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32 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Feb 22
- Asian, Middle Eastern
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from university
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I'm queer and polyamorous, and have a wonderful partner in feralghost, but I'm here because I'm always open to new connections with awesome people: specifically, more boys and non-gender-normy folks.
I'm a pretty big goofball/spazzoid IRL, but I am doomed to come off way more serious in this setting. I can't not sing or dance.
Fighting for a world free of exploitation and oppression. Talking about politics, history, theory, tactics a lot.
I've been doing the funemployment thing for a year, but just started looking for waged work again. All good things...
Analyzing the ethics/politics of a situation.
Talking it out.
Being a sweetheart.
Mostly political theory/history reading anymore, though it's slow-going.
The only TV I watch is Star Trek. Just finished TNG and started DS9.
"Oh, I like all kinds of music..." *wanking gesture* Yes, I do, but mostly anymore it's some folksy shit. Preferably gut-wrenching. Political but not preachy. Past (and future?) loves include punk, jazz, some scattered hip hop.
I love just about any cuisine, and I enjoy cooking. I care about food justice, but I also bristle at the elitism in much of the health food 'movement'. I'll always have a soft spot for junk food (screw you mom!). I was vegetarian for nine years before retiring from it last year, but I can still cook up a vegetarian storm.
Other songwriters who inspire me
People who get it
People who give a shit
Something to eat, fer chrissakes
The historical root of systemic oppressions and their interdependence
How to avoid having a real job so I can actual create things of value for myself and the world
Contriving an elaborate setup for a truly awful pun
Or alternately, being on the fucking internet :P
You'd be down to play a game of chess, watch Star Trek, or go see some local music.
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