I'm an ethically non-monogamous non-toppy top (sometimes a 'service top,') a creative and entertaining non-domly dom, and sometimes a switch. Not exclusively kinky, but I lean strongly that way, and get along well with those who do.
I'm in a long-term, stable, and rewarding primary relationship. I am not looking for romance, new dating partners, or committed relationships, but for friends who share common interests. I'm good to talk and collaborate with, sapiosexual, fun to be around, and test out as an ENFJ, if you put stock in that sort of thing.
Rather than write a bunch of stuff on this page, I've written a number of comments on the various questions with the idea that you'll see what I think about things that you're interested in. That's the theory, anyway. Let me know how it works.
I've got an OKC profile that's more conventional than this one, with photos, etc., and once I know you better I'll point you there. I made this profile because Fetlife kind of skeeves me out.
If you're interested or curious about me, my profile, or what I write about, please drop me a note!