A little about me first! I wake up every morning and go to the gym before work. I put up a picture of the changes I have undergone in the past few months. Being healthy and in shape is a lifestyle rather than a fad diet, and it is also something I would like for you to share with me.
I am the guy who puts a lot of time into planning a date, the guy that puts a card in the car door while you're asleep or writes a note on the bathroom mirror with a bar of soap. I would like for you to have a similar take on these sorts of things. It is a drag to constantly give all of the time and either have it feel like it is not appreciated or feel like you aren't as excited about things as I am all the time. The relationships that make it 50 years are the relationships where the people in it are constantly falling in love over and over again.
On my current playlist in the car (I love turning off the navigation and getting lost looking at things and eating lunch in a small town no one has heard of lol) I have Duncan Sheik, Dash Berlin, Stevie Ray Vaughan, The Goo Goo Dolls, Don Omar, Jay-Z, John Michael Montgomery, Stone Temple Pilots, The Fray, Santana, Dada Life, Naughty By Nature... etc. I think you get the point!
While I am quite the softie when it comes to romance, I tend to think of myself as a very old school "man". I am very direct, no BS person who has a firm handshake, looks people in the eye and takes care of home. I would like the woman I am with to feel safe with me, and know that I would never let anything happen to her. I am capable of detaching myself from emotion when I need to make decisions and I am great at listening to her when there is a problem. I don't hang up the phone mad, I don't leave when I am upset. I do recognize the fact that people need time to think, but the flip side of that is --- what happens if something terrible happens to them during the cool down and those angry exchanges are the last exchanges you have -- so I prefer to handle it now and get on with the fairy tale.
I have a dry sense of humor, and a strong wit. I like people who are sharp and can have a heated discussion where we have different sides, but it doesn't become an argument. I like to discuss things intelligently. I have a very strong personality and I am constantly learning. I love to ask 'why' to a point it is almost annoying. =P
I am in the process of learning Spanish, I just signed up for salsa classes on Sunday nights, and I have a weird work schedule. I work Thursday - Monday. Hopefully this isn't a problem for you.
As far as what I am looking for goes.... Physically I like a woman who is fit, but still has some curves. Mentally I would like a woman who is open to new things, has new things to offer me and wants a partner in crime to conquer the world =)
If you would like to know anything in deeper detail feel free to ask! I am a pretty open book!