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41 West Hatfield, MA Man


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  • Ages 23–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 6:49pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, C++, French (Poorly), Norwegian (Poorly), Swedish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I've been a musician for most of my life. I learned to play the record player and sing in the early years. At thirteen years of age guitar and other instruments began to make an uncanny intuitive sense.
Around the same age as I learned the record player I became enamored with Spider-man. I do not remember whether this came before or after a fascination with spiders. (I am particularly fond of jumping spiders, they're cute and lively. One day I was playing guitar and noticed one on my knee, "dancing" as it watched my fingers. I say "dancing" because the reductionist in me thinks that the behavior I observed was an effect of the spider's prey-targeting circuitry, though the mystic in me wonders differently.) Anyway this fascination with spiders branched into a fascination with insects and other creatures and the workings of life in general. All that plus a latent fascination with video games is how I came to earn a degree focusing on artificial life. That feels like a chapter of my life written and finished years ago, though sometimes forgotten curiosities reappear.

Many interests and passions have flared and faded during my life; music has proven to be the truest and most enduring thread weaving through it all. For some years now my focus is composing, recording, performing, with an interest in music and sound as healing aides.
What I’m doing with my life
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Mining gold in the shadows, applying my will at the intersection of sources of income and things I enjoy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things that bring me joy and/or deep satisfaction also tend to be things I am good at, which have included photography, climbing trees, martial arts, dancing, smithcraft, making tiny worlds with computer code, communing with a stream in the woods on a mountain...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My musical taste ranges far and wide. Some of my all-time favorite songs/tunes are Tomorrow Never Knows, Octopus's Garden, and some others by the Beatles; Sunday Bloody Sunday by U2; Bedlam 13:13 and Black Steel in the Hour of Chaos by Public Enemy; Orion, The Four Horsemen, and some other Metallica; Irish tunes such as O'Keefe's slide, Cooley's reel, Morrison's jig, The Strayaway Child, ...;
I could go on like this for a while...
At the top of the list right now are Wardruna and Gjallarhorn

an example of my favorite kind of food is the fresh milk I got from my friend who milked the cow himself while singing to her.

reading is good. The last book I read was the first of a historical fiction trilogy by Maria Kvilhaug called Blade Honer: The Hammer of Greatness.

some tv programming is awesome, a lot of it is worthless.

my favorite poetry fragment of late:
Sól skein sunnan
á salar steina,
þá var grund gróin
grœnum lauki.
"when the Sun shone from the south
on the stones of the hall
then from the ground grew
them gree-n leeks"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?