Beatles; Sunday Bloody Sunday by U2; Bedlam 13:13 and Black Steel in the Hour of Chaos by Public Enemy; Orion, The Four Horsemen, and some other Metallica; Irish tunes such as O'Keefe's slide, Cooley's reel, Morrison's jig, The Strayaway Child, ...;
I could go on like this for a while...
At the top of the list right now are Wardruna and Gjallarhorn
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKrGOlumS7E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzrrbTvT28E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czW0O_ZvAWw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7YPT6lmLk0
I find the sound of these languages as gripping as the sound of the music, thus I've sort of been learning them by osmosis.

raw milk from a cow that's been eating wild strawberries

Lately Vikings, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead. In years past Doctor Who, Monty Python, Star Trek, etc.

I read a fair bit, my current favorite sentence is "Those who think a fascination with salt is a bizarre obsession have simply never owned a rock like this." - Mark Kurlansky

my favorite poetry fragment of late:
Sól skein sunnan
á salar steina,
þá var grund gróin
grœnum lauki.

Sun shone from the south
on the hall's stones
then from ground grew
the green leeks
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
blekksprut
jord
eld
laukr
skogen
fingrar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Å, nej kära far släck genast ut ljus,
det var bara katten som spände en mus."
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