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53 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 8
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Passionate, intense, and open-minded. I gravitate towards people with whom I can grow and thrive.

I stand out in a group, I am tall and have been told that I initially look intimidating, but I'm exceptional at connecting with all kinds of people in all kinds of situations and having them feel welcome. I have genuine curiosity to know people and explore them. I'm skilled at placing high-quality attention on people and asking questions that draw them out and turn them on.

I'm very involved with Human Awareness Institute (HAI). Their workshops on love, intimacy, and sexuality are amazing. Through these, I've learned more about myself and how to relate to others in the past four years than I have in most of my life. Come check out a free mini-workshop in the Bay Area:

I love self-work, I thrive in connection with people, and I like to try new things.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to make my life better, and improve the quality of life for others.
I’m really good at
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Giving focus and attention, playing, and speaking to groups. I'm really good at finding interesting places to see and things to do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People I meet remember me. I like to meet new people and engage them in interesting conversations, and they remember my first impression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: I like going to restaurants for spicy, ethnic foods that are difficult to make at home. But I cook very well when I take the time and have some help to eat it.
Movies: adventure, science fiction, travel themes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Exotic and spicy foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to maximize my life to its fullest potential in all arenas.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing about my time off work is typical. I'm usually looking for some good food or going to an event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you ask, I'll share just about anything with you. I've found that communicating in a completely open and honest way is a wonderful way to expand my connection with others.
You should message me if
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You have a free mind. You like to actually connect and be authentic and vulnerable.