Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please read the reasons to contact me section at the end.
Out of state and out of country people please not. Do NOT contact
me unless you are moving here within the next 30 days.
I just experienced this site trying to EXTORT money to allow me to
contact any of you women who didn't have my age in your "looking
for" age range. It limits me to clicking on LIKE as a method of
Here is my romance novel-ette. Or, maybe a
light-hearted-hoped-for-fantasy musing of a mature man who is tired
of being alone, wants companionship and to love again. I miss
having someone to love.
I want to meet the woman who feels my written words here resonating
within her in a vibrant way, where she cant wait to meet me
yesterday to start the tomorrows.
I use Caps in my narrative below for vocal emphasis to make a point
as if you were hearing that emphasis in my voice.
Ladies, don't you want the man you choose to ADORE you at his basic
core level? THAT is what physical attraction is to MALES (and us
I want to meet the last great love of my life. I want to take all
of my energy and make her feel cherished, exalted and appreciated.
I want her to have an appreciation of how a well-rounded and well
life-versed man handles problems, fixes things, builds stuff and
contributes to others around him. I want her admiration for how
close and loving a bond I built with my offspring has them WANTING
to spend time with me sharing the joys of life.
Online is simple really. It's just a way to meet someone new with a
chance to know a few things about them other than how they look.
Online gives you an opportunity to get to meet people outside of
your daily travels of work, the supermarket or 2 blocks from you.
Once contact has been made it's just Dating 101.
I tried approaching women in the produce section. Then I tried the
natural foods aisle. I glanced for a long time down the feminine
products aisle too. Almost got banned from my local market. It DID
make me lose some weight though since I ran out of food several
I feel better than I did at 40, and I felt wonderfully young back
I really like affection, kissing and the endorphins we both get.
It's what drives a man like me to pursue. It's why I'm NOT on here
for text/email buddies or platonic friends.
Most that know me regard me as the warmest, nicest, kindest and
most giving man they have ever met. I just happen to speak truths
unabashedly & without fear.
Imagine I am the man of your dreams, the real deal. Imagine that
all you have to do is to be REAL and not play games. Imagine that
all you have to do is email me, talk with me on the phone to
arrange a 1st meeting, then meet and have a REAL
I want a lover and playmate in my next mate. Note I said a LOVER,
not a bootycall. I know what it's like when my mate and I are
lovers. The ENERGY the PASSION, the DESIRE permeates each of our
beings making us WANT to be with them, and helps us get beyond the
hiccups that happen in relationships. The intimate connection that
two people can have is one of the most unique things in the animal
The ONLY part of this site's personality evaluation that is totally
wrong is about me not being compassionate. I raised my children by
myself but also made sure to take care of their mother secretly and
at arms length in spite of her inability to even care for herself.
It was the honorable thing to do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Helping others. Building businesses. Inventing. I own 12 patents,
currently working on my next one.
Being a great dad to my adult offspring & a wonderful O'Pa to
my grandkid. Had my first O'Pa overnight recently. It was magical
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Open Communication, Kissing. Natural healing
I'm also very intuitive. My "other" fluent language is Venusian
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How calm, confident and self-assured I am.
Oh, that and my charming smile and how my humor puts strangers at
My humor is a bit offbeat.
Airline reservation agent: With your flight you get a choice of
Me: I'll have an onion.
Agent: We might have some turbulence
Me: I'll stick with the onion.
Me:What time does the 11:06 get to Houston.
Agent: It arrives at 11:06
Bonus points if you know the routine that is from and LIKE that
type of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Dagny Taggart was a fictional iconic example of what is totally
missing today in our society. I would be her John Galt equivalent.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many blonde blue-eyed women list "Native American" as their
ethnicity on this site.
I wonder why I'm not getting more contact from the women on here OR
interested responses to the little bit of contact I initiate.
I also wonder how women always seem to know how to pose in such a
flattering way to make their pictures on here look so good.
Note on the above sentence. I think I have that one figured out.
I'm adding it to my upcoming standup routine. Stay tuned
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Shark Tank & honing my business plans. My now-divorced
best friend and I worked out a every-other-friday-dinner schedule
to catch up on all the missed dinners together during his marriage.
Oh, we didn't have to get the schedule approved by a judge.
The "Art of Business & Capitalism" might be the title of my
Unless I keep writing "Online Dating for over-40 Dummies". I'm
already on chapter 8 with 4 more to go!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm being real on here. I want someone just as real as I am.
I figured might as well own up to the truth that I am a passionate
Q. What is the term for a relationship without passion?
A. Platonic Friendship. I already have enough of those.
If we connect, you will KNOW how much I desire you each and every
moment of every day. You will feel cherished as a woman.
Who on here is VIBRANT & PASSIONATE enough to meet me?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you want to meet an old-school REAL man who is
unabashedly open & communicative.
DONT message me if you didn't have the patience or take the time to
read the whole profile.
Oh. New rule. (Thanks Bill Maher) TWO emails and an exchange of
phone numbers, then we TALK for a short bit and plan our first
casual meeting IN PERSON.
I WONT engage in long emails. Emailing is not dating. Nothing is
learned about the other through email except what you IMAGINE my
words mean. If you are too afraid to meet in person, you are too
afraid to live a real life.
Note: I sometimes use my phone to peruse the Quickmatch list of
women that this site provides while waiting in line. I will click
"LIKE" on someone to bookmark them for a more in-depth viewing when
I get home. If you get a notice from the site saying I did that,
AND like what you read in my short little blurb above, reach out
and initiate contact instead of waiting for me to. It ISNT the
Who are you looking for?
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