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39 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 7:01am
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I live and breathe through music and art. I love and feel down to the very bottom of my soul. I'm quick, I'm funny, I'm dark and I can be quite cheeky at times...well...a whole lot of the time. I'm a great girl with a huge heart and my friends love the sh*t out of me.

I'm a sarcasmaholic:
What I’m doing with my life
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Photographer. Documenting the underbelly of the San Francisco Bay Area from buildings decaying in forgotten silence, concerts, graffiti to strangers whose moments I want to freeze in time.

Instagram: @pixelina
Flickr: Pixelina Photography (

When I get the chance: Thrifting, concerts, record stores, antique fairing, art murmur, galleries, low brow art shows, adventuring, road trippin and finding beauty out of sh*t with some urban exploration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The art of the mixtape, parallel parking (for real, mad skills), banter, staying in the car til the song's over, analogies, taking forever to pick a movie on Netflix n falling asleep halfway through it, digging through the interwebs to find new music to fall in love with, laughing when you fall or trip and then giggling, "Are you ok?" and last but not least...letting someone cook for me, I'm the BEST at that!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that I have entered their line of vision. I would say that's the FIRST thing people usually notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Sedaris always makes me laugh. Looking for a good read. Any suggestions?

Movies: Airplane!, Requiem For A Dream, Run Lola Run, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Amelie, Gross Pointe Blank, Umbrellas of Cherbourg, Moulin Rouge, The Intouchables, Arthur (original), Rush, Wonderland, Love Me If You Dare, Say Anything, High Fidelity, City of Lost Children, The Big Lebowski, Young Frankenstein, Kes, This Is England, Trainspotting, The 25th Hour, Buffalo 66, Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Time Bandits, Top Secret!, Goonies, Big Trouble in Little China, Sixteen Candles, Breakfast Club, Better Off Dead and I'm a sucker for a great music documentary...Synth Britannia, A Band Called Death, Searching for Sugarman, The Punk Singer, Sound City, Sonic Highways.

Shows: Orphan Black, Louie, Nurse Jackie, Boardwalk Empire, Shameless (US), House of Lies, The Goldbergs, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Wire, Mr. Show with Bob and David, Parks n Rec, The Office, Life's Too Short, Bobs Burgers, Raising Hope, Modern Family, The IT Crowd, Father Ted, That Mitchell and Webb Look, Top Gear (UK), Phoenix Nights, Arrested Development, Broad City, You're The Worst, How I Met Your Mother, Police Squad (comedy GOLD). I also love me some Master Chef and Project Runway, the ONLY reality T.V. I watch.

Music: Depeche Mode, Joy Division, New Order, The Smiths, The Cure, The Raveonettes, Little Girls, Soviet Soviet, In Letter Form, Weeknight, Corners, Mexican Slang, La Féline, SOHN, Get Your Gun, Esben and the Witch, Lee Fields, The Soft Moon, Moon Duo, The Fat White Family, Algiers, Santigold, Alton Ellis, Johnny Cash, Gang of Four, The Specials, Jungle (the band not the genre), French Films, All Your Sisters, Valleys, Girls In Hawaii, Madness, Fabienne DelSol, La Femme, Led Er Est, Stubborn Heart, Atoms For Peace, Dead Ghosts, Lebanon Hanover, DVA Damas, The KVB, The Notwist, DIIV, Death Day, Chinawoman, Molly Nilsson, Ramones, Dark Features, The Julie Ruin, Charles Bradley, Shannon and the Clams, Lovers Revenge, NUN, Schonwald, The Woken Trees, Hibou, The Peach Kings, The Prids, Dum Dum Girls, Best Coast, Wanda Jackson, Nina Simone, Dean Martin, Allah Las, Nick Waterhouse, Tallest Man on Earth, Shakey Graves, Keaton Henson, Connie Francis, DJ Shadow, Mode Moderne, Crystal Castles, The Go-Go's, Air, JD McPherson, Portishead, Radiohead, Holly Golightly, The Zombies, Ray Charles, Beastie Boys, The Streets, The Cool Kids, The XX, Soft Kill, OMD, Black Marble, Wise Blood, Ausmuteants, Duchess Says, The Knife, Cold Cave, Brown Brogues, Colleen Green, The Presets, A Place to Bury Strangers, General Decay, Murder City Devils, The Husbands, Sonic Youth, The Breeders, Bjork, Peaches, The Rezillos, Ladytron, Audio Bullys, Kraftwerk, Human League, Morrissey, Le Tigre, Bikini Kill, Bauhaus, She Wants Revenge, Divine Fits, Handsome Furs, The Animals, The Ventures, The Cars, Led Zeppelin, The Who and I love old school hip hop n r&b, slow jams and freestyle...this list is never ending.

Current obsession...that voice soaked in velvety darkness, I can't get enough:

Food: Not a picky eater at all BUT...I'm a terrible Mexican and can't handle spicy food. Oh and olives and mushrooms are gross :D

Art: I know it's not a category but it should be.
(This blows my mind EVERY TIME I watch it! That space is phenomenal!)
Blu: (this never gets old)
Gats: (Welcome to Oakland!)
Charles Crew:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In a partner:
1) Trespassing: Ideally, I would LOVE to meet someone who has a passion for photography, graffiti, decay and abandonments or who will support me in my endeavors. Just think of all the adventures we could have!
2) Music/Cinema/Art: “It's no good pretending that any relationship has a future if your record collections disagree violently or if your favorite films wouldn't even speak to each other if they met at a party.” ― Nick Hornby
3) Humor: Sarcasm, wit and the ability to keep up with some sh*t talking! Don't take yourself too seriously...that's no fun for anyone.
4) Social: I like to go out with friends and have a good time every now and should too.
5) Travel: A desire or willingness to travel and see what the rest of this world has to offer. From day trips, weekend trips to going abroad.
6) Penguins or Elephants: Yes, plural and if you have either message me NOW!!! I'm very serious.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next day off and pajamas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
where I'm at!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty f*cking cool aaaaaand...I kinda, sorta, totally want to have Louis C.K.'s ginger babies.
You should message me if
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You're pretty f*cking cool too.
You la la la loooooove music and want to nerd out with me or if you think you can turn me on to a new band...yes, that's a challenge.
You'll stay in the car with me til the song's over.
You want to be my PIC and think taking a two month photography road trip to explore abandonments, graffiti and eats across the US is a FANTASTIC way to vacation.