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My self-summary
Note: I know you ladies get so many messages on here that you don't even really look through most of them, and the good messages only end up lost in the mess. Thus I won't message you first because you probably won't even see it, so if you want to talk, just shoot me a message!

'Sup! I'm Lee: musician, writer, and a big nerd for art and media of all kinds. I'm passionate, open-minded, easygoing, and patient, but very assertive.

The most important things in the world to me are openness, open-mindedness, and honesty.

Things I love: art, music, relaxing, working out, writing, entertainment media, self improvement, and personal growth

Things I'm not into: sports, cars, religion, ignorance, pity parties, and self loathing

I've come to notice that the more a woman insists on her profile that that she's "not like other girls/women," the more typical and boring she is. If you're actually interesting then you won't feel the need to make sure everyone knows how interesting you are. That's called compensating.
What I’m doing with my life
I work a good job for good money, but my primary focus is building my musical skills (singing, guitar, bass, drums) and trying to find musical opportunities and other musicians to work with. I have big plans and big dreams, and I'm always moving toward them.
I’m really good at
Singing, listening, making conversation, debating, writing, problem-solving, and understanding. I have a strong knack for psychology and can read people like books, and I'm empathetic; I'm good at picking up on others' feelings. I'm good at picking up new things quickly and getting very good at them, because I apply myself fully to everything I do and I don't half-ass anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height, smile, and intelligence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bill Hicks is my hero and biggest inspiration in life.

Books: The Mission of Art (Alex Grey), Be More Chill (Ned Vizzini), everything written by Neil Strauss, The God Delusion (Richard Dawkins), Gantz (Hiroya Oku), Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus (John Gray), Sextrology (Starsky and Cox), The Ethical Slut (Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy), all of Malcolm Gladwell's work, the TMNT comics (Eastman and Laird), Rage (Stephen King writing as Richard Bachman) etc.

Movies: American Beauty, everything Darren Aronofsky has ever made, Kiki's Delivery Service (and Miyazaki's work in general, but that one especially moved me), Donnie Darko, Eraserhead, Falling Down, all of Larry Clark's work, Edward Scissorhands, Leon/The Professional, Jacob's Ladder, Beavis and Butthead Do America, Fight Club, Grandma's Boy, American History X, Unleashed, Ong Bak: The Thai Warrior, Big Hero 6, Ghost, 300, Zombieland, everything Harmony Korine has worked on, I <3 Huckabees, Bloodsport, The Conjuring, Scott Pilgrim VS The World, Ghost, Kevin Smith's work, God Bless America, E.T., Chronicle, The King of Kongs: A Fistful of Quarters, Click, Wreck-It Ralph, etc.

Shows: Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Game of Thrones, Six Feet Under, South Park, Naruto, Dragon Ball and DBZ, Strange Sex, Arrested Development, etc. Also youtube shows! Game Grumps, Continue?, Caddicarus, The Completionist, Peanut Butter Gamer, Jontron, Satchbag's Goods, Boozinwalsh, Did You Know Gaming?, 5x5, Smooth McGroove, Yungtown, Egoraptor, and Ninja Sex Party.

Music: Honestly anything with good melody and soul. Some examples: Tool, Bill Hicks (yes, he made music as well, not just comedy...and his music is truly beautiful), 3, CeeLo Green, Manowar, Jason Mraz, Ninja Sex Party, AC/DC, Daft Punk, Eminem, Joe Inoue, Powerman 5000, Cicada, Alice in Chains, BT, Michael Jackson, Puscifer, Chicago, Static-X, Jack Johnson, HIM, A Perfect Circle, Radiohead, Pantera, MIKA, Liz Phair, Papa Roach, Queen, Fall Out Boy, Rob Zombie, Motörhead, Anamanaguchi, Mötley Crüe, Fucktard, Does It Offend You Yeah?, Weerd Science, Muse, Alter Bridge, etc.

Food: Love sweet foods, love salty foods, hate spicy foods. I love simple shit like burgers and pasta. Not a big fan of complicated dishes.

Video games: EarthBound, the entire Metal Gear series, Silent Hills original through 4, all the Mario Kart games, the whole Super Smash Bros. series, Super Street Fighter IV, Soul Calibur II (GC version), Tekken 5, the original PS Crash Bandicoot games, Pokemon (more-so the old school versions), The Last of Us, F-Zero GX, ICO and Shadow of the Colossus, the Kirby series, the Twisted Metal series, Mortal Kombat (2011), the God of War series (except for Ascension), The Legend of Zelda (not all of them, but my favorites are Majora's Mask and Wind Waker), the Donkey Kong Country series, main series Mario games from Super Mario 64 and earlier, TMNT games on the NES and SNES, Limbo, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Music, passion/love, laughter, physical touch, good conversation, and goals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Other people and how they think. Self-improvement and personal growth. Love. Music. The current state of the world and my place in it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing whatever I like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have tattoos. If you want to know more private things than that, you need to get to know me first.
You should message me if
If I've intrigued you. Don't be scared! Message me, you pansy. ;P Showing that kind of initiative immediately earns you respect points. Life's too short to be scared of making connections.

I don't appreciate playing head games, so don't waste my time unless you're legitimately interested in the possibility of meeting. Too many women on this site flirt, set up a date, then cancel before the date happens and start ignoring you. Classy. Leave me out of your mindfuck bullshit.