PLEASE Don't email me from Manila or Beijing telling me how wonderful my profile is. In fact, if you haven't bothered to fill out your own, I'll grill you like a BBQ on here long before I text, phone with an Unblocked ID. Also, please dont ask me to contact you on some other email ID than the one here before we meet in person. ALL requests like that come from the Nigerian/Ghana and guys posing as women scammers.
After being on the internet trying to meet the last great love of my life. I've decided to take a bit of writing artistic license to just talk to those of you that are reading this. Please know that I seek connection heading towards love and companionship.
I want to meet the woman who feels my written words here resonating in her in a vibrant way, where she cant wait to meet me yesterday to start the tomorrows.
I use Caps in my narrative below for you to imagine vocal emphasis or to make a point as if you were hearing that emphasis in my voice.
IF (a big IF) I have clicked on LIKE and might have emailed you, and all you have posted is a picture or 2 and a minimal profile, here is what you know:
"I FOUND YOUR PICTURE ATTRACTIVE TO MY PERSONAL TASTE OF WHAT MY EYES TELL ME I LIKE"
Ladies, don't you want the man you choose to ADORE you at his basic core level? THAT is what physical attraction is to MALES (and us REAL men).
Now on to the rest of my dating sales pitch. Here is where we crow about how wonderful we are and why you should want to meet me. (Think the Nike slogan)
I want to meet the last great love of my life. I want to take all of my energy and make her feel cherished, exalted and appreciated.
Online dating is hard. Most times it's hard because of our own approach.
I'm trying to make it simpler at least for the women reading this to explain myself the same way I'd do it in person if we had a chance meeting and you were interested in me.
Online is simple really. It's just a way to meet someone new with a chance to know a few things about them OTHER than how they look. Online gives you an opportunity to get to meet people outside of your daily travels of work, the supermarket or your hometown. Once contact has been made it's just Dating 101
I feel better than I did at 40, and I felt wonderfully young back then. My kids laugh at their friend's saying "Your Dad sure doesn't ACT like his age!"
I really like affection, kissing and the endorphins we both get. It's what drives a man to pursue. It's why I'm NOT on here for text/email buddies or platonic friends.
Most that know me regard me as the warmest, nicest, kindest and most giving man anyone has ever met. I just happen to speak truths unabashedly without fear. This causes the faint-of heart, low self esteem crowd to sometimes TAKE offense. (since offense is never given)
Imagine I am the man of your dreams, the real deal. Imagine that all you have to do is to be REAL and not play games, email me then meet and have a REAL conversation. Imagine that. Real
I want a lover and playmate in my next mate. Note I said a LOVER, not a bootycall. I know what it's like when my mate and I are lovers. The ENERGY the PASSION, the DESIRE permeates each of our beings making us WANT to be with them, and helps us get beyond the hiccups that happen in relationships. The intimate connection that two people can have is one of the most unique things in the animal kingdom.
Instead of trying to write the perfect paragraph of fantasy-driven descriptive words to make you feel/believe I fit your fantasy, I decided to just be REAL and be the kind, loving, honest man that I am.
The ONLY part of this site's personality evaluation that is totally wrong is about me not being compassionate. I raised my children by myself but also made sure to take care of their mother secretly and at arms length in spite of her inability to even care for herself. It was the honorable thing to do.