I always think I am taller then I am, but I am 5 feet 7 (170 cm) without my high heels and I have a slim, athletic body. Mostly I dress myself sportively: ponytail, jeans and sneakers. Jumping on my bike without make-up because it is always raining in Amsterdam.
For going out I like to dress up in a nice dress, high heels and make-up but still jumping on that bike :) Dutch women are amazing!
I follow my passion and I believe i am responsible for my actions in live and my own happiness without becoming selfish or self-absorbed.
No wonder that I am a freelancer. For more then 10 years and yes I managed to make my passion into my work: theatre!
I create my own artistic projects: like on Oerol Festival, Terschelling the Netherlands: "Tillefoan" or DEZa. www.spoffin.nl
I did worked abroad: London, Leeds, Liverpool, Chicago, Bucuresti, Palermo, Budapest, Barcelona.
But now I work more in my own community and I am more focused in my own city Amsterdam. The last projects was with elderly with Alzheimer " hartenvrouw" and and other project with youngster who lived in sheltered homes.
Although I was searching for love stories in the elderly homes I did not found my own love of my live…yet :)
The elderly told me stories about love at first sight and I met a woman of 89 that just married again with a man in the same elderly home. So love is timeless!
But I found out that love alone is not enough for a long-term relationship. The ability to love someone, but also to share each other's complementary instead of attacking each other is one of the conditions that I look for in a relationship. And make each other smile ;-)
I'm not everybody’s friend, although in my work I meet a lot of people. But one on one contacts are more important to me. Besides my insecurities, I have a strong personality and I'm looking for a man who is not afraid of this. I do not understand jealous people!
I do not have children or a wish to give birth. I do like children and a man with children is no problem. It gives your life more sparks!
Freedom and respect for each other, without dominating is what I can give in a relationship. Therefore I have no interest in short love affairs.
If you also find this valuable, than I hope to hear from you!