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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:43pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you look in please say something. Even No thanks or just looking.. I seem to send out 100 winks and messages and getback maybe 1. If I write you I'm putting myself out there please respond, even if it is to say no.. Simply Common Courtesy.

Hi! Let's see.. I'm a Celtic Shamanist, and Elementalist.. I'm Divorced and live with my two Cats one of which were originally Witches Familiars. The other is a rambunctious child that adopted me at the Humane shelter. I love most music not a great fan of industrial or acid rock and most rap leaves me cold...

I RPG... I read and watch movies.. If you want to know more Ask.. I'll try to be as honest and straight forward as possible..

"Once in a vision I came on some woods
and stood at a fork in the road
My choices were clear
Yet I froze with the fear
Of not knowing which way to go

One road was simple, Accptance of life
The other road offered sweet peace
When I made my decision
My Vision became my release"

These simple words sum up the essence of me. they are from the Song "Netherlands" by Dan Fogelberg, and unlike the Words of Robert Frost, this song doesn't try to tell you that one is better than the other. It merely says that the decision makes the vision a release. For many the path of least resistance is the way to go. Letting the crowd dictate your decision. Or to take the path that means hardship and strife but offers the peace of knowing you did it yourself and no one handed it to you, that proverbial road less traveled..

I am intense, honorable, and kinky

They want 1000 words but won't take a picture for it.. hmm..

I am what is called Serially Monogamous. Meaning that I am with one woman at a time.. when I'm not in a relationship like any unattended male i tend to search far and wide for anyone who will talk to me and let me get close..

I live Back home with my elderly Mother.. Both because of my health conditions and Job status and because she needs help and a cook.. I'm once again getting out but it's slow...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Surviving, or maybe just sucking Air. I lost to the wolves but found shelter with my mom. I'm a cliche. Living in Mom's attic. Cooking and cheaffeuring her around..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading situations and seeing "The Big Picture" and finding the most efficient method for doing whatever I'm doing. Being honest with people. Cooking and planning meals.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told an Aura of power it unnerves some scares others and excites still others.. which? depends on your own energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A: Catherine M Valente, Anita Blake books, Harry Potter books, LotR.

B: LotR, Harry Potter series, Finding Neverland

C: S.J. Tucker, Dan Fogelberg, Steve McDonald, Molly and the Tinker, Van Zant, Simon and Garfukle, Glenn Miller, KISS, Kansas, Will Smith, lots lots more

D: Home made potpie(Chicken, pork or beef),Doctored Pizzas, Turkey breast...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Computer, My cats, food, books, Raspberry Grean Tea, water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
big target.. I think about thinking.. I contemplate Ideas.. they vary widely.. Ask if you want to know. roleplayinggames
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching TV and sleeping...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll answer most any question an idividual presses on me, but I won't post things for a prurient society. ((points for knowing what Prurient is with out looking it up))
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like Intelligent conversations, You like to debate/argue controvertial ideas/topics, You want to get to know someone different.

Or you're at least interesting and close and want to get together. The kinkier the better