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Last online
Feb 22
Asian, Middle Eastern
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and laughing about it
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a songwriter-performer, a radical (anti-cap, anti-racist, feminist, etc.) and a veteran romantic.

I'm queer and polyamorous, and have a wonderful partner in feralghost, but I'm here because I'm always open to new connections with awesome people: specifically, more boys and non-gender-normy folks.

I'm a pretty big goofball/spazzoid IRL, but I am doomed to come off way more serious in this setting. I can't not sing or dance.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to create art--specifically, songs--that brings wisdom and comfort, reveals truth and challenges power. I perform pretty regularly in SF and the East Bay.

Fighting for a world free of exploitation and oppression. Talking about politics, history, theory, tactics a lot.

I've been doing the funemployment thing for a year, but just started looking for waged work again. All good things...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing songs.
Analyzing the ethics/politics of a situation.
Talking it out.
Being a sweetheart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My luxuriant rattail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Forever feeling inadequate about being sufficiently well-versed in all the above media (except food perhaps)...

Mostly political theory/history reading anymore, though it's slow-going.

The only TV I watch is Star Trek. Just finished TNG and started DS9.

"Oh, I like all kinds of music..." *wanking gesture* Yes, I do, but mostly anymore it's some folksy shit. Preferably gut-wrenching. Political but not preachy. Past (and future?) loves include punk, jazz, some scattered hip hop.

I love just about any cuisine, and I enjoy cooking. I care about food justice, but I also bristle at the elitism in much of the health food 'movement'. I'll always have a soft spot for junk food (screw you mom!). I was vegetarian for nine years before retiring from it last year, but I can still cook up a vegetarian storm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My songs
Other songwriters who inspire me
People who get it
People who give a shit
Something to eat, fer chrissakes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The struggle
The historical root of systemic oppressions and their interdependence
How to avoid having a real job so I can actual create things of value for myself and the world
Contriving an elaborate setup for a truly awful pun
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a show, or going to a friend's. Something political. Hanging out with a cutie. Working on a song.

Or alternately, being on the fucking internet :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I just can't be bothered to write back if I'm not interested. Sorry, I just can't.
You should message me if
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You enjoy discussing radical politics.

You'd be down to play a game of chess, watch Star Trek, or go see some local music.