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68 Cumberland, RI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 55–64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am independent, intellectually curious, and open-minded. Looking for one woman with a blend of qualities--artistic, patience, someone with whom to share my feelings, and spend the final chapter of my life. I am not looking for my twin. Most people think I look younger than I really am. I take care of my body. Truth, honesty, equality, balanced with sensitivity and compassion are my mantras. I appreciate emotional warmth and physical affection. I think I am pretty flexible and easy to get along with. I can be serious or playful, depending on the situation and whom I am with. A wise man moves according to his circumstances.
What I’m doing with my life
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Retired from full time college teaching in Boston in 2013. Still doing part time teaching and consulting, and volunteering as a surgical liaison at a hospital. Thinking about new travel destinations. Learning to cook and eat healthier. One philosopher remarked the concept of efficiency of any process will remain undefined until we know why we are here. Another has remarked that if we ever find out, the universe will instantly change, so that the mystery will remain. I think this has already happened. Learning more about all of the fine arts and meditation. Keeping abreast of politics and global events.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to other people, learning about their experiences, though I need someone to listen to me. Offering support when asked to help put things in perspective. Helping to de-pressurize a friend after a tough week. Tutoring students in chemistry and math, vegetable gardening. Doing minor home repairs and removing stains from fabrics--that involves chemistry, right! A news hound--wondering what's happening; thinking about the "law of unintended consequences." Taking walks on the beach and hiking in the woods, playing scrabble and backgammon, and tennis (???) and cycling; going to the movies.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and beard. And my warm hands, so I am told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Fugitive (surprised?), A Few Good Men, The Pelican Brief, City Slickers II, Midnight in Paris, The Verdict, Shawshank Redemption, The Green Mile, Forest Gump, The Notebook, Fried Green Tomatoes, Avatar, When Harry Met Sally, Doubt; British and American rock and folk from the 60's and 70's; Some country and classical pieces.
Many kinds of food, including seafood and Asian, so long as I know what's in them. Willing to be a line cook but not an executive chef for the right woman. Interested in the role of herbs and spices in maintaining good health. Books: "About Love," "A Fair Society," "The Celestine Prophecy." Enjoy going to the Hayden Planetarium and Omni Theatre, Never been on a Duck Tour.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my children
music--pretty wide variety, depending on my mood
my friends
morning coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I can do to help bring out the best in my future "significant
other"--YOU! I also think about the future of my children and how to stay connected to them; how lifestyles and culture have changed as a result of technological advances since the 60's. What will life be like after I'm gone. The balance between intellect and emotion. And what John Coffey said to Paul in "The Green Mile," just before he was executed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No two Friday evenings are the same. Relaxing; Going out to eat or to the movies with a friend, or just reading/watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have unloaded most of my baggage, but occasionally need someone to help me unpack a little more.
You should message me if
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If you like my profile, and want to start a relationship, and see where it leads. Tip of the day: It's easier to close a door, if you know there is a new one to open.