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FrostRoads

41 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Apologies about the photo - I want to be honest.

I'm smart, funny, literate, attractive and sane.
I'm well traveled, worldly, speak a few languages,
I'm kind to others, very loyal to my friends, chivalrous at times, generally thoughtful.
I'm in good shape, take care of myself and am overall easy on the eyes, one or two people who aren't blood relatives have told me.

So why the shady pix?

I crave kinky. Not all the time, not tonight!, not just for one night, but I want to find someone to explore it with.

I'm recently out of a long relationship that was very nice but something was missing.

I'd like to find a friend to play with - to get to know, build trust and take it from there.

There's not one particular kink I'm looking for, but I want to play more - not just more...better. I want more toys in my sandbox.

Games, toys, scenarios, all sorts of things come to mind....
I usually end up dom, if anything, but would love to let go, do something in public where we might be caught? Find other with like minds?

No real experience necessary. I've played a good bit in my life - enough to know that all we need is comfort, open-mindedness and creativity.

Intrigued? Interest even a little piqued? Drop me a note and say hi.

If something good and real develops that's great, but instead of starting from getting along and hoping the sex gets to where I want it, I'd like to try the other way around.

I'll send real pics if you write me a real note and then we should just meet for a drink and see what develops.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an anthropologist at heart but not by trade. I work for myself and travel a lot. I'm lucky enough to have the freedom to pursue my appreciation of food, culture, adventure, while fitting in the other stuff in between.
I’m really good at
I'm an excellent dinner companion and a great lover.
I should know - I've been spending a lot of time alone lately.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This.
That's why I'm doing this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not on a typical schedule, so days of the week don't matter. But why go anywhere when everyone else is if you can avoid it?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Read my questions. They reveal...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating